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PrettyInPink · Oct 14th, 2009, 11:01 AM

OP, this is not a healthy relationship. Not healthy at all. You should never be controlled by your partner. A year may seem like a long time, but you're very young. In the grand scheme of things, you will be thankful that you got out now. Controlling you is just the first step of many that can lead to further abuse.

You're 16. I didn't even HAVE a boyfriend when I was 16. Use this time to focus on school... and worry more about getting good grades than having a boyfriend. In all due time you will find love & the right one for you. Is it this guy? Probably not. Is it the next guy? Who knows. But, he's out there. That, I can promise you.

nooch · Oct 14th, 2009, 11:01 AM

DTMFA.

A guy who seeks out teenage girls to keep as property is not going to change.

OP, please really think about leaving this guy. You're at the perfect time to have fun and be yourself and not have to answer to a half-boyfriend half-parent (not that there is ever a good time for a controlling relationship). Seriously, there are other cute dudes with jobs in the world and most of them don't seek out teenage girls. The reason men like this go for girls your age is because grown women don't take their shit and teenage girls do.

ilovetoshop2 · Oct 14th, 2009, 11:23 AM

He is already going to counseling bcuz he just lost a really important person in his life and has been very depressed. IDK if he would go with me to solve OUR issues, next time we talk Ill ask him what he thinks of this idea.

I turn 17 in a few weeks and my BF is 19 so our age difference isnt really that big. I always been attracted to older guys (well around his age). I definitely do think though that he likes being with me bcuz i do listen to him most of the time. He controls me but also says tht i control him and i smother him and tht he is whipped by me

I know I'm young but im just so in love with him which is why Im so willing to keep trying.

Oct 14th, 2009, 11:01 AM	#61
PrettyInPink <3 Joined: Jun 2006 Location: Hockey Town! Posts: 1,445	OP, this is not a healthy relationship. Not healthy at all. You should never be controlled by your partner. A year may seem like a long time, but you're very young. In the grand scheme of things, you will be thankful that you got out now. Controlling you is just the first step of many that can lead to further abuse. You're 16. I didn't even HAVE a boyfriend when I was 16. Use this time to focus on school... and worry more about getting good grades than having a boyfriend. In all due time you will find love & the right one for you. Is it this guy? Probably not. Is it the next guy? Who knows. But, he's out there. That, I can promise you.
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Oct 14th, 2009, 11:01 AM	#62
nooch bubblehead Joined: Apr 2008 Posts: 3,890	DTMFA. A guy who seeks out teenage girls to keep as property is not going to change. OP, please really think about leaving this guy. You're at the perfect time to have fun and be yourself and not have to answer to a half-boyfriend half-parent (not that there is ever a good time for a controlling relationship). Seriously, there are other cute dudes with jobs in the world and most of them don't seek out teenage girls. The reason men like this go for girls your age is because grown women don't take their shit and teenage girls do.
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Oct 14th, 2009, 11:23 AM	#63
ilovetoshop2 OP Member Joined: Jun 2007 Location: Brazil Posts: 37	He is already going to counseling bcuz he just lost a really important person in his life and has been very depressed. IDK if he would go with me to solve OUR issues, next time we talk Ill ask him what he thinks of this idea. I turn 17 in a few weeks and my BF is 19 so our age difference isnt really that big. I always been attracted to older guys (well around his age). I definitely do think though that he likes being with me bcuz i do listen to him most of the time. He controls me but also says tht i control him and i smother him and tht he is whipped by me I know I'm young but im just so in love with him which is why Im so willing to keep trying.

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