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Aug 6th, 2009, 01:02 PM
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Homo sapien
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Would this bother you?
I noticed that DH has frequently checked the facebook page of a female coworker/friend. Nothing is really on that page, but I know that he is closest to her at work, and he doesn't have many friends in the area where we live, so he considers his coworkers his friends right now.
I asked him why he did this because it kind of made me upset/uncomfortable. His answer was, I don't know, it was just out of habit, it doesn't mean anything, we're just friends. I don't find her attractive even. Should I just let it go? |
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Aug 6th, 2009, 01:07 PM
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Yes, I'd let it go. But if he begins other practices that make you uncomfortable, speak up.
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Aug 6th, 2009, 01:12 PM
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id let it go
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Aug 6th, 2009, 01:15 PM
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I check my male friends' fb pages if they constantly have funny comments or pics on there. I'd say it's not a big deal and let it go.
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Aug 6th, 2009, 02:52 PM
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would not bother me.
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Aug 6th, 2009, 02:58 PM
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Let it go
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Aug 6th, 2009, 03:02 PM
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Yes let it go. I do that with my male friends its not like I want to get together with them I am just bored. If he is having conversations or commenting to her rather than just looking then I would be concern.
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Aug 6th, 2009, 03:03 PM
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Homo sapien
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What do you mean by that? They don't chat online or anything, but once in awhile text or email, most about work stuff |
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Aug 6th, 2009, 03:13 PM
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^^I meant if they are having personal conversations between each other then I might be concerned. I read somewhere here someone read a converstion on facebook her husband was having with another "friend" who was her co-worker. I don't know what exactly happened but I think she ended up filing for a divorce. Not sure what happened to the thread.
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Aug 6th, 2009, 03:16 PM
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Homo sapien
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They have conversations about work, and once in awhile about dinner as a group (including me) and about our new baby and how I'm doing. 90% of it though is funny stories from work
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Aug 6th, 2009, 03:25 PM
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I'm with the others... let it go.
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Aug 6th, 2009, 04:13 PM
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guccimamma
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i'd be weirded out if my husband was on facebook at all ..but i'm old
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Aug 6th, 2009, 04:32 PM
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Just let it go
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Aug 6th, 2009, 04:39 PM
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Lovin' Life!
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another vote to let it go.
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Aug 6th, 2009, 04:45 PM
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