Would you say some thing?

PinkEms · Feb 22nd, 2008, 08:07 PM

Almost a month ago, I went to a party with a friend. We're just friends and I was his "date", but we agreed it was more than cool to talk, mingle, and dance with other people. Anyway, we part ways and I meet this guy, J. J seems nice and we chat and dance. My date comes back and we dance and chill with our friends. I then go to sit with some mutual friends and J is there. I say hey but he acts like too cool to say hi. So, I let it go and he starts to warm up again. I give him my phone number. Before he leaves he tell me "I had so muchb fun.... Are you really friends with so and so? I just don't think you should hang out with him. he's not really nice." So, I say, "If you ever wanna talk call. We could go out for coffee or go to a concert (we liked the same music). My friends are my friends, though. I know who's there for me."

Time passes, no call. I bumped into his sister, but I don't really like her. She was J really likes you, he wants you to call him (he never gave me his number), he wants to go out, ect. I also found out, he lives in CA.

My friend, who I went to the party with, emails me. A friend emailed him because he was added as a friend to J's journal.

" I only spoke to two girls when I there. I accidentally made one of them cry and the other one...may or may not have motives that aren't so cool."

That's what he wrote about me. I don't know who he made cry, but the second part is about me.

I think he's out of line. He knew I was there with someone and it's not like I approached him, he approached me. I wasn't on a real date or anything anyway.

Here's what he said about my friend. "He walked like he owns the play. I don't think he was invited. [his sister's name] says he was kicked out by his room mate."

Would you say some thing?

elizat · Feb 22nd, 2008, 08:18 PM

No, I would not. I would not get upset either. Really, you don't have a relationship w/ this person and it may sound harsh, but I don't see why you would care. He's basically a stranger. I wouldn't waste my time w/ saying anything or even caring. It does not really matter in the grand scheme of things, you know?

PinkEms · Feb 22nd, 2008, 08:21 PM

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Originally Posted by elizat

No, I would not. I would not get upset either. Really, you don't have a relationship w/ this person and it may sound harsh, but I don't see why you would care. He's basically a stranger. I wouldn't waste my time w/ saying anything or even caring. It does not really matter in the grand scheme of things, you know?

I'm more annoyed that he feels the need to be nice to my face and make it seem like he thinks I'm cool or something, then behind my back he's basically saying I'm playing games ewith him. He's the one playing games. It's kind of immature, but it annoys me. You're right, though. I won't say any thing.

Batel · Feb 22nd, 2008, 08:26 PM

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Originally Posted by PinkEms

I'm more annoyed that he feels the need to be nice to my face and make it seem like he thinks I'm cool or something, then behind my back he's basically saying I'm playing games ewith him. He's the one playing games. It's kind of immature, but it annoys me. You're right, though. I won't say any thing.

He's acting immature, he's not worth your time or your effort. Elizat is right it's not worth getting upset over just forget about him and move on, don't let him get you down!

keya · Feb 23rd, 2008, 09:39 AM

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Originally Posted by elizat

No, I would not. I would not get upset either. Really, you don't have a relationship w/ this person and it may sound harsh, but I don't see why you would care. He's basically a stranger. I wouldn't waste my time w/ saying anything or even caring. It does not really matter in the grand scheme of things, you know?

ITA

anneonimiss · Feb 23rd, 2008, 10:06 AM

ITA, too. Saying something would just create more drama (which is undoubtedly what he wants). He sounds utterly unimportant (which is exactly what he doesn't want). Don't validate him.

gillianna · Feb 23rd, 2008, 10:57 AM

He is a drama queen and if he has nothing better in his life to do than write this garbage what does that say about him as a person.
Move on and forget about him.....he is not worth your time or energy. Ignore him if you ever see him again.

Florasun · Feb 23rd, 2008, 10:59 AM

I agree with the others - don't say anything. Since we haven't seen or talked to the guy, it's difficult to judge what his motives are, but it concerns me that first of all, he passed judgment on your friend and freely gave you his opinion, and secondly, he posted junk about you. Life's difficult enough without inviting a drama queen in to stir up trouble.

BagAngel · Feb 23rd, 2008, 11:00 AM

Let it go, he's not worth it!

PinkEms · Feb 23rd, 2008, 01:05 PM

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Originally Posted by anneonimiss

ITA, too. Saying something would just create more drama (which is undoubtedly what he wants). He sounds utterly unimportant (which is exactly what he doesn't want). Don't validate him.

Thanks. I never thought of it like that.

chodessa · Feb 23rd, 2008, 02:53 PM

His immaturity and negativity is not even worth your time.

Minnie05 · Feb 23rd, 2008, 03:26 PM

yeah, let it go. who is that guy anyway? weird

purplekitty · Feb 23rd, 2008, 05:12 PM

I would just let it go. This guy clearly hasn't grown up out of the high school stage, he sounds very immature and has his own problems. He's not worth your time and energy.

gacats · Feb 23rd, 2008, 05:23 PM

He sounds very untrustworthy. Trying to stay on his good side would take a LOT of work, why would you even want to bother?

kristie · Feb 23rd, 2008, 05:28 PM

Forget him

Who cares what he says/thinks about you, he is SO not worth your time IMO.

Feb 22nd, 2008, 08:07 PM	#1
PinkEms Sofa King Banned	Would you say some thing? Almost a month ago, I went to a party with a friend. We're just friends and I was his "date", but we agreed it was more than cool to talk, mingle, and dance with other people. Anyway, we part ways and I meet this guy, J. J seems nice and we chat and dance. My date comes back and we dance and chill with our friends. I then go to sit with some mutual friends and J is there. I say hey but he acts like too cool to say hi. So, I let it go and he starts to warm up again. I give him my phone number. Before he leaves he tell me "I had so muchb fun.... Are you really friends with so and so? I just don't think you should hang out with him. he's not really nice." So, I say, "If you ever wanna talk call. We could go out for coffee or go to a concert (we liked the same music). My friends are my friends, though. I know who's there for me." Time passes, no call. I bumped into his sister, but I don't really like her. She was J really likes you, he wants you to call him (he never gave me his number), he wants to go out, ect. I also found out, he lives in CA. My friend, who I went to the party with, emails me. A friend emailed him because he was added as a friend to J's journal. " I only spoke to two girls when I there. I accidentally made one of them cry and the other one...may or may not have motives that aren't so cool." That's what he wrote about me. I don't know who he made cry, but the second part is about me. I think he's out of line. He knew I was there with someone and it's not like I approached him, he approached me. I wasn't on a real date or anything anyway. Here's what he said about my friend. "He walked like he owns the play. I don't think he was invited. [his sister's name] says he was kicked out by his room mate." Would you say some thing?

Feb 22nd, 2008, 08:18 PM	#2
elizat Member	Re: Would you say some thing? No, I would not. I would not get upset either. Really, you don't have a relationship w/ this person and it may sound harsh, but I don't see why you would care. He's basically a stranger. I wouldn't waste my time w/ saying anything or even caring. It does not really matter in the grand scheme of things, you know?

Feb 23rd, 2008, 10:06 AM	#6
anneonimiss Z.Z.Z.Z.	Re: Would you say some thing? ITA, too. Saying something would just create more drama (which is undoubtedly what he wants). He sounds utterly unimportant (which is exactly what he doesn't want). Don't validate him. __________________

Feb 23rd, 2008, 10:57 AM	#7
gillianna Member	Re: Would you say some thing? He is a drama queen and if he has nothing better in his life to do than write this garbage what does that say about him as a person. Move on and forget about him.....he is not worth your time or energy. Ignore him if you ever see him again.

Feb 23rd, 2008, 10:59 AM	#8
Florasun Member	Re: Would you say some thing? I agree with the others - don't say anything. Since we haven't seen or talked to the guy, it's difficult to judge what his motives are, but it concerns me that first of all, he passed judgment on your friend and freely gave you his opinion, and secondly, he posted junk about you. Life's difficult enough without inviting a drama queen in to stir up trouble. __________________ The most important things in life aren't things at all!

Feb 23rd, 2008, 11:00 AM	#9
BagAngel LV Moderator Location: UK	Re: Would you say some thing? Let it go, he's not worth it!

Feb 23rd, 2008, 02:53 PM	#11
chodessa Hot Smot and Humble	Re: Would you say some thing? His immaturity and negativity is not even worth your time.

Feb 23rd, 2008, 03:26 PM	#12
Minnie05 BagsBagsBagsBags!!! Location: NY	Re: Would you say some thing? yeah, let it go. who is that guy anyway? weird

Feb 23rd, 2008, 05:12 PM	#13
purplekitty Certified bag addict	Re: Would you say some thing? I would just let it go. This guy clearly hasn't grown up out of the high school stage, he sounds very immature and has his own problems. He's not worth your time and energy.

Feb 23rd, 2008, 05:23 PM	#14
gacats love me some bags! Location: Georgia	Re: Would you say some thing? He sounds very untrustworthy. Trying to stay on his good side would take a LOT of work, why would you even want to bother? __________________ GaCats Proud Navy Mom My 2009 wish list: Chanel Ultimate Soft medium handbag in black Louis Vuitton Panda pochette ( in the works) Something Goyard- yeah, that'll happen.....

Feb 23rd, 2008, 05:28 PM	#15
kristie "H" is for horses?	Re: Would you say some thing? Forget him Who cares what he says/thinks about you, he is SO not worth your time IMO. __________________ Uh oh...I think I may be more in danger of buying a Hermes saddle than a Birkin.......