my birthday is coming up this month, and although it's not a special age birthday (23), I want to buy myself a ring (b/c bf refuses to buy me a ring except THE ring) to wear on my right hand. I kinda settled for a diamond band ring as I found one I really liked when we were on vacation but it was too expensive and it was from the gift shop of our resort...LOL. So i was looking today, and I found a diamond band..and a diamond eternity band. I was leaning more towards the eternity diamond band, but now I'm thinking that I should just get the half eternity diamond band (?!?!...it's like the eternity except well it doesn't have diamonds all around probably 50%). I changed my mind because well, 1) they both look the same from the top 2) I'm on the computer ALLL day an dALL night that I do'nt want to bang up the diamonds on the bottom of the eternity... 3) well it's just my first ring, and it's just something I want to get for ME and I want to be conservative about it... what are your opinions??? oh..and 4) My boyfriend thinks I might lose it too...lol. the eternity ring .40 carats and the other half eternity (it's what I will call it) is .20 carats ..nothing too blinging but just something small for a wee almost 23 yr old college girl! lol. I'd appreciate opinions!!