So one of my cats went to a new home last Satuday. It was necessary because my other two cats picked on her too much and she was miserable. She was constantly peeing all over the apartment- a lot of times immediatly after being chased after or after being kicked off the coffee table (where she liked to hide... until she peed on it and we had to say no to her being up there.) My sister-in-law had a friend who's been wanting a cat for a long time, has had pets before, and understands that this cat was previously abused, needs to be an only pet, and needs lots of attention. It was really hard because she was my oldest pet and pretty much the first I had since I lived on my own. I got an email yesterday from the girl who took her and she's very concerned. Sadie is still barely eating and barely drinking. She hasn't pooped at all. She's peed once, but I don't think it was in the litter box. She seems to hate the litter box- hates the feel of the litter on her paws. I sent back an email suggesting the crystal litter or perhaps sawdust- something we hadn't tried because we figured her bathroom problem was anxiety and hating sharing the box with other cats. Now I'm worried. How long is normal for a cat to adjust to new living situations? I know it's normal for them to be reclusive for awhile, but it worries me that she's not eating. Is this normal? Should I bring her back home? Agh. Thanks.