Ugh...my ex's current gf is harassing me on the internet

azhangie · Jun 13th, 2008, 05:17 PM

I think the title says it all. A month ago my ex's current gf IMed me over AIM (how she got my sn..i dunno) saying "why does *** stil have a thing for you!?!? WHY WHY WHY?!?!". At first I thought it was a stupid prank by one of my more stupid friends...turns out its my ex's current gf.

I found out when I was talking to his gf after me (which is now his ex as well) that the screen name belonged to his current gf and apparently he cheated on his ex with this current gf and the current gf knew about it at the time.

Just a little background info: this guy has a cheating problem. He used to cyber cheat on me..he'd find little 14 yr old grls in yahoo chat rooms and forums to do dirty chatting with.

So anyways, now I find out that she has been following me around the internet everywhere. This forum, my xanga, my facebook, my myspace,calorie-count, my lost forum (hahaha - i'm a dork i know) and anything else that has my username. I'm the type of person that uses one username so once she found out my username, all she had to do was google it and find everything else. She even tried to add me on facebook and myspace using a name of someone from my high school so she could see my profile and stuff. She even tried to add my friends as well. I know it's her because i keep getting harassing IM's from her telling me to stay away from my ex (which i wouldnt go near with a 10 foot pole) with my louboutin heels. Ok wtf?! She even went so far as to create a user name on calorie-count to post nasty comments on my threads. Unfortunately, they are not as strict as this forum...so she does as she pleases there. She keeps logging onto my xanga (which i no longer use) with her username (which is stupid of her since xanga logs everyone that visits ur site now). I blocked her on AIM and she just makes up more sn's to bug me.

I'm about up to here with her. I honestly have never even seen her before, I have no idea what she looks like or sounds like or what her last name is. I've cut all communications with my ex since our breakup, about 4-5 yrs ago. Man..what is up with this grl.

IntlSet · Jun 13th, 2008, 05:29 PM

Oh my God, how old are you guys... this is like middle-school behavior!

IntlSet · Jun 13th, 2008, 05:29 PM

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Originally Posted by azhangie

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Just a little background info: this guy has a cheating problem. He used to cyber cheat on me..he'd find little 14 yr old grls in yahoo chat rooms and forums to do dirty chatting with.

artich0ke · Jun 13th, 2008, 05:30 PM

She is crazy. And immature. I don't know what else to say other than that!

azhangie · Jun 13th, 2008, 05:33 PM

I have no idea how old she is....he's 26 (2 yrs older than me).
I use AIM as a means for staying in touch with friends from college that have spread out since. I seriously feel like i'm back in high school or something.

I'm not even sure what to do....I just want her to go away. I've done nothing to her I dont even know her.

lovinalotofbags · Jun 13th, 2008, 06:14 PM

Change your usernames. Do not reply to her. Try not to think about her. She is unhinged.

oogiewoogie · Jun 13th, 2008, 06:47 PM

Wow... she's beyond borderline crazy... she's psycho.

I suggest changing your screen-name on everything.. user ID's etc.. including your financial credit cards, banking institution's, ALL sites you use, etc. Change it to something totally different & change your passwords as well.

Wow.. this is seriously like online stalking..

Best of luck to you AzHangie~!

hellosunshine · Jun 13th, 2008, 07:04 PM

wow, change your usernames now and switch off the search function for facebook that way when someone types your name..you won't come up. And as for your ex..he's a creep!

azhangie · Jun 13th, 2008, 07:41 PM

I'm changing most of my usernames...I'm trying to think of something cute or clever..just anything not dumb. And yep my ex is a creep...I went through all 5 stages of grief when i found out, especially denial.

GUCCI_COOCHIE · Jun 13th, 2008, 07:52 PM

What a psycho!!! I think you should tell her off or contact your ex so he can tell her to stop this psychotic behavior!

April_Skye · Jun 13th, 2008, 09:25 PM

This girl has a screw loose! Do the things that you CAN do (change usernames, make profiles private, block her, etc) but even though she may be able to work around this and contact you again, IGNORE her.
this girl is CRAVING for a fight. And you're better then that. It will be hard at first. But if you dont give her anything to work with, she'll give up (albeit reluctantly..)
Best of luck!

Now, dont you feel better that you are away from your creepy ex and all that drama?? Youre so much better then that :)

scarlett_2005 · Jun 13th, 2008, 09:34 PM

What a nut case! Can you put your myspace and xanga on private so she can't view? I'm sorry you are going through this. Whatever you do don't respond to any messages she sends you, she is only looking to get a rise out of you.

Good luck!

April_Skye · Jun 13th, 2008, 11:49 PM

By the way, might I just add, how frickin immature is she? I cant stand people that hide behind their computer monitors and pick fights over the internet. Its really sad. At least you can smile about that because your not getting caught up in that playground drama.
Yknow, you could ALMOST feel sorry for your ex boyfriend having to date this weirdo..... almost.

candypants1100 · Jun 13th, 2008, 11:52 PM

if she in any way threatens you, you can report her to the police. you have protection under the 'online bullying act' law (i might have misnamed that, but im positive theres something like it out there because i'm always told to warn my students about it)

claireZk · Jun 14th, 2008, 02:03 AM

OMG you dated this guy 4-5 years ago and she's harassing you????

I don't even know what to say... That's crazy!

Jun 13th, 2008, 05:17 PM	#1
azhangie Piggy Fajita Location: I see cows and hills	Ugh...my ex's current gf is harassing me on the internet I think the title says it all. A month ago my ex's current gf IMed me over AIM (how she got my sn..i dunno) saying "why does *** stil have a thing for you!?!? WHY WHY WHY?!?!". At first I thought it was a stupid prank by one of my more stupid friends...turns out its my ex's current gf. I found out when I was talking to his gf after me (which is now his ex as well) that the screen name belonged to his current gf and apparently he cheated on his ex with this current gf and the current gf knew about it at the time. Just a little background info: this guy has a cheating problem. He used to cyber cheat on me..he'd find little 14 yr old grls in yahoo chat rooms and forums to do dirty chatting with. So anyways, now I find out that she has been following me around the internet everywhere. This forum, my xanga, my facebook, my myspace,calorie-count, my lost forum (hahaha - i'm a dork i know) and anything else that has my username. I'm the type of person that uses one username so once she found out my username, all she had to do was google it and find everything else. She even tried to add me on facebook and myspace using a name of someone from my high school so she could see my profile and stuff. She even tried to add my friends as well. I know it's her because i keep getting harassing IM's from her telling me to stay away from my ex (which i wouldnt go near with a 10 foot pole) with my louboutin heels. Ok wtf?! She even went so far as to create a user name on calorie-count to post nasty comments on my threads. Unfortunately, they are not as strict as this forum...so she does as she pleases there. She keeps logging onto my xanga (which i no longer use) with her username (which is stupid of her since xanga logs everyone that visits ur site now). I blocked her on AIM and she just makes up more sn's to bug me. I'm about up to here with her. I honestly have never even seen her before, I have no idea what she looks like or sounds like or what her last name is. I've cut all communications with my ex since our breakup, about 4-5 yrs ago. Man..what is up with this grl. __________________ coffee addiction

Jun 13th, 2008, 05:29 PM	#2
IntlSet Bonjour! Location: Chicago	Oh my God, how old are you guys... this is like middle-school behavior! __________________ http://drinkmorechampagne.wordpress.com/

Jun 13th, 2008, 05:30 PM	#4
artich0ke Member Location: down the Cape	She is crazy. And immature. I don't know what else to say other than that! __________________ artich0ke

Jun 13th, 2008, 05:33 PM	#5
azhangie Piggy Fajita Location: I see cows and hills	I have no idea how old she is....he's 26 (2 yrs older than me). I use AIM as a means for staying in touch with friends from college that have spread out since. I seriously feel like i'm back in high school or something. I'm not even sure what to do....I just want her to go away. I've done nothing to her I dont even know her. __________________ coffee addiction

Jun 13th, 2008, 06:14 PM	#6
lovinalotofbags In for the long haul Location: South Carolina	Change your usernames. Do not reply to her. Try not to think about her. She is unhinged. __________________ Always forgive your enemies. Nothing annoys them so much.

Jun 13th, 2008, 06:47 PM	#7
oogiewoogie iS eNjOyin Life :o) Location: Beachy SoCAL...♥	Wow... she's beyond borderline crazy... she's psycho. I suggest changing your screen-name on everything.. user ID's etc.. including your financial credit cards, banking institution's, ALL sites you use, etc. Change it to something totally different & change your passwords as well. Wow.. this is seriously like online stalking.. Best of luck to you AzHangie~! __________________ " It is as easy to create a castle as a button. It's just a matter of whether you're focused on a castle or a button." - Abraham-Hicks."

Jun 13th, 2008, 07:04 PM	#8
hellosunshine Hi, I'm Sara!	wow, change your usernames now and switch off the search function for facebook that way when someone types your name..you won't come up. And as for your ex..he's a creep! __________________ MY LOVELY COLLECTION: Louis Vuitton Vernis Agenda '08 Balenciaga White Work with Giant Gold Hardware Multicolor White Louis Vuitton Wapity Louis Vuitton Azur Speedy 30 Louis Vuitton Mini Pochette Louis Vuitton Damier Speedy Soon To Add: Rebecca Minkoff Yellow Nikki Coin Purses Balenciaga!

Jun 13th, 2008, 07:41 PM	#9
azhangie Piggy Fajita Location: I see cows and hills	I'm changing most of my usernames...I'm trying to think of something cute or clever..just anything not dumb. And yep my ex is a creep...I went through all 5 stages of grief when i found out, especially denial. __________________ coffee addiction

Jun 13th, 2008, 07:52 PM	#10
GUCCI_COOCHIE 90 day ban! 6/1-8/31 Location: OC.	What a psycho!!! I think you should tell her off or contact your ex so he can tell her to stop this psychotic behavior! __________________ *CURRENTLY ON A 90-day BAN! http://90dayshoppingrehab.blogspot.com/

Jun 13th, 2008, 09:25 PM	#11
April_Skye we CAN have it all Location: over there..... and down a bit	This girl has a screw loose! Do the things that you CAN do (change usernames, make profiles private, block her, etc) but even though she may be able to work around this and contact you again, IGNORE her. this girl is CRAVING for a fight. And you're better then that. It will be hard at first. But if you dont give her anything to work with, she'll give up (albeit reluctantly..) Best of luck! Now, dont you feel better that you are away from your creepy ex and all that drama?? Youre so much better then that :) __________________ Live Now. Kill The Boredom

Jun 13th, 2008, 09:34 PM	#12
scarlett_2005 Crazy 4 LV Location: USA	What a nut case! Can you put your myspace and xanga on private so she can't view? I'm sorry you are going through this. Whatever you do don't respond to any messages she sends you, she is only looking to get a rise out of you. Good luck! __________________ I did it, I lost all my baby weight!

Jun 13th, 2008, 11:49 PM	#13
April_Skye we CAN have it all Location: over there..... and down a bit	By the way, might I just add, how frickin immature is she? I cant stand people that hide behind their computer monitors and pick fights over the internet. Its really sad. At least you can smile about that because your not getting caught up in that playground drama. Yknow, you could ALMOST feel sorry for your ex boyfriend having to date this weirdo..... almost. __________________ Live Now. Kill The Boredom

Jun 13th, 2008, 11:52 PM	#14
candypants1100 Member Location: candyland	if she in any way threatens you, you can report her to the police. you have protection under the 'online bullying act' law (i might have misnamed that, but im positive theres something like it out there because i'm always told to warn my students about it)

Jun 14th, 2008, 02:03 AM	#15
claireZk Member	OMG you dated this guy 4-5 years ago and she's harassing you???? I don't even know what to say... That's crazy! __________________