I had my first child at 38 and my 2nd at 41. My husband and I did a lot of fun things before we had children. We moved around quite a bit. We traveled. We took risks in just packing up and moving half way across the country and moving to different towns when we found a place we liked more. So many of my friends had a baby one to two years after they were married and some seemed quite angry that they had kids. I think some were a bit immature at the age of 21 to have a child. We were married for 17 years before I got pregnant. Doctors said nothing was wrong but it just didn't happen. Being older I feel I have so much patience with my kids. I don't sweat the small stuff. My husband and I cherish each minute with them and they are really the love of our lives. My husband is a wonderful father, I don't know if he could have done this when he was younger because of the long working hours. Now that we both work from home it is great, we are able to be with the kids for everything.
When I had my baby at 38 I met 3 women who were also having their first child and they were in the same age group, so it was nice to have a support system.
There is no hurry. Just enjoy what you want out of life. Things have a way of falling in to place.
Hugs.
When I had my baby at 38 I met 3 women who were also having their first child and they were in the same age group, so it was nice to have a support system.
There is no hurry. Just enjoy what you want out of life. Things have a way of falling in to place.
Hugs.