Would this make you mad?

jfhave · Feb 22nd, 2008, 09:33 PM

My girlfriend and I were sitting around talking about the Lindsey Lohan pics that came out this week (where she is posing like Marilyn Monroe). Anyways, my husband walked in the room and got into the conversation. He didn't know that in the pics she was naked and my friend proceeded to find them online and show him. She made some comment about Lyndseys boobs and had the computer screen turned for him to look at them. I asked her why she would feel the need to show my husband any girls boobs on the internet?! She couldn't believe I would get upset by this. He hadn't asked to see them, mind you. She just took it upon herself to show him....Since then I have asked another friend about the incident and she thought there was nothing wrong with this either...am I nuts?! I don't think it was appropriate at all, does anyone agree?

Miss 2 A · Feb 22nd, 2008, 09:36 PM

I don't think you're nuts

lambiepie · Feb 22nd, 2008, 09:39 PM

I really dont think it matters if your other friend thought it was ok or not.. its all about how you feel. That is your husband and you have every right to be upset about another woman, friend or not, showing him some boobs! And since he didnt even ask to see them that is also a bit weird that she took it upon herself to show him

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I know i would be upset so i am in total agreement with you

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iheartvuitton · Feb 22nd, 2008, 09:44 PM

I wouldn't be mad...but I think it depends on the "friend." I think I can see myself being mad with certain friends doing that...but if it's a friend I'm usually gossiping about celebs with, I wouldn't care.

devoted · Feb 22nd, 2008, 09:45 PM

If I were in that situation, it probably would have been me showing him pics of Lindsay's boobs.....LOL!

If a friend showed him, even in front of me, I would be a little annoyed...only because I would wonder why on earth would she feel comfortable enough around my SO to show him nude pics?!

mrodriquez2006 · Feb 22nd, 2008, 09:49 PM

yeah...i would be pissed off...but i think lohan is ugly...so that would make it a little better

chodessa · Feb 22nd, 2008, 10:08 PM

I don't see what the big deal is...it's not like she showed him her boobs.
She showed him the photos in reference to the topic of conversation.
I am not at all conservative, nor my DH so this would not even be an issue for me.

elizat · Feb 22nd, 2008, 10:09 PM

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Originally Posted by devoted

If I were in that situation, it probably would have been me showing him pics of Lindsay's boobs.....LOL!

Ha, me too! However, I would not be annoyed/mad at all. That's just me though. I think every feeling is valid though. We are all different.

fiatflux · Feb 22nd, 2008, 10:14 PM

I wouldn't be bothered unless it was a friend about whom I had misgivings based on other experiences with her.

wordpast · Feb 22nd, 2008, 10:22 PM

It would not make me mad.

chuggie · Feb 22nd, 2008, 10:22 PM

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Originally Posted by fiatflux

I wouldn't be bothered unless it was a friend about whom I had misgivings based on other experiences with her.

I feel the same way. I wouldn't mind at all if my friends wanted to talk with my DH about nude pics of self-involved celebrities. I suppose I wouldn't want them digging up truly pornographic photos and flashing those around though. Since you were in the room there probably isn't any reason to be concerned. If, however, you had some underlying suspicious about your friend's true motivations, then that would be cause for alarm. Since it upset you, I feel it would be appropriate to somehow mention to your friend that the situation made you uncomfortable. She should respect your wishes.

savvyblonde · Feb 22nd, 2008, 10:28 PM

It wouldn't bother me.

anneonimiss · Feb 22nd, 2008, 11:10 PM

I'm in the "I'd be showing the boobs" club, I fear. But the people I know are pretty relaxed, soooooooo...

Everyone's seen LiLo's gals anyway. This is just a new (and particularly unflattering) permutation...

daphodill84 · Feb 22nd, 2008, 11:15 PM

Hmm... if it was my own BF, I would be the one showing him the nude pics in the first place!! But if it was someone else's bf, I would probably say something along the lines of "oh yeah, we're looking at naked pictures of LL!" and let him check it out himself if he is so inclined to do so.

I agree with fiatflux too though - it wouldn't bother me unless I had issues with the friend for doing things like this.

dallas · Feb 22nd, 2008, 11:23 PM

Goodness me, they're just boobs on a computer screen. Truly, I wouldn't be mad at all.

Feb 22nd, 2008, 09:33 PM	#1
jfhave Member Location: Florida	Would this make you mad? My girlfriend and I were sitting around talking about the Lindsey Lohan pics that came out this week (where she is posing like Marilyn Monroe). Anyways, my husband walked in the room and got into the conversation. He didn't know that in the pics she was naked and my friend proceeded to find them online and show him. She made some comment about Lyndseys boobs and had the computer screen turned for him to look at them. I asked her why she would feel the need to show my husband any girls boobs on the internet?! She couldn't believe I would get upset by this. He hadn't asked to see them, mind you. She just took it upon herself to show him....Since then I have asked another friend about the incident and she thought there was nothing wrong with this either...am I nuts?! I don't think it was appropriate at all, does anyone agree?

Feb 22nd, 2008, 09:36 PM	#2
Miss 2 A Member Location: world	Re: Would this make you mad? I don't think you're nuts

Feb 22nd, 2008, 09:39 PM	#3
lambiepie TIE DYE COME TO MAMA Location: SO CAL	Re: Would this make you mad? I really dont think it matters if your other friend thought it was ok or not.. its all about how you feel. That is your husband and you have every right to be upset about another woman, friend or not, showing him some boobs! And since he didnt even ask to see them that is also a bit weird that she took it upon herself to show him. I know i would be upset so i am in total agreement with you.

Feb 22nd, 2008, 09:44 PM	#4
iheartvuitton Member	Re: Would this make you mad? I wouldn't be mad...but I think it depends on the "friend." I think I can see myself being mad with certain friends doing that...but if it's a friend I'm usually gossiping about celebs with, I wouldn't care. __________________

Feb 22nd, 2008, 09:45 PM	#5
devoted Member	Re: Would this make you mad? If I were in that situation, it probably would have been me showing him pics of Lindsay's boobs.....LOL! If a friend showed him, even in front of me, I would be a little annoyed...only because I would wonder why on earth would she feel comfortable enough around my SO to show him nude pics?!

Feb 22nd, 2008, 09:49 PM	#6
mrodriquez2006 ++Purple Queen++ Location: Austin, Texas	Re: Would this make you mad? yeah...i would be pissed off...but i think lohan is ugly...so that would make it a little better __________________ the unbannable ~~Click here for Albums~~ I may be petite but I bring the HEAT. I'll cut you up like sushi and wear you like GUCCI! I Valentino Petco Fashion Show Winner!! Life's a Beach and I'm just Tanning

Feb 22nd, 2008, 10:08 PM	#7
chodessa Hot Smot and Humble	Re: Would this make you mad? I don't see what the big deal is...it's not like she showed him her boobs. She showed him the photos in reference to the topic of conversation. I am not at all conservative, nor my DH so this would not even be an issue for me.

Feb 22nd, 2008, 10:14 PM	#9
fiatflux Member	Re: Would this make you mad? I wouldn't be bothered unless it was a friend about whom I had misgivings based on other experiences with her.

Feb 22nd, 2008, 10:22 PM	#10
wordpast Member Location: Never Never Land	Re: Would this make you mad? It would not make me mad. __________________

Feb 22nd, 2008, 10:28 PM	#12
savvyblonde Member Location: Southern California	Re: Would this make you mad? It wouldn't bother me. __________________ *Savvyblonde*

Feb 22nd, 2008, 11:10 PM	#13
anneonimiss Z.Z.Z.Z.	Re: Would this make you mad? I'm in the "I'd be showing the boobs" club, I fear. But the people I know are pretty relaxed, soooooooo... Everyone's seen LiLo's gals anyway. This is just a new (and particularly unflattering) permutation... __________________

Feb 22nd, 2008, 11:15 PM	#14
daphodill84 Member	Re: Would this make you mad? Hmm... if it was my own BF, I would be the one showing him the nude pics in the first place!! But if it was someone else's bf, I would probably say something along the lines of "oh yeah, we're looking at naked pictures of LL!" and let him check it out himself if he is so inclined to do so. I agree with fiatflux too though - it wouldn't bother me unless I had issues with the friend for doing things like this. __________________ Wishlist: Grenat, Ink, Sapphire/Violet, Bubblegum, Sahara, Rouge Theatre, '05 White, Amethyst, Electric Blue, Turquoise. RM Rosegold/Whitewash Matinee, Violet Matinee, Tangerine Plan B Hobo, BBW MAM, Rosegold MAM, Ocean Steady, Black Elisha, Getaway Satchel. MAM in every colour! My Collection (Work in Progress): http://forum.purseblog.com/your-bag-...ng-270617.html

Feb 22nd, 2008, 11:23 PM	#15
dallas Ya anno	Re: Would this make you mad? Goodness me, they're just boobs on a computer screen. Truly, I wouldn't be mad at all. __________________ Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.