[claireZk]

Originally Posted by amber11

i think if you are deciding to wait for sex (which i didn't) you shouldn't start any of it, because once you do its hard not to let it escalate. if you really don't want it to happen i wouldn't let yourself get into the situation where you two are alone. late. at night.

I agree. If you're planning on abstaining, it would be wise to not go past kissing IMO. Avoiding "tempting" situations is probably the key.

[bagnshoofetish]

Originally Posted by Leah411

..either you're yanking our chain or....

ahhh. forget it. its just toooo easy.

[imashopaholic]

Missy is missing in action.

[maddog]

Originally Posted by abbygirl

Hey, and what's a hymen? I don't think I ever got one of those.

LOL! TMI but me too! I checked before and after my first few times, rather carefully, and nothing changed. It's too bad our parts don't come with labels and contrasting colours like the pics in educational books.

I got nothin' for Missy, but this whole dealio is pretty entertaining so I wish you luck with your really nice bf, one way or another regarding your virginity.

[VPT]

Originally Posted by abbygirl

Hey, and what's a hymen? I don't think I ever got one of those.

I don't think I had one too, or lost it to doing splits in ballet or karate.

[nataliam1976]

Originally Posted by VPT

I don't think I had one too, or lost it to doing splits in ballet or karate.

I think i lost mine hogging the couch, never was an active person LOL

[QueenOfDa702]

Whenever someone calls dear sweet virgin Missy out, she seems to disappear from the thread. Coincidence? I think NOT.

[abbygirl]

Originally Posted by VPT

I don't think I had one too, or lost it to doing splits in ballet or karate.

the splits!

[Sternchen]

Originally Posted by nataliam1976

I think i lost mine hogging the couch, never was an active person LOL

ROFL!

[Sternchen]

Where'd she go?

[Jahpson]

Originally Posted by illinirdhd

Honestly, I've never understood people who say they're saving themselves or waiting for marriage, but then do everything EXCEPT have intercourse. I suppose if you're having oral sex and touching each other, you're still a virgin, but if you're giving everything else up, what's the point in holding off on that one thing? If you're going to let a man touch you with his hands and mouth, then why not just have sex? Isn't oral sex more intimate than vaginal sex? It's rare, but you CAN get pregnant without having actual intercourse, and you can certainly get an STD, so what's the point? At least when you're having sex, you'll probably use a condom. I'm guessing most people don't use condoms/dental dams for oral sex and touching.

If I were waiting for marriage (which I didn't), I would draw the line at kissing. IMO, if you're saving yourself, then save your entire self.

[Jahpson]

Originally Posted by nataliam1976

Puh- lease she mentioned she considered going on the pill. you dont need pill if all that happens is his hand going there !

true, but he should wash his hands and cut his fingernails if he plans on "tending the field"

im just saying...

[Lululovebags]

Originally Posted by Jahpson

true, but he should wash his hands and cut his fingernails if he plans on "tending the field"

im just saying...

[Pursegrrl]

Originally Posted by QueenOfDa702

Whenever someone calls dear sweet virgin Missy out, she seems to disappear from the thread. Coincidence? I think NOT.

Nope...we've seen this happen 47382927 times...extremely tiresome.

[bagnshoofetish]

maybe she took a trip.