Hi I'm really puzzled about this guy: So my friend set us up, we talked in email for a while and decided to meet for dinner. Then we met and he wasn't spectacular and seemed way too self-protective, can't carry on a conversation with him, like he also retreats after 2 sentences. Anyway so he paid for dinner and we bid goodnight. At this point I was like hmm I'm not sure, kinda iffy, but leaning towards no. Then no emails or phone calls for 2 weeks! I was like phew, lack of interest mutually. And then suddenly he asked for dinner again. I was like umm sure one more date. This time he suggested movie and drinks afterwards. I was like okay...... sure. But at this point, I'm pretty sure I'm not interested. The guy is too selfish he finished the shared appetizer cuz "it was good" I didn't say a word, and was like sure I need that diet. Afterwards again nothing for a week, at this point I'm really puzzled. Although I'm not interested, but what's the deal? Is he just rude? socially inept? playing hard to get? not interested?