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Prayes · Mar 27th, 2009, 05:17 PM

Originally Posted by pokipoki

just add them you guys!!!

i'll add my hip hop instructor if you add them....

oh crap, now i know how it feels, my hands immediately sweat.

Yeahhhh see it is not that easy! Facebook has totally taken dating to a new level.

HappyGrl2008 · Mar 27th, 2009, 05:19 PM

Originally Posted by Zophie

see what I mean! Hahaha! And what is so silly is I don't even know this dude. I just met him once and he just seemed so super sweet and almost like he was flirting. There was just something about him. And now I'm paranoid that somehow he'll find out I'm posting this stuff on tpf like I'm sure he reads all about purses and stuff and he'll show up here.

Add him, add him, add him, add him! You've got nothing to lose!! If he doesn't accept you, so what? And if he does, who knows what could happen! (But I'll admit I know EXACTLY how you feel!!!)

Well, I emailed the '(ex-boy)friend' that ignores me and wrote everyone back to thank for b-day wishes but me. I sent him a short funny e-mail asking where he was...he replied immediately but with like 5 words or so...not asking how I was... nothing...gosh he has become such an a**...my biggest mistake....such a shame cause he was such a sweet person and I miss that person every day.

Still haven't heard from the other guy I've been emailing....I hope he's not mad at me...I kinda come to the conclusion that email is not my strongest point...lol!

Zophie · Mar 27th, 2009, 05:58 PM

OMG I just added him! I'm on the phone with my ex listening to him yammer and yammer and I did it while I'm on the phone. In fact, I'm still on the phone with him and he's getting married.

HappyGrl2008 · Mar 27th, 2009, 06:09 PM

Originally Posted by Zophie

OMG I just added him! I'm on the phone with my ex listening to him yammer and yammer and I did it while I'm on the phone. In fact, I'm still on the phone with him and he's getting married.

you must be wonderwoman doing all those things at the same time!

BTW, good for you for adding him!!!! Now...I believe somebody else here has to add someone on FB now??...

Zophie · Mar 27th, 2009, 06:23 PM

Originally Posted by HappyGrl2008

you must be wonderwoman doing all those things at the same time!

BTW, good for you for adding him!!!! Now...I believe somebody else here has to add someone on FB now??...

yep, see, if I did, you can. I kind of was getting depressed talking to my ex hearing how he's getting married. Not that I'm not happy for him, he is a nice guy and deserves happiness, but then he starts asking me about if I'm seeing anyone and I just feel like a total loser.

Prayes · Mar 27th, 2009, 06:25 PM

lol!!! yeah... that's me... but I am stuck debating if I should attach a message or not. Maybe something short like "hi neighbor!"? I always thought it was weird when people attached messages to friend requests though.

God, talk about worrying about the details.

Zophie · Mar 27th, 2009, 06:28 PM

I attached a message and asked him if he was the same guy I had worked with in that depo. I figured otherwise he might not know who I am. And I did actually search him another way, through a common TV show interest, and found him too, so if he asks how I found him, well, I was just browing. Funny that some women have no problem just flirting away like it's no big deal and I feel mortified by just adding someone on facebook.

HappyGrl2008 · Mar 27th, 2009, 06:36 PM

Originally Posted by Prayes

lol!!! yeah... that's me... but I am stuck debating if I should attach a message or not. Maybe something short like "hi neighbor!"? I always thought it was weird when people attached messages to friend requests though.

God, talk about worrying about the details.

Really? Cause I often add a msg to a request...hmmm...lol! I sometimes think that people have forgotten me or don't know who I am anymore...dunno why I think that...Today I received a request from a guy I might have met twice in my life and that was 4 yrs ago! He didn't add a msg and he has almost 500 friends so I just assume he has a HUGE ego, lol!! I did add him though...but I hate to be a friend on someone's list just to be a filler...I dunno...if I start analysing facebook too much I go gaga!

Prayes · Mar 27th, 2009, 08:07 PM

Originally Posted by Zophie

I attached a message and asked him if he was the same guy I had worked with in that depo. I figured otherwise he might not know who I am. And I did actually search him another way, through a common TV show interest, and found him too, so if he asks how I found him, well, I was just browing. Funny that some women have no problem just flirting away like it's no big deal and I feel mortified by just adding someone on facebook.

As is some how some guys have no problem making an ass out of themselves in public, and I too am terrified by facebook friending someone. Anyway, request sent... we'll see how this pans out...

Zophie · Mar 27th, 2009, 10:49 PM

I still haven't heard a response.

lolitablue · Mar 27th, 2009, 11:11 PM

Originally Posted by Zophie

I still haven't heard a response.

Zophie!! He will respond!!

Zophie · Mar 27th, 2009, 11:17 PM

Originally Posted by lolitablue

Zophie!! He will respond!!

ha, I'm just second guessing myself now. I mean it's not like he's even necessarily going to think I added him for any reason other than I just know him so why am I beating myself up. Why am I so silly and overanalyze stuff so much?

Prayes · Mar 27th, 2009, 11:34 PM

if it makes you feel any better, no response for me either!

Zophie · Mar 27th, 2009, 11:36 PM

Originally Posted by Prayes

if it makes you feel any better, no response for me either!

well I guess they're all out having fun tonight. I should be getting some work done but I can't concentrate. I always get insecure if I even halfway like a guy but otherwise I never am like this. Argh.

Prayes · Mar 27th, 2009, 11:38 PM

Yeah, apparently! I am working as well... slow but steady progress. working friday night, we are so lame!

Mar 27th, 2009, 05:58 PM	#108
Zophie I <3 my Maltese! Joined: Feb 2007 Location: New Orleans, LA Posts: 8,490	OMG I just added him! I'm on the phone with my ex listening to him yammer and yammer and I did it while I'm on the phone. In fact, I'm still on the phone with him and he's getting married.
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Mar 27th, 2009, 06:28 PM	#112
Zophie I <3 my Maltese! Joined: Feb 2007 Location: New Orleans, LA Posts: 8,490	I attached a message and asked him if he was the same guy I had worked with in that depo. I figured otherwise he might not know who I am. And I did actually search him another way, through a common TV show interest, and found him too, so if he asks how I found him, well, I was just browing. Funny that some women have no problem just flirting away like it's no big deal and I feel mortified by just adding someone on facebook.
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Mar 27th, 2009, 10:49 PM	#115
Zophie I <3 my Maltese! Joined: Feb 2007 Location: New Orleans, LA Posts: 8,490	I still haven't heard a response.
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Mar 27th, 2009, 06:25 PM	#111
Prayes rawr! Joined: Nov 2008 Location: New York, NY Posts: 516	lol!!! yeah... that's me... but I am stuck debating if I should attach a message or not. Maybe something short like "hi neighbor!"? I always thought it was weird when people attached messages to friend requests though. God, talk about worrying about the details.

Mar 27th, 2009, 11:34 PM	#118
Prayes rawr! Joined: Nov 2008 Location: New York, NY Posts: 516	if it makes you feel any better, no response for me either!

Mar 27th, 2009, 11:38 PM	#120
Prayes rawr! Joined: Nov 2008 Location: New York, NY Posts: 516	Yeah, apparently! I am working as well... slow but steady progress. working friday night, we are so lame!

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