SO goes out all the time, cause for concern?

Laurie8504 · Jun 26th, 2008, 02:14 AM

Hey, the poor guy's got to have something to do when you're gone! It sounds to me like he's just going out with his friend, who happens to be single (my guess is his friends who aren't single are too busy with their gfs to go out with him). I wouldn't worry about it.

ChanelGirlE · Jun 26th, 2008, 12:38 PM

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Originally Posted by bagnshoofetish

sounds like he is acting like his "wing man". you know him best. if you feel you have nothing to worry about, then you have nothing to worry about.

sounds about right. i don't mind when the dh goes out SOMETIMES with his single guy friends...

but then again i do also know my girlfriend's SO goes out with single guy friends to meet other women behind her back and she has NO clue, they live together. that alone is another story.

Maryanne007 · Jun 26th, 2008, 07:42 PM

I have met his single friend actually a bunch of times in the past when we first started dating, but seriously have not seen him for about 6 months, though I know this is his "best" friend. This friend, is also a serial womanizer, but I guess I should not transfer his actions to my SO necessarily?

I guess I just dont see the joy of going out drinking all the time with single guys who are looking for girls. I mean what would he be doing while they were all laying their "mack on" (haha, couldnt think of a better term).

FrancescaAveiro · Jun 26th, 2008, 10:00 PM

me and my bf are in a LDR and i know he goes out with friends all the time but i don't worry at all. in fact, i go out with my friends who are single to clubs, etc. and it's not really a problem for either of us. i think the bottom line is trust and security. I've not met most of his friends and he even goes out with his team mates and well...i know how they can be but he says what he means by not being interested in anyone else and i trust him.

Maryanne007 · Jun 26th, 2008, 10:14 PM

^^ thats true, I'm not really worried, sometimes I think it irks me, and sometimes I think I'm just being silly. Perhaps its just cause I personally am not a huge fan of the clubbing, drinking bar scene, but that doesnt mean other people arent!

Jun 26th, 2008, 07:42 PM	#18
Maryanne007 Member	I have met his single friend actually a bunch of times in the past when we first started dating, but seriously have not seen him for about 6 months, though I know this is his "best" friend. This friend, is also a serial womanizer, but I guess I should not transfer his actions to my SO necessarily? I guess I just dont see the joy of going out drinking all the time with single guys who are looking for girls. I mean what would he be doing while they were all laying their "mack on" (haha, couldnt think of a better term). Last edited by Maryanne007; Jun 26th, 2008 at 07:45 PM.

Jun 26th, 2008, 02:14 AM	#16
Laurie8504 chocolate...where? Location: Italy	Hey, the poor guy's got to have something to do when you're gone! It sounds to me like he's just going out with his friend, who happens to be single (my guess is his friends who aren't single are too busy with their gfs to go out with him). I wouldn't worry about it.

Jun 26th, 2008, 10:00 PM	#19
FrancescaAveiro Member	me and my bf are in a LDR and i know he goes out with friends all the time but i don't worry at all. in fact, i go out with my friends who are single to clubs, etc. and it's not really a problem for either of us. i think the bottom line is trust and security. I've not met most of his friends and he even goes out with his team mates and well...i know how they can be but he says what he means by not being interested in anyone else and i trust him.

Jun 26th, 2008, 10:14 PM	#20
Maryanne007 Member	^^ thats true, I'm not really worried, sometimes I think it irks me, and sometimes I think I'm just being silly. Perhaps its just cause I personally am not a huge fan of the clubbing, drinking bar scene, but that doesnt mean other people arent!