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H-Less · May 12th, 2009, 03:55 PM

Thank you to all the TPFers who have been supporting me during my rollercoaster ride to choose the perfect present for my 10th wedding anniversary.

I appreciate your help & support more than I can say

!

If you have been tracking my other threads (thought it wise to combine) you already know that I am having a hard time narrowing down my options based on my criteria...I have been going in so many different directions and losing focus of what I truly want. I thought if I wrote it down it would be easier for me to stay on track...
This is what I want:
-A signature necklace
-A piece that fits into my lifestyle (working mom) & budget
-Something chic/elegant and comfortable
-Not too trendy--something to build out a collection with and eventually pass down to my DD
-Not too glam for everyday (signature piece) b/c I want to wear it, not store it in my drawer (which happens a lot with my other necklaces listed above)
-Something within my budget from an iconic design house (VCA, Bvlgari, Cartier, Boucheron, etc). At this point I have looked at pieces ranging from $3,500-$10,000 USD I am hoping to not go above $7K.

I tend to obsess about jewelry purchases.
1) Because I love, love, love jewelry
2) Because I save up these types of purchases i.e. I don't part with the money easily

so I want it to be the best that I can afford and something that I will wear & treasure. Keep in mind I only have two other necklaces that I would consider finer jewelry (gurhan 5 diamond yg & a strand of pearls from my Granny) so I think WG or Rose gold are the way to go...

Okay, now that you are caught up on my backstory I will give you one final recap of the current contenders. Tell me what you really think. I need you to be brutally honest here. Thanks in advance for your help and continued support.

See current short-list of contenders below. Please add something if you think I am missing something...
So far:
-VCA Alhambra single motif in WG/pave
-VCA Papillion WG/GMOP (with diamonds)
-VCA Frivole diamond/WG pendant
-VCA Socrate diamond WG/pendant
-VCA Fleurette diamond WG/pendant ( small size )
-I think I am missing one, but you get the drift (WG/diamond pendants are all underconsideration

).

-Boucheron Ava diamond pendant (teardrop shape).

-Bvlgari .5 CT diamond pendant (crown setting--although I think I am not that interested b/c I could have my jewelry do a single diamond easily and more economically).

That's it for now. Thanks again for your help...
-H.

R0lyaT390 · May 12th, 2009, 05:02 PM

You've got one seriously amazing dilemma.

I have got to say that I looked at everything you listed and fell in love with the papillon pendant. It's the butterfly, am I correct? If it is, I think it is an absolutely gorgeous piece; very unique without being "trendy". I think it would surely become your signature. It would also transition nicely from day to nighttime wear, IMO.

wow! good luck with your choice

Sammyjoe · May 12th, 2009, 05:14 PM

H-less its a lovely position to be in, we like eye candy on this site!! Can you post pics, so we can visualise your options.

Sammyjoe · May 12th, 2009, 05:16 PM

I would go for a single motif magic (larger) necklace and the matching earrings

Ascella · May 12th, 2009, 06:09 PM

My vote goes to the VCA Frivole pendant.

La Vanguardia · May 12th, 2009, 06:14 PM

If you would like to be able to build a collection out of the necklace as you stated, I'd go for the single motif Alhambra or the Socrate necklaces as they have the matching pieces that you can purchase later on. I've seen and tried on the Frivole but to be honest, if you scratch it, you will see it quite clearly due to its design.

H-Less · May 12th, 2009, 06:52 PM

Here are some of the pictures (BIG thanks to Vancleef Fan b/c most of them I borrowed them from your posts...I hope that is OK - let me know if it isn't and I will remove)

-VCA Alhambra single motif in WG/pave --Lower left. I couldn't find a pic of the pendant, but you get the idea from the earrings just visualize one with a chain attached on left & right.

-VCA Papillion WG/GMOP (with diamonds) -- Bottom roll middle

-VCA Frivole diamond/WG pendant -- Upper left

-VCA Socrate diamond WG/pendant -- Upper right. I couldn't find a pic of the pendant, but you get the idea from the ring just visualize one flower with a chain attached on left & right.

-VCA Fleurette diamond WG/pendant ( small size ) -- I couldn't find a picture

-Boucheron Ava diamond pendant (teardrop shape) -- Lower right. I couldn't find a pic of the exact shape, but you get the idea (wondering if not special looking enough)

OOO... What about Flower lace? too blingy?

H-Less · May 12th, 2009, 06:54 PM

And pic for VCA flower lace pendant. I think it would be too blingy for me everyday.

misssoph · May 12th, 2009, 08:10 PM

They are all gorgeous but Im not sure about the butterfly one. It seems to me to be more suitable for a younger person rather than a mature woman, and I understand that you want something to wear for a long time.

couturequeen · May 12th, 2009, 09:15 PM

I think a single pendant is classic and versatile (day to evening, casual to dressy). My favorite is the VCA Socrate diamond WG/pendant. I think the butterfly is trendy (reminds me of Mariah Carey).

H-Less · May 12th, 2009, 09:58 PM

Originally Posted by couturequeen

I think a single pendant is classic and versatile (day to evening, casual to dressy). My favorite is the VCA Socrate diamond WG/pendant. I think the butterfly is trendy (reminds me of Mariah Carey).

CoutureQueen,
I love that one too. It seems very dainty. I will need to try on to figure it out for sure

.
-H

H-Less · May 12th, 2009, 10:01 PM

Originally Posted by Sammyjoe

I would go for a single motif magic (larger) necklace and the matching earrings

SammyJoe,
I hadn't even thought of that. OMG I need to add it to my list now. Oh no more choices...

H-Less · May 12th, 2009, 10:03 PM

Originally Posted by La Vanguardia

If you would like to be able to build a collection out of the necklace as you stated, I'd go for the single motif Alhambra or the Socrate necklaces as they have the matching pieces that you can purchase later on. I've seen and tried on the Frivole but to be honest, if you scratch it, you will see it quite clearly due to its design.

La Vanguardia,
I like where you are going with that. Truly a starter piece. And boy that would make future presents from DH much easier to identify. Win-Win for both of us.

jayjay77 · May 13th, 2009, 03:41 PM

As much as I love the butterfly (I would like to get it myself some day) I don't see it as an everyday piece. So I vote for the VCA Alahambra pendant with diamonds for everyday. It's very understated and chic and I love the simplicity.

Sammyjoe · May 13th, 2009, 03:54 PM

Originally Posted by H-Less

SammyJoe,
I hadn't even thought of that. OMG I need to add it to my list now. Oh no more choices...

I just think when you are spending the sort of money VCA costs, it would be nice to get classic pieces that you can wear everyday if you choose and items you will not have to worry too much about, sort of like spreading the love

May 12th, 2009, 03:55 PM	#1
H-Less OP And so sad about it! Joined: Aug 2007 Location: Bay Area Posts: 208	The anniversay present SAGA... Thank you to all the TPFers who have been supporting me during my rollercoaster ride to choose the perfect present for my 10th wedding anniversary. I appreciate your help & support more than I can say ! If you have been tracking my other threads (thought it wise to combine) you already know that I am having a hard time narrowing down my options based on my criteria...I have been going in so many different directions and losing focus of what I truly want. I thought if I wrote it down it would be easier for me to stay on track... This is what I want: -A signature necklace -A piece that fits into my lifestyle (working mom) & budget -Something chic/elegant and comfortable -Not too trendy--something to build out a collection with and eventually pass down to my DD -Not too glam for everyday (signature piece) b/c I want to wear it, not store it in my drawer (which happens a lot with my other necklaces listed above) -Something within my budget from an iconic design house (VCA, Bvlgari, Cartier, Boucheron, etc). At this point I have looked at pieces ranging from $3,500-$10,000 USD I am hoping to not go above $7K. I tend to obsess about jewelry purchases. 1) Because I love, love, love jewelry 2) Because I save up these types of purchases i.e. I don't part with the money easily so I want it to be the best that I can afford and something that I will wear & treasure. Keep in mind I only have two other necklaces that I would consider finer jewelry (gurhan 5 diamond yg & a strand of pearls from my Granny) so I think WG or Rose gold are the way to go... Okay, now that you are caught up on my backstory I will give you one final recap of the current contenders. Tell me what you really think. I need you to be brutally honest here. Thanks in advance for your help and continued support. See current short-list of contenders below. Please add something if you think I am missing something... So far: -VCA Alhambra single motif in WG/pave -VCA Papillion WG/GMOP (with diamonds) -VCA Frivole diamond/WG pendant -VCA Socrate diamond WG/pendant -VCA Fleurette diamond WG/pendant ( small size ) -I think I am missing one, but you get the drift (WG/diamond pendants are all underconsideration ). -Boucheron Ava diamond pendant (teardrop shape). -Bvlgari .5 CT diamond pendant (crown setting--although I think I am not that interested b/c I could have my jewelry do a single diamond easily and more economically). That's it for now. Thanks again for your help... -H.
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May 12th, 2009, 05:02 PM	#2
R0lyaT390 Member Joined: Oct 2008 Posts: 72	You've got one seriously amazing dilemma. I have got to say that I looked at everything you listed and fell in love with the papillon pendant. It's the butterfly, am I correct? If it is, I think it is an absolutely gorgeous piece; very unique without being "trendy". I think it would surely become your signature. It would also transition nicely from day to nighttime wear, IMO. wow! good luck with your choice
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May 12th, 2009, 05:14 PM	#3
Sammyjoe Night and Day Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 5,839	H-less its a lovely position to be in, we like eye candy on this site!! Can you post pics, so we can visualise your options.
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May 12th, 2009, 05:16 PM	#4
Sammyjoe Night and Day Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 5,839	I would go for a single motif magic (larger) necklace and the matching earrings
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May 12th, 2009, 06:09 PM	#5
Ascella Elysium Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 337	My vote goes to the VCA Frivole pendant.
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May 12th, 2009, 06:14 PM	#6
La Vanguardia avec deux armoires Joined: Dec 2005 Location: 43 countries, 300 cities Posts: 8,218	If you would like to be able to build a collection out of the necklace as you stated, I'd go for the single motif Alhambra or the Socrate necklaces as they have the matching pieces that you can purchase later on. I've seen and tried on the Frivole but to be honest, if you scratch it, you will see it quite clearly due to its design.

May 12th, 2009, 08:10 PM	#9
misssoph Member Joined: Apr 2009 Posts: 6	They are all gorgeous but Im not sure about the butterfly one. It seems to me to be more suitable for a younger person rather than a mature woman, and I understand that you want something to wear for a long time.
misssoph Member Joined: Apr 2009 Posts: 6

May 12th, 2009, 09:15 PM	#10
couturequeen BV nut Joined: Jan 2007 Location: The District Posts: 1,511	I think a single pendant is classic and versatile (day to evening, casual to dressy). My favorite is the VCA Socrate diamond WG/pendant. I think the butterfly is trendy (reminds me of Mariah Carey).
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May 13th, 2009, 03:41 PM	#14
jayjay77 Member Joined: Nov 2006 Location: New York Posts: 1,616	As much as I love the butterfly (I would like to get it myself some day) I don't see it as an everyday piece. So I vote for the VCA Alahambra pendant with diamonds for everyday. It's very understated and chic and I love the simplicity.

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