Update on an old story..

carol86cruz · Dec 23rd, 2007, 06:29 PM

hello...you may or may not remember my old thread about my lousy ex...the one that accused me of cheating because there was something wrong with my body...
i was going through a hard time and everyone here adviced me to speak with a therapist.
I visited the therapist for about 1 month and a half......
i was doing good until i saw my ex on the street last week...he called me later on that day and we have been talking on the phone for a week now..
now i feel so upset!!! all the feelings came back for him!!!
i feel i love him more than ever now and i know i can't live without him...i feel so depressed and i feel like every inch of my body is aching for a make-up with him!!!
anybody please help- i feel worse than i did 3 months ago!!!

carol86cruz · Dec 23rd, 2007, 06:59 PM

i'm not even excited about the Holidays.
i'm so heart-broken.

ImASadGiraffe · Dec 23rd, 2007, 07:35 PM

Don't give in to that guy! There is a big reason why you left him, right? Keep thinking about all the crappy things he did to you and don't let him get the best of you! YOU DESERVE BETTER!

nataliam1976 · Dec 23rd, 2007, 07:39 PM

all we have said about him is still true...please reread your old thread and believe me all those words are still valid, nobody changes over a course of a month or two...and you should start seeing the therapist again asap...good luck girlie, please dont give in.

gillianna · Dec 23rd, 2007, 07:57 PM

If seeing him on the street can make you feel so desperate for him then you haven't taken any advice from the women here. If you are happy to go thru life with a jerk like that playing mind games only you can decide if your self worth deserves to be treated like that. Please reread the threads.....Why do you feel a need to punish yourself saying you are not excited about the holidays....I mean come on......that is something a 5 year old kid says when they don't get their way. You deserve better.

Sweetpea83 · Dec 23rd, 2007, 09:13 PM

Personally, I would never give him another chance..I'm sure you'll find someone else who is worth while and will treat you better...

bagnshoofetish · Dec 23rd, 2007, 09:32 PM

you...have...got...to...be...kidding.

the whole fiasco was 4 months ago at which time you said you started therapy and now you say you've only seen a therapist for 6 weeks? I never know what to believe with you. I truly hope you are not going to drag people into this drama again cause you clearly don't listen to the advice given. I agree with the others, go read your old thread. The advice is going to be the same. THE GUY IS BAD NEWS. GET REAL. Please do not start this all over again.

Speedy · Dec 23rd, 2007, 09:50 PM

go Read The Old Thread!

wordpast · Dec 23rd, 2007, 10:05 PM

I didn't participate in your other thread. But if Bagnshoo is fed up then it can't be good! lol.

let me try and skim though your other thread...

bagnshoofetish · Dec 23rd, 2007, 10:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by wordpast

I didn't participate in your other thread. But if Bagnshoo is fed up then it can't be good! lol.

let me try and skim though your other thread...

you might want to take a cup of coffee and some donuts with you....its a long one!

devoted · Dec 23rd, 2007, 10:14 PM

skimmed through it, she admitted getting back together with him...even though she later took it back, she DID get back together with him. that other post was not a lie to "help" another member....

so they ended up really breaking up...? and now they're getting back togther? people break up and make up all the time, there's no use wasting energy on someone who won't listen, so get back together with him and let him manipulate you. just don't post a thread everytime you guys break up. it gets old

good luck!

wordpast · Dec 23rd, 2007, 10:26 PM

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Originally Posted by bagnshoofetish

you might want to take a cup of coffee and some donuts with you....its a long one!

I think I would need the donuts and a bottle of wine to get though that one! I got to page 2, skipped to the last page and that was it for me.

Carol based on the little I read and everyone consensus, just leave well enough alone.

chelsae · Dec 24th, 2007, 12:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Speedy

go Read The Old Thread!

SOLIDGOLD2 · Dec 24th, 2007, 12:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by wordpast

I didn't participate in your other thread. But if Bagnshoo is fed up then it can't be good! lol.

let me try and skim though your other thread...

i agree on this Bagnshoo gives some of the best advice in the realtioship threads and i always agree with her.

HubbaWubba · Dec 24th, 2007, 01:03 AM

Dec 23rd, 2007, 06:29 PM	#1
carol86cruz Member	Update on an old story.. hello...you may or may not remember my old thread about my lousy ex...the one that accused me of cheating because there was something wrong with my body... i was going through a hard time and everyone here adviced me to speak with a therapist. I visited the therapist for about 1 month and a half...... i was doing good until i saw my ex on the street last week...he called me later on that day and we have been talking on the phone for a week now.. now i feel so upset!!! all the feelings came back for him!!! i feel i love him more than ever now and i know i can't live without him...i feel so depressed and i feel like every inch of my body is aching for a make-up with him!!! anybody please help- i feel worse than i did 3 months ago!!! __________________

Dec 23rd, 2007, 06:59 PM	#2
carol86cruz Member	Re: Update on an old story.. i'm not even excited about the Holidays. i'm so heart-broken. __________________

Dec 23rd, 2007, 07:35 PM	#3
ImASadGiraffe Relax... Location: IL	Re: Update on an old story.. Don't give in to that guy! There is a big reason why you left him, right? Keep thinking about all the crappy things he did to you and don't let him get the best of you! YOU DESERVE BETTER! __________________

Dec 23rd, 2007, 07:39 PM	#4
nataliam1976 Hmmmph Location: all around Europe	Re: Update on an old story.. all we have said about him is still true...please reread your old thread and believe me all those words are still valid, nobody changes over a course of a month or two...and you should start seeing the therapist again asap...good luck girlie, please dont give in. __________________ "Buy me, Lady" said the frock, "and I will make you into a BEAUTIFUL and WHOLE and COMPLETE human being". "Do not be SILLY", said the Man, " for a frock alone cannot do that". "TRUE" said the Lady. " I shall have the Shoes and the Bag as well".

Dec 23rd, 2007, 07:57 PM	#5
gillianna Member	Re: Update on an old story.. If seeing him on the street can make you feel so desperate for him then you haven't taken any advice from the women here. If you are happy to go thru life with a jerk like that playing mind games only you can decide if your self worth deserves to be treated like that. Please reread the threads.....Why do you feel a need to punish yourself saying you are not excited about the holidays....I mean come on......that is something a 5 year old kid says when they don't get their way. You deserve better.

Dec 23rd, 2007, 09:13 PM	#6
Sweetpea83 Happy Holidays!	Re: Update on an old story.. Personally, I would never give him another chance..I'm sure you'll find someone else who is worth while and will treat you better... __________________ The good life is one inspired by love and guided by knowledge.- Bertrand Russell

Dec 23rd, 2007, 09:32 PM	#7
bagnshoofetish We Love Our Billy	Re: Update on an old story.. you...have...got...to...be...kidding. the whole fiasco was 4 months ago at which time you said you started therapy and now you say you've only seen a therapist for 6 weeks? I never know what to believe with you. I truly hope you are not going to drag people into this drama again cause you clearly don't listen to the advice given. I agree with the others, go read your old thread. The advice is going to be the same. THE GUY IS BAD NEWS. GET REAL. Please do not start this all over again. __________________ Please help us: http://forum.purseblog.com/animalici...nt-392607.html

Dec 23rd, 2007, 09:50 PM	#8
Speedy Sofa King Banned Location: N. California	Re: Update on an old story.. *go Read The Old Thread!*

Dec 23rd, 2007, 10:05 PM	#9
wordpast Member Location: Never Never Land	Re: Update on an old story.. I didn't participate in your other thread. But if Bagnshoo is fed up then it can't be good! lol. let me try and skim though your other thread... __________________

Dec 23rd, 2007, 10:14 PM	#11
devoted Member	Re: Update on an old story.. skimmed through it, she admitted getting back together with him...even though she later took it back, she DID get back together with him. that other post was not a lie to "help" another member.... so they ended up really breaking up...? and now they're getting back togther? people break up and make up all the time, there's no use wasting energy on someone who won't listen, so get back together with him and let him manipulate you. just don't post a thread everytime you guys break up. it gets old good luck!

Dec 24th, 2007, 01:03 AM	#15
HubbaWubba Sofa King Banned	Re: Update on an old story..