Who is your "go to person"

Sunshine · Jun 15th, 2008, 08:49 AM

Meaning who do you go to when your feelings are hurt, or you are sad and your heart just hurts?? We all have that one friend who is there for us rain or shine...who is it for you?

My go to person is Selena. I can be crying so hard I can not breathe and there she is...thank god for friends!!!

QueenOfDa702 · Jun 15th, 2008, 08:59 AM

I think it depends on the issue. Most of the time its Shan(my SO), We were best friends long before we were together, so its pretty easy to talk to him about almost anything. But if Im having problems I cant talk to him about, or he wouldnt understand(Girl issues or the In-Laws lol) I go to my Best Friend Rosezanna. We've been friends for 15 years and no matter what Im mad about, or how stupid it is, she still has the best advice.

oo0ehxtahcee0oo · Jun 15th, 2008, 08:59 AM

Three people..

My Mother, who no matter what is very open minded. She always gives great advice of two kinds. The kind that makes me feel better, and the kind that's like, "Hate to break it to ya buuuut.." and then tells me my faults. She's very non-judgemental. Hmm... May help, she's a therapist as well.

My Fiance Rey. He's always there to hear my bicker and always knows what to do to make me feel better. Eat with me, and let me shop. Haha. Retail therapy.

My bestfriend Crystal. She is the best ear anyone could ever ask for. Just last week I called her in the middle of the night crying. Poor her, stayed on the phone with me while I cried for an hour as the wee hours of the morning were approaching and she was having to get rest for work at 6 a.m. She's always trying to see the positive and tell me, "No, you're not over reacting." and "It'll be okay, there's always tomorrow."

Dunno where I'd be without them. I love them to pieces. They are my backbone, and my life support.

Oh and then when I need someone to talk to about my fashion topics, purses, make up, shoes, celebs, and well help me keep my ban of ANYTHING materlistic, I go over to my good friends at tPF. No names needed, ya'll know who you special beezys are!! I

ya'll!!

Sunshine · Jun 15th, 2008, 09:10 AM

Well, obviously my husband is my Bf, I was refering to friends...people that just get it...(other than our lovers..)

QueenOfDa702 · Jun 15th, 2008, 09:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Sunshine

Well, obviously my husband is my Bf, I was refering to friends...people that just get it...(other than our lovers..)

Then I pick Rosezanna! lol. She is deff. my go-to-girl, shes actually the only one I feel comfortable talking to about my issues.

Sunshine · Jun 15th, 2008, 09:15 AM

I have to say my sister in law also...man does she always "get it"!!!

oo0ehxtahcee0oo · Jun 15th, 2008, 09:20 AM

then x-nay the fiance!! haha. seriously it's either my mom or my bestfriend crystal. but lately i think ive been leaning towards crystal just because we're going through soooo much stuff that's so similar. examples: we got engaged less than a month apart so we're having to deal with many of the same issues from wedding planning and merging families. plus, she just "get it". its funny how just today i told DF what a great friend she is while i was writing her her birthday card, and he told me, "yah she is. im glad you have her in your life. she's great." even he knows i'd be lost without her.

Sunshine · Jun 15th, 2008, 09:25 AM

Friendship is priceless.... I am in my BFF's wedding in a few weeks time. I went to her shower, and bachorlette party a few weeks ago and she cried and cried and cried. She could just not except all the love and kindness that was surrounding her...I think I was the only one that understood..I know that meant the world to her!! Funny how weddings are supposed to be the happiest times of our lives and it can be the most stressful time EVER!!!

Sunshine · Jun 15th, 2008, 09:26 AM

Here we are...(Im on the right) she is on the left and this is one moment she was NOT crying!!! lol

oo0ehxtahcee0oo · Jun 15th, 2008, 09:33 AM

^^ you both are stunning!!

and yes, planning a wedding is suppose to be the happiest time ever, but its crazy monkey stressful!! in addition to all the stress with the wedding planning itself, there comes the drama of merging families, relocation (if you two dont live together), and of course balancing a whole new life etc. and when it seems like no one understands why at times i feel so overwhelmed and depressed, there she is by my side. kicking rocks with me and sharing her pain. we're getting through things one day at a time.

QueenOfDa702 · Jun 15th, 2008, 09:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Sunshine

Here we are...(Im on the right) she is on the left and this is one moment she was NOT crying!!! lol

Hubba Hubba!

candace117 · Jun 15th, 2008, 10:14 AM

sunshine

Well hrm. This is a fabbyfab question.
Probably Destiny, Asha, and Lisa. For different reasons, but all of them provide love in the ways that they know how. And for knowing them each individually, I am forever grateful.

Jill · Jun 15th, 2008, 12:31 PM

I have a go to person......I talk almost daily to D & G ROCKSTAR...she has the best perspective in life....and she is truly a fabulous friend to have.

I also call Selena..she has a way of making me do the right thing even when its hard.She has alot of common sense....and is a good friend as well...!!!...and also is the best mom ever..so i always ask her parenting advice when im needing it and she is ALWAYS right on!!

bnjj · Jun 15th, 2008, 12:47 PM

It's great that you each have a support system in your lives.

I don't really have anyone to talk to. My mom and I have never had a relationship and the only sister I had a relationship with passed away a year ago last month.

I pretty much keep everything to myself.

QueenOfDa702 · Jun 15th, 2008, 12:51 PM

^^Oh sweetie. You can PM me whenever you need to!

Jun 15th, 2008, 08:49 AM	#1
Sunshine Location: Key West, Florida	Who is your "go to person" Meaning who do you go to when your feelings are hurt, or you are sad and your heart just hurts?? We all have that one friend who is there for us rain or shine...who is it for you? My go to person is Selena. I can be crying so hard I can not breathe and there she is...thank god for friends!!!

Jun 15th, 2008, 08:59 AM	#2
QueenOfDa702 Misunderestimated. Location: I've gone RAOKing crazy!	I think it depends on the issue. Most of the time its Shan(my SO), We were best friends long before we were together, so its pretty easy to talk to him about almost anything. But if Im having problems I cant talk to him about, or he wouldnt understand(Girl issues or the In-Laws lol) I go to my Best Friend Rosezanna. We've been friends for 15 years and no matter what Im mad about, or how stupid it is, she still has the best advice. __________________ ~Valeen~ Happy Holidays to all my tPF friends! Click HERE to visit MySpace Please help get justice for Karley! http://forum.purseblog.com/animalici...ey-385571.html

Jun 15th, 2008, 08:59 AM	#3
oo0ehxtahcee0oo ☺Livin the good life Location: ♥In my DF's arms♥	Three people.. My Mother, who no matter what is very open minded. She always gives great advice of two kinds. The kind that makes me feel better, and the kind that's like, "Hate to break it to ya buuuut.." and then tells me my faults. She's very non-judgemental. Hmm... May help, she's a therapist as well. My Fiance Rey. He's always there to hear my bicker and always knows what to do to make me feel better. Eat with me, and let me shop. Haha. Retail therapy. My bestfriend Crystal. She is the best ear anyone could ever ask for. Just last week I called her in the middle of the night crying. Poor her, stayed on the phone with me while I cried for an hour as the wee hours of the morning were approaching and she was having to get rest for work at 6 a.m. She's always trying to see the positive and tell me, "No, you're not over reacting." and "It'll be okay, there's always tomorrow." Dunno where I'd be without them. I love them to pieces. They are my backbone, and my life support. Oh and then when I need someone to talk to about my fashion topics, purses, make up, shoes, celebs, and well help me keep my ban of ANYTHING materlistic, I go over to my good friends at tPF. No names needed, ya'll know who you special beezys are!! I ya'll!! __________________ [Click photo to read thread!] My blog site has great FREE goodies!! (updated 11/26) www,dearmissie.blogspot.com We did it!! New Crafts Subforum celebration here!!

Jun 15th, 2008, 09:20 AM	#7
oo0ehxtahcee0oo ☺Livin the good life Location: ♥In my DF's arms♥	then x-nay the fiance!! haha. seriously it's either my mom or my bestfriend crystal. but lately i think ive been leaning towards crystal just because we're going through soooo much stuff that's so similar. examples: we got engaged less than a month apart so we're having to deal with many of the same issues from wedding planning and merging families. plus, she just "get it". its funny how just today i told DF what a great friend she is while i was writing her her birthday card, and he told me, "yah she is. im glad you have her in your life. she's great." even he knows i'd be lost without her. __________________ [Click photo to read thread!] My blog site has great FREE goodies!! (updated 11/26) www,dearmissie.blogspot.com We did it!! New Crafts Subforum celebration here!!

Jun 15th, 2008, 09:33 AM	#10
oo0ehxtahcee0oo ☺Livin the good life Location: ♥In my DF's arms♥	^^ you both are stunning!! and yes, planning a wedding is suppose to be the happiest time ever, but its crazy monkey stressful!! in addition to all the stress with the wedding planning itself, there comes the drama of merging families, relocation (if you two dont live together), and of course balancing a whole new life etc. and when it seems like no one understands why at times i feel so overwhelmed and depressed, there she is by my side. kicking rocks with me and sharing her pain. we're getting through things one day at a time. __________________ [Click photo to read thread!] My blog site has great FREE goodies!! (updated 11/26) www,dearmissie.blogspot.com We did it!! New Crafts Subforum celebration here!!

Jun 15th, 2008, 09:10 AM	#4
Sunshine Location: Key West, Florida	Well, obviously my husband is my Bf, I was refering to friends...people that just get it...(other than our lovers..)

Jun 15th, 2008, 09:15 AM	#6
Sunshine Location: Key West, Florida	I have to say my sister in law also...man does she always "get it"!!!

Jun 15th, 2008, 09:25 AM	#8
Sunshine Location: Key West, Florida	Friendship is priceless.... I am in my BFF's wedding in a few weeks time. I went to her shower, and bachorlette party a few weeks ago and she cried and cried and cried. She could just not except all the love and kindness that was surrounding her...I think I was the only one that understood..I know that meant the world to her!! Funny how weddings are supposed to be the happiest times of our lives and it can be the most stressful time EVER!!!

Jun 15th, 2008, 10:14 AM	#12
candace117 Pirate Trash Location: Hardcorvallis	sunshine Well hrm. This is a fabbyfab question. Probably Destiny, Asha, and Lisa. For different reasons, but all of them provide love in the ways that they know how. And for knowing them each individually, I am forever grateful. __________________ "With so much drama in the L-B-C, it's kinda hard bein Snoop D-O-double G."

Jun 15th, 2008, 12:31 PM	#13
Jill	I have a go to person......I talk almost daily to D & G ROCKSTAR...she has the best perspective in life....and she is truly a fabulous friend to have. I also call Selena..she has a way of making me do the right thing even when its hard.She has alot of common sense....and is a good friend as well...!!!...and also is the best mom ever..so i always ask her parenting advice when im needing it and she is ALWAYS right on!!

Jun 15th, 2008, 12:47 PM	#14
bnjj ♪ Jovi Junkie ♪ Location: Bon Jovi Blvd.	It's great that you each have a support system in your lives. I don't really have anyone to talk to. My mom and I have never had a relationship and the only sister I had a relationship with passed away a year ago last month. I pretty much keep everything to myself. __________________

Jun 15th, 2008, 12:51 PM	#15
QueenOfDa702 Misunderestimated. Location: I've gone RAOKing crazy!	^^Oh sweetie. You can PM me whenever you need to! __________________ ~Valeen~ Happy Holidays to all my tPF friends! Click HERE to visit MySpace Please help get justice for Karley! http://forum.purseblog.com/animalici...ey-385571.html