[PinkSuadeSoho]

My avatar is my tattoo, it's a tribute to someting special. I have it on my left ......

[_so_what?]

Originally Posted by misschbby

ozzy osbourne said if you want to be different nowadays do not get a tatoo everyone has one

Oh my, Ozzy was talking about me!
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[DesigningStyle]

I promised I would share a tattoo or two! So here you are. My rose on my foot. I have had it for almost 15 years and still love it! The stem goes right between the little piggies!



I did post it here in the shoe section and it only seemed fair that the image appear here too after all I promised you guys the pic first! My high heeled Crocs just arrived and I love them!

[mariabdc]

Thank you, again...
I am still debating... I should have visited the tattoo parlor to check their designs yesterday, but have been landed with so much work that i wont be able to go downtown for a while... Oh, the joy of being a freelancer!

[imyflutterby]

When I finally managed to get a divorce, it was such a huge, life-changing event for me, and I wanted to commemorate it too. I got a tattoo on my lower back (tramp stamp) and every time I get a glimpse of it in the mirror, it reminds me of how far I've come, and how much better my life is now - I don't think I'll ever regret it, it almost signifies liberation for me.

I discussed the design with the tattoo artist, and he put on paper what I was trying to describe. I wanted a butterfly in the middle as that signifies many things to me, and on either side is a design which almost looks like thorns.

I would definitely suggest you talk to the artist as they may be able to come up with some ideas for you. Good luck, I hope you manage to find something you love.

[mariabdc]

jadecs89 -I went through this situation 2 years ago and i thoguht long and hard and i felt it was also something i had to do to mark a new stage in life..
I got a star on my lower back about the size of a 10p with a cross inside it and little stars outlining the star. I still think its beautiful and it really means so much to me, It didnt hurt - it felt like cat scratches if that helps!

Originally Posted by imyflutterby

When I finally managed to get a divorce, it was such a huge, life-changing event for me, and I wanted to commemorate it too. I got a tattoo on my lower back (tramp stamp) and every time I get a glimpse of it in the mirror, it reminds me of how far I've come, and how much better my life is now - I don't think I'll ever regret it, it almost signifies liberation for me.
I discussed the design with the tattoo artist, and he put on paper what I was trying to describe. I wanted a butterfly in the middle as that signifies many things to me, and on either side is a design which almost looks like thorns.
I would definitely suggest you talk to the artist as they may be able to come up with some ideas for you. Good luck, I hope you manage to find something you love.

It is so good to hear that other women have felt the need to commemorate this life-changing event on their bodies...

My husband and I split up about 10 weeks ago after struggling for 18 months to save our marriage...
When he fist talked about leaving, my youngest son was just 15 days old, so i have been through a lot over the last year and a half... I had to nurse a baby and save my marriage at the same time... I dont think i/we have failed, it just wasnt to meant to be...


Anyway, I feel so relieved, happy and optimistic now, that i need to express it in every possible way... Life is good and i am going to live it to the full... I am a goddess and I deserve no less ... And so does every woman/tPFer....

[Cat_uk]

Originally Posted by mariabdc

It is so good to hear that other women have felt the need to commemorate this life-changing event on their bodies...

My husband and I split up about 10 weeks ago after struggling for 18 months to save our marriage...
When he fist talked about leaving, my youngest son was just 15 days old, so i have been through a lot over the last year and a half... I had to nurse a baby and save my marriage at the same time... I dont think i/we have failed, it just wasnt to meant to be...


Anyway, I feel so relieved, happy and optimistic now, that i need to express it in every possible way... Life is good and i am going to live it to the full... I am a goddess and I deserve no less ... And so does every woman/tPFer....

It does sound like you have had a hell of a time, and I think coming out of the other side of it is def something to celebrate, and if a tatoo is what you want to do I say go for it. I'm so pleased that you feel so positive about everything, it shows how strong u must be!

[brigitte0810]

I agree, it really sounds as if you've been through hell... so sorry to hear that you had to go through that after giving birth to your son, makes me really sad and angry for you...
But then, as you describe it you sound so happy and strong now, I' amazed! Congratulations, that's wonderful! Probably it is better to be free if it simply didn't work for you...much better than being stuck in hell!
yes, do it, get a tattoo, do everything you feel you ahve to, you are entitled to and this would be a good symbolic act and sign for your new freedom!

[lanasyogamama]

You are so strong, such a survivor! I can't wait to see a picture of whatever you choose.

And kudos to you for breastfeeding with all that other stress in your life!

[divnanata]

Goddess wings?

[imonpurseblog]

I don't have a tattoo, but I considered one a couple of years ago when I was having a tough time. I ended up buying a purse to express it instead. It was the Isabella Fiore "Me Hearty". It has a tattoo design on it of a heart with chains. I'm not suggesting this for you just sharing. I still carry the purse and I get lots of compliments every time.

Sorry to hear about your tough times and I hope you find a way to express it somehow. I certainly can understand your need/desire to do so. I was even considering piercing my eyebrow . I'm glad now that I didn't though.

[mariabdc]

Thank you for your kind words, ladies...
I believe the reason i feel so strong and optimistic is that, in the end, i decided that I had had enough, took control of the situation and asked him to leave... after that all i felt was relief! Not a single tear, i can assure you, just relief and sheer joy ...
Div, we goddesses lack wings... they could interfere with our incognito activities and wouldnt look nice with high end bags...

[mariabdc]

Originally Posted by lanasyogamama

You are so strong, such a survivor! I can't wait to see a picture of whatever you choose.

And kudos to you for breastfeeding with all that other stress in your life!

Thank you, LYM... I breastfed him for over 11 months until the little rascal decided he preferred more substantial food and quitted... I was quite sad, but i couldnt force him... He is such a stubborn boy!
Breasfeeding is the easiest aspect of motherhood, imo. You just lay back and let it happen (i must say my children have always had a good appetite).... Breastfeeding is so convenient, hygienic and good for the infant...

[chodessa]

Maria..
Thank you so much for sharing your story...it must be difficult to share with us.
I applaud your strength and can't see wait tattoo you decide on.
You definitely deserve it, after childbirth and now for you new found freedom..
You go girl...

[lanasyogamama]

Originally Posted by mariabdc

Thank you, LYM... I breastfed him for over 11 months until the little rascal decided he preferred more substantial food and quitted... I was quite sad, but i couldnt force him... He is such a stubborn boy!
Breasfeeding is the easiest aspect of motherhood, imo. You just lay back and let it happen (i must say my children have always had a good appetite).... Breastfeeding is so convenient, hygienic and good for the infant...

Totally agree, I am very pro breastfeeding. I just mentioned it because I found the first month very painful and difficult, after that it was a piece of cake.