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Pink_Swish · Oct 19th, 2009, 12:15 PM

Hmm!!

Back ground story- went to wales for geography trip, whilist we were at one of the places,
we met a couple of army guys about to do training. We got chatting and one of them said
to add him on fb.

So i did, however, im puzzled by his actions. Judging from his fb he seems a but of a chauv pig,
and he has pics of him mooning, or posing, i think taken mostly in his downtime in iraq. He's 23.

So we chatted a bit on messages, and after a while i got this " I hate this job lol so how old are
you, you look quite young but sexy ;-) x"

So i replied - Er,thanks lol, I'm 16,17 in may x
He replied with - you got a boyfriend ? x
Me- Nope, did like a guy but there was too much drama between him and his ex! Why?
Last reply- Just curious so do you ever venture up toward Bath or Bristol thts where I am based normally? X

Hes asked me if i was going back to wales earlier on too.

I just cant decide if this guy is wierd or is trying to led it somewhere or is just being nice??
how should i respond too

ShelleyBaby · Oct 19th, 2009, 12:21 PM

I think he's only after one thing.

PurseAddict79 · Oct 19th, 2009, 12:31 PM

Don't waste your time... delete him... he's just after the booty

Pink_Swish · Oct 19th, 2009, 12:57 PM

hmm! well he aint get any.

natalie78 · Oct 19th, 2009, 12:58 PM

Delete him and his messages. There is no reason to respond.

Pink_Swish · Oct 19th, 2009, 01:28 PM

i was a little flirty at first i have to admit ( didnt know his age), but i wont delete him, im gonna chat but let him know i wont be a booty call if that makes sense.

Im gonna reply" Nah, not really. Its quite far, from where i live about * hours away." ( he knows what county i live in as he asked when we were all in a group)

natalie78 · Oct 19th, 2009, 02:21 PM

Sounds to me like there is only one thing he wants to chat about and by continuing the way you are, he will keep thinking that is what you want. But, it's your decision. I would not be surprised if he stopped talking to you since you are not going to give him what he is looking for.

Charles · Oct 19th, 2009, 03:10 PM

It depends. If he doesn't attempt to initiate any convos that deal with your personal info, trying to get to know you, he's probably just out for some booty. If you're cool with that, go for it. If not, tell him you're not interested.

plain jane doe · Oct 19th, 2009, 04:43 PM

He's bored. It means nothing.

petitechouchou · Oct 19th, 2009, 05:34 PM

Er, sounds like he's trying to get some booty...

vintageromance · Oct 19th, 2009, 06:04 PM

Based on his comments and the content of his fb profile according to what you've posted, he's the kind of guy who is only after one thing. He's been gauging your reaction to see if you'd be interested in meeting up with him for a booty call, and nothing else. He doesn't seem like he's interested in you, your personality, or getting to know you better, and obviously isn't boyfriend material.

Unless you're up for a random booty call, which I'm guessing you're definitely NOT, I'd just stop talking to the guy.

gina2328 · Oct 19th, 2009, 07:28 PM

He's not interested, I would remove him from FB.

bagnshoofetish · Oct 19th, 2009, 09:37 PM

hmmm.

he tells you you look "sexy"
wants to know how old you are
wants to know if you are available
wants to know if you'll be in his "hood"

nope. I don't have a clue what he wants.

Oct 19th, 2009, 12:15 PM	#1
Pink_Swish OP Member Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 759	Wierd? Hmm!! Back ground story- went to wales for geography trip, whilist we were at one of the places, we met a couple of army guys about to do training. We got chatting and one of them said to add him on fb. So i did, however, im puzzled by his actions. Judging from his fb he seems a but of a chauv pig, and he has pics of him mooning, or posing, i think taken mostly in his downtime in iraq. He's 23. So we chatted a bit on messages, and after a while i got this " I hate this job lol so how old are you, you look quite young but sexy ;-) x" So i replied - Er,thanks lol, I'm 16,17 in may x He replied with - you got a boyfriend ? x Me- Nope, did like a guy but there was too much drama between him and his ex! Why? Last reply- Just curious so do you ever venture up toward Bath or Bristol thts where I am based normally? X Hes asked me if i was going back to wales earlier on too. I just cant decide if this guy is wierd or is trying to led it somewhere or is just being nice?? how should i respond too
Pink_Swish OP Member Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 759	__________________ Twitter- Kickingcouture Blair waldorf, my style icon! *http://www.kickingcouture.blogspot.com/* xxx

Oct 19th, 2009, 12:57 PM	#4
Pink_Swish OP Member Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 759	hmm! well he aint get any.
Pink_Swish OP Member Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 759	__________________ Twitter- Kickingcouture Blair waldorf, my style icon! *http://www.kickingcouture.blogspot.com/* xxx

Oct 19th, 2009, 12:58 PM	#5
natalie78 Dave's not here Joined: May 2008 Location: Texas Posts: 1,669	Delete him and his messages. There is no reason to respond.
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Oct 19th, 2009, 01:28 PM	#6
Pink_Swish OP Member Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 759	i was a little flirty at first i have to admit ( didnt know his age), but i wont delete him, im gonna chat but let him know i wont be a booty call if that makes sense. Im gonna reply" Nah, not really. Its quite far, from where i live about * hours away." ( he knows what county i live in as he asked when we were all in a group)
Pink_Swish OP Member Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 759	__________________ Twitter- Kickingcouture Blair waldorf, my style icon! *http://www.kickingcouture.blogspot.com/* xxx

Oct 19th, 2009, 02:21 PM	#7
natalie78 Dave's not here Joined: May 2008 Location: Texas Posts: 1,669	Sounds to me like there is only one thing he wants to chat about and by continuing the way you are, he will keep thinking that is what you want. But, it's your decision. I would not be surprised if he stopped talking to you since you are not going to give him what he is looking for.
	__________________ I consider myself a good judge of people and that's why I don't like any of them. ~Roseanne

Oct 19th, 2009, 12:21 PM	#2
ShelleyBaby Member Joined: Jul 2008 Location: UK Posts: 1,241	I think he's only after one thing.

Oct 19th, 2009, 12:31 PM	#3
PurseAddict79 PerpetuallyPenniless Joined: Sep 2008 Location: The Mall Posts: 1,234	Don't waste your time... delete him... he's just after the booty

Oct 19th, 2009, 03:10 PM	#8
Charles Sucks at budgeting Joined: Jan 2007 Location: Jacksonville, Fl Posts: 6,194	It depends. If he doesn't attempt to initiate any convos that deal with your personal info, trying to get to know you, he's probably just out for some booty. If you're cool with that, go for it. If not, tell him you're not interested.
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Oct 19th, 2009, 04:43 PM	#9
plain jane doe Member Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 1,578	He's bored. It means nothing.
plain jane doe Member Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 1,578

Oct 19th, 2009, 05:34 PM	#10
petitechouchou "H" is for Hamster Joined: Jun 2009 Location: sleeping in my skybox Posts: 1,291	Er, sounds like he's trying to get some booty...

Oct 19th, 2009, 06:04 PM	#11
vintageromance Member Joined: Oct 2009 Location: KY/NYC/LA, USA Posts: 37	Based on his comments and the content of his fb profile according to what you've posted, he's the kind of guy who is only after one thing. He's been gauging your reaction to see if you'd be interested in meeting up with him for a booty call, and nothing else. He doesn't seem like he's interested in you, your personality, or getting to know you better, and obviously isn't boyfriend material. Unless you're up for a random booty call, which I'm guessing you're definitely NOT, I'd just stop talking to the guy.

Oct 19th, 2009, 07:28 PM	#12
gina2328 Member Joined: Jul 2007 Location: Michigan Posts: 625	He's not interested, I would remove him from FB.
	__________________ Dress shabbily and they remember the dress; dress impeccably and they remember the woman -- Coco Chanel

Oct 19th, 2009, 09:37 PM	#13
bagnshoofetish keep smiling.... Joined: Feb 2006 Posts: 20,383	hmmm. he tells you you look "sexy" wants to know how old you are wants to know if you are available wants to know if you'll be in his "hood" nope. I don't have a clue what he wants.
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