Wait with me, please

redredshoes · Jun 12th, 2008, 11:17 PM

Well, I have my share of problems with my boyfriend, whom I live with. Generally we do all right, but there was just a series of events this week that has led him to decide he can't take anymore. He had some harsh but not totally definitive words this morning. So I am now waiting for him to get home from work to tell me he wants me out. He is very late and I think trying to stay out as long as possible. I can't really think about or do anything else. It's been a very long day.

artich0ke · Jun 12th, 2008, 11:19 PM

I wish I had some words of wisdom for you, but that's all I got! Good luck :)

redredshoes · Jun 12th, 2008, 11:19 PM

Thank you, that helps the wait a little

boxermom · Jun 12th, 2008, 11:32 PM

So sorry about this. Whatever happens, you can make the best of it.

((hugs))

harlem_cutie · Jun 12th, 2008, 11:34 PM

best of luck to you {{{hugs}}} and of course, be strong

gina8521 · Jun 12th, 2008, 11:36 PM

It will work out the way it is meant to, for the both of you (hugs)

BTBF · Jun 12th, 2008, 11:39 PM

Maybe he will feel bad about what he did and apologize to you.

redredshoes · Jun 12th, 2008, 11:43 PM

Thanks for saying that . . . But knowing him, staying the hell away from home can only mean he is thinking things over/bracing himself and is absolutely not entertaining any sentimental feelings . . . It is almost the time he usually goes to bed . . .

illinirdhd · Jun 12th, 2008, 11:47 PM

I don't have any words of widsom either, so I'm sending good thoughts your way.

ilovepinkhearts · Jun 12th, 2008, 11:50 PM

im sorry you are having to wait....im very impatient so it would be very hard on me. what ever happens i wish the best for you. good luck, i hope he is home soon.

candace117 · Jun 12th, 2008, 11:50 PM

I would just leave before he got there. Don't wait around for him if you already know what he's going to do. Easier said than done, but a girl's gotta have her self-respect...

illinirdhd · Jun 12th, 2008, 11:55 PM

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Originally Posted by candace117

I would just leave before he got there. Don't wait around for him if you already know what he's going to do. Easier said than done, but a girl's gotta have her self-respect...

Yep, I probably would too. I'd at least be packing. (Maybe even packing HIM instead of me!)

shallow-ish · Jun 12th, 2008, 11:58 PM

Waiting in uncomfortable situations drives me nuts. Try to find something to do to distract yourself....I don't know, shave your legs, bake a cake, whatever!

Good luck and I hope that things turn out for the best.

redredshoes · Jun 12th, 2008, 11:58 PM

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Originally Posted by candace117

I would just leave before he got there. Don't wait around for him if you already know what he's going to do. Easier said than done, but a girl's gotta have her self-respect...

I would rather just have it over with . . . Also we share a vehicle, which he has, and I moved to this town for him relatively recently, so I don't have anywhere to go, unfortunately. The beginning of the fight was my fault, but by now it has brought up every possible issue and resentment . . . some of which I was not aware of.

Lululovebags · Jun 13th, 2008, 12:03 AM

be strong for whatever that is coming...you'll do good..

Jun 12th, 2008, 11:17 PM	#1
redredshoes Member	Wait with me, please Well, I have my share of problems with my boyfriend, whom I live with. Generally we do all right, but there was just a series of events this week that has led him to decide he can't take anymore. He had some harsh but not totally definitive words this morning. So I am now waiting for him to get home from work to tell me he wants me out. He is very late and I think trying to stay out as long as possible. I can't really think about or do anything else. It's been a very long day.

Jun 12th, 2008, 11:19 PM	#2
artich0ke Member Location: down the Cape	I wish I had some words of wisdom for you, but that's all I got! Good luck :) __________________ artich0ke

Jun 12th, 2008, 11:34 PM	#5
harlem_cutie bored. Location: ~all real, all da time and live from NYC~	best of luck to you {{{hugs}}} and of course, be strong __________________

Jun 12th, 2008, 11:47 PM	#9
illinirdhd Sofa King Hooked Location: Las Vegas, NV	I don't have any words of widsom either, so I'm sending good thoughts your way. __________________

Jun 12th, 2008, 11:50 PM	#10
ilovepinkhearts hi, i'm danielle Location: Texas	im sorry you are having to wait....im very impatient so it would be very hard on me. what ever happens i wish the best for you. good luck, i hope he is home soon. __________________

Jun 12th, 2008, 11:32 PM	#4
boxermom Member Location: North Carolina	So sorry about this. Whatever happens, you can make the best of it. ((hugs))

Jun 12th, 2008, 11:36 PM	#6
gina8521 Member Location: Las Vegas	It will work out the way it is meant to, for the both of you (hugs)

Jun 12th, 2008, 11:39 PM	#7
BTBF Member	Maybe he will feel bad about what he did and apologize to you.

Jun 12th, 2008, 11:43 PM	#8
redredshoes Member	Thanks for saying that . . . But knowing him, staying the hell away from home can only mean he is thinking things over/bracing himself and is absolutely not entertaining any sentimental feelings . . . It is almost the time he usually goes to bed . . .

Jun 12th, 2008, 11:50 PM	#11
candace117 Pirate Trash Location: Hardcorvallis	I would just leave before he got there. Don't wait around for him if you already know what he's going to do. Easier said than done, but a girl's gotta have her self-respect... __________________ "With so much drama in the L-B-C, it's kinda hard bein Snoop D-O-double G."

Jun 12th, 2008, 11:58 PM	#13
shallow-ish Member Location: Sunny SoCal	Waiting in uncomfortable situations drives me nuts. Try to find something to do to distract yourself....I don't know, shave your legs, bake a cake, whatever! Good luck and I hope that things turn out for the best.

Jun 13th, 2008, 12:03 AM	#15
Lululovebags Member Location: Earth	be strong for whatever that is coming...you'll do good.. __________________ "keep your head up high. there are ppl that would kill to see you fall".