Why don't men call?

pisdapisda79 · Jun 23rd, 2008, 08:56 PM

Ladies, I need some insight as I am driving myself crazy. I was introduced to a guy last weekend by a friend & I thought we hit it off really well, we were dancing & drinking (we were at a bar) & at the end of the night I gave him a kiss. Neither of us had our cell phones on us so we couldn't exchange phone numbers. The next day he calls the friend that introduced us & asks if he can get my email address to email as he liked me. It has been over a week & nothing & I am driving myself crazy, why hasn't he emailed/called me?

Usually these sort of things don't bother me but I really had fun with him but I just don't understand why he hasn't contacted me, thoughts?

lovinalotofbags · Jun 23rd, 2008, 09:00 PM

If he is going to contact you, he will. Don't make yourself crazy. Be cool.

Cristina · Jun 23rd, 2008, 09:05 PM

^ What lovin' said. If he wants to contact you, he will - he has your e-mail address and knows how to reach you

Laurie8504 · Jun 23rd, 2008, 09:54 PM

Hey if it's any comfort, I'm hangin' in there with you, almost the exact same situation, lol. Stay strong!

nolarice · Jun 23rd, 2008, 09:58 PM

either he's not that interested (sorry! :) or he thinks it's cool to NOT call!
boys can be really dumb.

carvedwords · Jun 23rd, 2008, 10:03 PM

Maybe, he wants to contact you, but not at the moment. Or maybe, he's not as interested as he was. Men can be fickle and crazy. Don't stress over it.

pisdapisda79 · Jun 23rd, 2008, 10:11 PM

Thanks for the advice ladies, I will just move on & forget about him

elle · Jun 23rd, 2008, 11:48 PM

It's strange that he asked for your email, but has not contacted you! Perhaps he got cold feet and thought you weren't interested in hearing from him again?

I had a similar night with a friend's friend...but I was not interested in doing anything more with him and did not expect him to be calling/emailing me (he got my contact info through the friend). This is why you shouldn't get drunk and kiss guys you have no intentions of seeing again

Laurie8504 · Jun 23rd, 2008, 11:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Laurie8504

Hey if it's any comfort, I'm hangin' in there with you, almost the exact same situation, lol. Stay strong!

He called

pisdapisda79, hang in there. If he had enough verve to seek out your email, I'm sure he's just biding his time.

sonya · Jun 24th, 2008, 12:12 AM

Sometimes it's because he is busy and it slips his mind.

Pursegrrl · Jun 24th, 2008, 12:46 AM

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Originally Posted by pisdapisda79

Thanks for the advice ladies, I will just move on & forget about him

Honestly, that's the best thing you can do! His loss...next!!

Charles · Jun 24th, 2008, 12:50 AM

Ask your friend what's up. Ask her to ask him what's going on...why didn't he email yet.

VPT · Jun 24th, 2008, 02:31 AM

He's playing hard to get.

mellecyn · Jun 24th, 2008, 08:40 AM

I´d contact him too, there are too many maybes....

~Fabulousity~ · Jun 24th, 2008, 08:57 AM

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Originally Posted by lovinalotofbags

If he is going to contact you, he will. Don't make yourself crazy. Be cool.

Jun 23rd, 2008, 08:56 PM	#1
pisdapisda79 Member Location: Canada	Why don't men call? Ladies, I need some insight as I am driving myself crazy. I was introduced to a guy last weekend by a friend & I thought we hit it off really well, we were dancing & drinking (we were at a bar) & at the end of the night I gave him a kiss. Neither of us had our cell phones on us so we couldn't exchange phone numbers. The next day he calls the friend that introduced us & asks if he can get my email address to email as he liked me. It has been over a week & nothing & I am driving myself crazy, why hasn't he emailed/called me? Usually these sort of things don't bother me but I really had fun with him but I just don't understand why he hasn't contacted me, thoughts?

Jun 23rd, 2008, 09:00 PM	#2
lovinalotofbags Fashion disaster Location: Carolinas	If he is going to contact you, he will. Don't make yourself crazy. Be cool. __________________ Always forgive your enemies. Nothing annoys them so much.

Jun 23rd, 2008, 09:05 PM	#3
Cristina Location: South Florida	^ What lovin' said. If he wants to contact you, he will - he has your e-mail address and knows how to reach you __________________ it's nothing i'll forget when the moon gets tired you are stuck to me everyday believe in what i am because it's all i have today and tomorrow who knows where we'll be from here i can hardly see a thing but i will follow anyone who brings me to you for now, forever, for on and on and on - alkaline trio

Jun 23rd, 2008, 09:58 PM	#5
nolarice =^..^= Location: Fashion Avenue	either he's not that interested (sorry! :) or he thinks it's cool to NOT call! boys can be really dumb. __________________ nola is wishing for Matties nola's bag fund~$140.....good grief! i bought a Kooba! To see my photo albums click here: http://forum.purseblog.com/album.php?u=80208 Minkettes! http://forum.purseblog.com/chatter-b...ad-370623.html

Jun 23rd, 2008, 10:03 PM	#6
carvedwords ♥ Location: beautiful Southern California!	Maybe, he wants to contact you, but not at the moment. Or maybe, he's not as interested as he was. Men can be fickle and crazy. Don't stress over it. __________________ WISHLIST: ... LV Galliera GM ... LV Nimbus Anthracite GM

Jun 23rd, 2008, 09:54 PM	#4
Laurie8504 chocolate...where? Location: US	Hey if it's any comfort, I'm hangin' in there with you, almost the exact same situation, lol. Stay strong!

Jun 23rd, 2008, 10:11 PM	#7
pisdapisda79 Member Location: Canada	Thanks for the advice ladies, I will just move on & forget about him

Jun 23rd, 2008, 11:48 PM	#8
elle L Location: CA	It's strange that he asked for your email, but has not contacted you! Perhaps he got cold feet and thought you weren't interested in hearing from him again? I had a similar night with a friend's friend...but I was not interested in doing anything more with him and did not expect him to be calling/emailing me (he got my contact info through the friend). This is why you shouldn't get drunk and kiss guys you have no intentions of seeing again __________________

Jun 24th, 2008, 12:12 AM	#10
sonya Member	Sometimes it's because he is busy and it slips his mind.

Jun 24th, 2008, 12:50 AM	#12
Charles Sucks at budgeting Location: Jacksonville, Fl	Ask your friend what's up. Ask her to ask him what's going on...why didn't he email yet.

Jun 24th, 2008, 02:31 AM	#13
VPT i ♥ blood oranges Location: Singapore / Vancouver	He's playing hard to get. __________________

Jun 24th, 2008, 08:40 AM	#14
mellecyn Take me to LV Location: 300 km from LV somewhere in Europe	I´d contact him too, there are too many maybes.... __________________ "Pardon my French", euh I mean "English" MelleCyn "You never change things by fighting the existing reality. To change something, build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete" Buckminster Fuller