What do men want from Women?!?!

maddog · Jun 30th, 2008, 12:01 PM

I've told my ex once to just get a nanny and a blowup doll, and the doll not for sex but to do everything with him like he wanted. Heck, he can even change dolls every year. This is essentially what he wanted in a gf. That probably says it all.

For a real man, I'd say sex, someone to share good and bad times with, someone to care for, and someone who makes him feel cared for. Sometimes I think they also want an excuse to do girly things, like going to spas.

I love giving massage but my SO hates getting them. What guy resists massages?! So weird!

Jenglory · Jun 30th, 2008, 12:03 PM

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Originally Posted by cristalena56

hmm i agree with the other posts:

sex
food
cleaning
tv
no nagging

I am going to add "man time" to this list (meaning time with buddies and NO women), otherwise I agree 100%!!

~Fabulousity~ · Jun 30th, 2008, 12:42 PM

sex, sandwich, sex, tv remote, sex, no nagging, sex, alone time, sex

luckygirl83 · Jun 30th, 2008, 12:42 PM

I've been delegating some of these tasks to others (i.e., cooking, laundry, cleaning, foot massages), much to my b/f's delight (he says I nag less). When I am saving money for new clothes or bags, I give my "helpers" a vacation. I guess I am trying the "hit the two birds with one stone" technique. It's exhausting to be a woman!

kbell · Jun 30th, 2008, 02:30 PM

Pretty much the same thing women want except 100Xs more sex!

ilovepinkhearts · Jun 30th, 2008, 02:51 PM

i honestly don't know....

guccimamma · Jun 30th, 2008, 02:55 PM

they want someone who is truly happy to see them when they come home. don't lay the problems of the day on them right away, give them a beer and some food first...and if it has been a very difficult day, a quick bj doesn't hurt.

they are very simple, we make it complicated.

BagLadie · Jun 30th, 2008, 04:03 PM

Companionship, honesty, love, compassion, friendship. Same as us.

Amberini · Jun 30th, 2008, 04:31 PM

A mum that they can have sex with.

illinirdhd · Jun 30th, 2008, 05:17 PM

Sometimes, I really think my hubby would be happy with a TV and remote. But most of the time, I think he just loves sharing his life with someone. It's like you have more purpose when you're living with another person in your heart and mind. He protests all my crap in the bathroom, but secretly I think he likes it. He likes having someone to talk to, snuggle with, argue with, shop with, spend time with, take care of, etc. Men also need lots of ego-boosting. They want to know that they're the sexiest man on earth, and that we really need them in our lives.

Charles · Jun 30th, 2008, 11:30 PM

Well, first off, no matter how much you want to generalize, all men don't want the same thing. I mean, yeah, we want sex and someone to clean and cook, but there's a lot more. Hell, I can get any girl to have sex with me and do the dishes, what else can you offer?
When it comes down to it, you usually figure it out when you start dating and get to know them better. If you can't figure it out, then you're probably not destined to be together.

amber11 · Jun 30th, 2008, 11:39 PM

my bf says he likes that i keep things challenging and that i'm entertaining... and of course sex and what not- however he's a better cook then me so hes not getting his hopes up on that one

fabuless · Jun 30th, 2008, 11:47 PM

To be thanked. Men love it when women are grateful...even for little things.

ChristyR143 · Jul 1st, 2008, 12:00 AM

Respect

angel143 · Jul 1st, 2008, 04:14 AM

companionship? it keeps away the loneliness.
gosh the list can go on and on!

Jun 30th, 2008, 12:42 PM	#18
~Fabulousity~ ...is rebooting	sex, sandwich, sex, tv remote, sex, no nagging, sex, alone time, sex __________________ Every adversity, every failure, and every heartache carries with it the seed of an equal or greater benefit - Napoleon Hill

Jun 30th, 2008, 02:30 PM	#20
kbell Member Location: MA	Pretty much the same thing women want except 100Xs more sex! __________________ Heal quickly & come back soon!

Jun 30th, 2008, 02:51 PM	#21
ilovepinkhearts hi, i'm danielle Location: Texas	i honestly don't know.... __________________

Jun 30th, 2008, 04:03 PM	#23
BagLadie Got a handle on it Location: Red Sox Nation	Companionship, honesty, love, compassion, friendship. Same as us. __________________ One good thing about music, when it hits you, you feel no pain. - Bob Marley

Jun 30th, 2008, 04:31 PM	#24
Amberini Amberini Bellini Location: UK	A mum that they can have sex with. __________________ Well, at least he's taking care of things...

Jun 30th, 2008, 12:01 PM	#16
maddog Mmmkay	I've told my ex once to just get a nanny and a blowup doll, and the doll not for sex but to do everything with him like he wanted. Heck, he can even change dolls every year. This is essentially what he wanted in a gf. That probably says it all. For a real man, I'd say sex, someone to share good and bad times with, someone to care for, and someone who makes him feel cared for. Sometimes I think they also want an excuse to do girly things, like going to spas. I love giving massage but my SO hates getting them. What guy resists massages?! So weird!

Jun 30th, 2008, 12:42 PM	#19
luckygirl83 Member Location: New York City	I've been delegating some of these tasks to others (i.e., cooking, laundry, cleaning, foot massages), much to my b/f's delight (he says I nag less). When I am saving money for new clothes or bags, I give my "helpers" a vacation. I guess I am trying the "hit the two birds with one stone" technique. It's exhausting to be a woman!

Jun 30th, 2008, 02:55 PM	#22
guccimamma guccimamma	they want someone who is truly happy to see them when they come home. don't lay the problems of the day on them right away, give them a beer and some food first...and if it has been a very difficult day, a quick bj doesn't hurt. they are very simple, we make it complicated.

Jun 30th, 2008, 05:17 PM	#25
illinirdhd Sofa King Hooked Location: Las Vegas, NV	Sometimes, I really think my hubby would be happy with a TV and remote. But most of the time, I think he just loves sharing his life with someone. It's like you have more purpose when you're living with another person in your heart and mind. He protests all my crap in the bathroom, but secretly I think he likes it. He likes having someone to talk to, snuggle with, argue with, shop with, spend time with, take care of, etc. Men also need lots of ego-boosting. They want to know that they're the sexiest man on earth, and that we really need them in our lives. __________________

Jun 30th, 2008, 11:30 PM	#26
Charles Sucks at budgeting Location: Jacksonville, Fl	Well, first off, no matter how much you want to generalize, all men don't want the same thing. I mean, yeah, we want sex and someone to clean and cook, but there's a lot more. Hell, I can get any girl to have sex with me and do the dishes, what else can you offer? When it comes down to it, you usually figure it out when you start dating and get to know them better. If you can't figure it out, then you're probably not destined to be together.

Jun 30th, 2008, 11:39 PM	#27
amber11 Member	my bf says he likes that i keep things challenging and that i'm entertaining... and of course sex and what not- however he's a better cook then me so hes not getting his hopes up on that one

Jun 30th, 2008, 11:47 PM	#28
fabuless Let it snow! Location: Western New York	To be thanked. Men love it when women are grateful...even for little things. __________________ Wish List MJ Quilted Elise in Black Any MJ Elise with Silver Hardware

Jul 1st, 2008, 12:00 AM	#29
ChristyR143 But it was on sale!! Location: Texas	Respect __________________

Jul 1st, 2008, 04:14 AM	#30
angel143 Member	companionship? it keeps away the loneliness. gosh the list can go on and on!