So school has started and I am shocked or totally out of the loop with what I have seen: Now mind you these are on the 8-9 year old girls..... 1) spray tan or tan from a bottle???? WHY???? 2) Blond highlights on more than one child....maybe not too strange since the boys have done it in the past at this age. 3) makeup--usually eye and lip gloss. The lip gloss I can say OK to. 4)shaving legs with a few little cheerleaders who now make fun of the other girls so now the other girls think there is something wrong with them. 5) Dress code has been really cute, the girls looks so pretty and hip but some are really mean to others. I am just so shocked at what they can say to each other. 6) I could swear one girl has fake nails but she is doing the mall beauty pagent thing so maybe this is normal for that crowd. So is this happening in other places?????? What do mothers think????