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dell · Jan 23rd, 2009, 05:14 PM

We have the same problem, LOL! If it's cheap toilet paper, it's gonna stick!

sam98 · Jan 23rd, 2009, 05:21 PM

Libertine, I have a guy roommate. We are friendly/flirty but rarely hang out together. There is some tension both physically (sexual) and emotionally (feelings) but most of the time we just joke around. We've never acted on any of our feelings nor have we discussed them. Out of the blue he says he doesn't want to be roommates anymore so we're finding separate places to live now, since our lease at this places is ending anyway. He didn't give me a great reason. It's quite superficial and I don't really buy it. It was quite the shock and he wasn't really nice about it either. Do you have any idea what the real reason can be or is it just that superficial?

ghall · Jan 23rd, 2009, 05:35 PM

Do men really love their wives bodies after having 3 kids and having some saggy extra skin or are they just saying that?

Libertine · Jan 23rd, 2009, 05:36 PM

Originally Posted by sam98

Libertine, I have a guy roommate. We are friendly/flirty but rarely hang out together. There is some tension both physically (sexual) and emotionally (feelings) but most of the time we just joke around. We've never acted on any of our feelings nor have we discussed them. Out of the blue he says he doesn't want to be roommates anymore so we're finding separate places to live now, since our lease at this places is ending anyway. He didn't give me a great reason. It's quite superficial and I don't really buy it. It was quite the shock and he wasn't really nice about it either. Do you have any idea what the real reason can be or is it just that superficial?

Though I can't answer it with complete certainty since I don't know the specifics of the situation, my best guess would be that he actually has feelings for you (either sexual or romantic), and that he has come to the conclusion that you're not interested in anything more than just being roommates.

Libertine · Jan 23rd, 2009, 05:40 PM

Originally Posted by ghall

Do men really love their wives bodies after having 3 kids and having some saggy extra skin or are they just saying that?

Yes, they do.

Your body doesn't have to be perfect for your husband to enjoy it. And if you're confident and know how to use your body (ie, don't demand the lights are turned off before sex, then lay there like a dead fish until it's over), that will more than make up for any physical imperfections you may or may not have.

ms.fashionista · Jan 23rd, 2009, 06:10 PM

Do men get turned off after seeing their wife give birth to their offspring? I mean, after seeing the stretched va-jay-jay, does it traumatize them in the bedroom in the future?

EMMY · Jan 23rd, 2009, 06:58 PM

LMAO this thread is GREAT!!! Thanx Libertine for starting it..great reading enjoyment!

bagnshoofetish · Jan 23rd, 2009, 08:13 PM

Originally Posted by Libertine

I never even realized I did this, but you're right

I can't speak for other men, but when I look inside the fridge (which I did 2 minutes ago just to test this), I figure that by moving my head around, I'll be able to construct a 3D mental representation of what's inside.

well, maybe, perhaps you should pretend the fridge is like a nightclub. afterall, if men just did this mental visualization when they open a door to a club, a lot of women would go home alone.

bagnshoofetish · Jan 23rd, 2009, 08:21 PM

I am sooo digging this thread...

Especially the toilet paper/shake question. I asked my husband about this once and he looked at me like I had two heads and said, "that would be effeminate!" I said, "really? I thought it would just be hygenic."

ghall · Jan 23rd, 2009, 08:49 PM

Originally Posted by bagnshoofetish

I am sooo digging this thread...

Especially the toilet paper/shake question. I asked my husband about this once and he looked at me like I had two heads and said, "that would be effeminate!" I said, "really? I thought it would just be hygenic."

plus urine is sterile... haven't you heard of having to pee on your foot if you stepped on a sea urchine, or soak your foot in urine if you stepped on a sea urchine? it sounds gross, but it prevents infections...

bagnshoofetish · Jan 23rd, 2009, 08:51 PM

Originally Posted by ghall

plus urine is sterile... haven't you heard of having to pee on your foot if you stepped on a sea urchine, or soak your foot in urine if you stepped on a sea urchine? it sounds gross, but it prevents infections...

I read that was an old wives tale. I think some pervert started it!

sportygal85 · Jan 23rd, 2009, 08:59 PM

Quote:

There are several reasons for men suddenly losing interest. The main one is if a woman seems too interested, or too easy. If she's too interested, he'll probably be scared she wants too much commitment too quickly. Or, he might think he could probably get better.

What does a guy consider to be "too interested?" Like what would some examples of that be?

Why do guys say they are fine with not having sex but then get pissy if the girl refuses to give him a blowjob?

Do guys actually enjoy making out or do they just see it as an annoying pit stop on the way to the "good stuff?"

nooch · Jan 23rd, 2009, 09:04 PM

What do guys think of the manipulative douchebags who present themselves as good men but are actually hugely bitter misogynists who can only see women as queens or whores? You know, the "I'm a Nice Guy" guys. Do you hate them as much as we do?

(My fiance has answered this question before as we were introduced by one of those guys, but my fiance is so mellow that if he were any more mellow I would check his pulse so I figured I'd ask someone who might be a little less comatose)

Liz_x3 · Jan 23rd, 2009, 09:31 PM

Originally Posted by Libertine

Ehm... he did ask you out. On multiple occasions.

He thought you weren't interested, though.

Ack. You pretty much confirmed all my suspicions on my head that I am the one who ruined it between me and this guy because I REFUSED to show that I was interested because I wanted to have the upper hand.

And what sucks is that I genuinely liked this guy A LOT... that is why I was so afraid of showing any emotion whatsoever because I was terrified of him hurting me.

Okay, another question!

What types of flirting works the best with guys WITHOUT coming across as overly interested and/or slutty?

dallas · Jan 23rd, 2009, 09:47 PM

Originally Posted by bagnshoofetish

I am sooo digging this thread...

Especially the toilet paper/shake question. I asked my husband about this once and he looked at me like I had two heads and said, "that would be effeminate!" I said, "really? I thought it would just be hygenic."

Gosh, I

you.

My question is an earth-shattering one: I want to know why the blasted wheels on my husband's car are soooo important .. I mean who cares? The darn car came with wheels but he changed them and I can't for the life of me see any bloody difference, they're round just like the other ones ...

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Jan 23rd, 2009, 05:21 PM	#62
sam98 Member Joined: Jan 2009 Location: antarctica Posts: 24	Libertine, I have a guy roommate. We are friendly/flirty but rarely hang out together. There is some tension both physically (sexual) and emotionally (feelings) but most of the time we just joke around. We've never acted on any of our feelings nor have we discussed them. Out of the blue he says he doesn't want to be roommates anymore so we're finding separate places to live now, since our lease at this places is ending anyway. He didn't give me a great reason. It's quite superficial and I don't really buy it. It was quite the shock and he wasn't really nice about it either. Do you have any idea what the real reason can be or is it just that superficial?

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nooch bubblehead Joined: Apr 2008 Posts: 3,882	What do guys think of the manipulative douchebags who present themselves as good men but are actually hugely bitter misogynists who can only see women as queens or whores? You know, the "I'm a Nice Guy" guys. Do you hate them as much as we do? (My fiance has answered this question before as we were introduced by one of those guys, but my fiance is so mellow that if he were any more mellow I would check his pulse so I figured I'd ask someone who might be a little less comatose)
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