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[Zophie]

Originally Posted by ~Fabulousity~

^^^ I agree! You both should add them

Ha, I might wait a bit and see if I can figure out a way to do it. I mean if I did it now how would I explain how I found him?



I guess one good thing about being single is that I don't have to worry about trying to find time to squeeze a relationship into my super busy schedule. I literally work just about every day, often morning and night, and have a crazy sleep schedule too.

I also don't have to worry about leaving my dog alone too long if I want to spend time with someone.

And if I don't shave my legs for a couple days and just wear pants, who will know?

[Zophie]

Originally Posted by Prayes

I think you should add him! What do you have to lose?? I am in the same situation sort of... I have a huge crush on my neighbor. We see each other from time to time in the elevator of our apartment building, but it's never enough time to actually have a real conversation, you know? I actually met her parents first because they were checking out the building for her, and I offered to show them what my apartment looked like, so I know her parents like me, lol (this was before I knew their daughter was absolutely adorable). Anyway, I may or may not have gotten her last name from looking at a packing sitting outside her door. And I may or may not have used it to look her up on facebook, but I haven't added her yet either. Zophie, I'll do it if you do it!

Ha, maybe we could add each other's person, but that might be strange. We'll have to figure out a way. Part of me thinks though if this dude really had been interested in me in the first place when I met him he would have called me, so why bother.

[Prayes]

Originally Posted by Zophie

Ha, maybe we could add each other's person, but that might be strange. We'll have to figure out a way. Part of me thinks though if this dude really had been interested in me in the first place when I met him he would have called me, so why bother.

Adding each other's person would be SUPER strange. You don't know that he wasn't interested!! Most guys are shy, you know?? He's probably talking to his friends about this girl he talked to once and then facebook stalked but didn't want to add her out of the blue.

[Zophie]

Originally Posted by Prayes

Adding each other's person would be SUPER strange. You don't know that he wasn't interested!! Most guys are shy, you know?? He's probably talking to his friends about this girl he talked to once and then facebook stalked but didn't want to add her out of the blue.

This guy has been an attorney for over 20 years and seemed pretty confident. I can't imagine he'd be afraid to ask a girl for a drink. If he really was shy he could have just scheduled some work with me.

[Prayes]

Originally Posted by Zophie

This guy has been an attorney for over 20 years and seemed pretty confident. I can't imagine he'd be afraid to ask a girl for a drink. If he really was shy he could have just scheduled some work with me.

Maybe he thought it wasn't appropriate to flirt with coworkers of the opposite sex at work? That's true at least where I work. And I've worked in a law firm before, and it's definitely not appropriate there, lol.

I just think you should go for it and attach a message with your friend request that's like "hey I randomly thought of you the other day and just wanted to say hi!". That wouldn't be so bad, would it?

[HappyGrl2008]

Originally Posted by Zophie

And if I don't shave my legs for a couple days and just wear pants, who will know?

Yeah!!! I like that too, not having to worry too much about those beauty things...who's gonna see anyway?? When I'm with someone I'm afraid I missed a hair somewhere or something......hehe

Right now I'm eating a bag of crisps and I'm happy nobody is seeing how I'm putting the last tiny crisps in my mouth!! I'm a total pig right now, lol!!

[simmmchen]

Thank you, pokipoki, HappyGrl, Zophie, and Fabulosity, for saying I'm not a freak

I'll try to be more positive now

HappyGrl, I totally know what you mean about the chips crumbs heehee. I'm a pig, too LoL

[Zophie]

Originally Posted by Prayes

Maybe he thought it wasn't appropriate to flirt with coworkers of the opposite sex at work? That's true at least where I work. And I've worked in a law firm before, and it's definitely not appropriate there, lol. I just think you should go for it and attach a message with your friend request that's like "hey I randomly thought of you the other day and just wanted to say hi!". That wouldn't be so bad, would it?

But I'm a court reporter and it was a deposition. He's not even the attorney that is the client of our firm. He was opposing counsel. It was like a year or so ago and I've never seen him again.

[aklein]

Originally Posted by Zophie

And if I don't shave my legs for a couple days and just wear pants, who will know?

How did I forget this one?!

I think you should add the guy. I friended my crush from class who I had never talked to. I assumed that he wouldn't accept it or might think I was a stalker, but ...
he accepted my friend request almost immediately. And he isn't even a facebook person. I finally got ballsy enough to ask him out for a drink, and he replied that he would once his month of tests is done. I am counting down the days til this month is over. And now, we say hi to each other in class and IM during class.

[Prayes]

Yeah, you definitely don't want to flirt with anyone during a deposition. I think it's worth a shot. Would you add him if I added my neighbor? lol

[pokipoki]

Originally Posted by Zophie

OMG I'm just such a total dork. I'm sitting up late and can't sleep (as usual) and I googled the name of this guy I met like over a year ago at work and thought he might be flirting and never saw him again though but really wished I did. :( Anyway, I found a facebook profile for him and it says he's single, but I can't just add him. He's got like 10 friends and I met him once over a year ago. That would just be...weird. I feel like such a loser.

...lol
i'm more of a loser than you are.
i searched my hip hop instructor on facebook hoping it wasnt a private profile so I can look into it. he is such a hottie, i can never concentrate on the dance moves because i feel like he's paying attention to me. HAHAHAHAHAHA i'm such a loser. the more i wanted to impress him with the dance moves,the more i screwed up.

and my physical therapist aid, he looks like paul rudd from "iloveyou, man", he's cute. just my type...at the moment. we talked a bit, i could sense he was a bit nervous when he was told to do an ultrasound my quads, so he started talking things, and i was nervous too....so i started babbling, and since english isnt my first languange, i sounded like a broken radio with broken english. and yeah... i searched him on facebook.

so there you go...hope you feel better!

[pokipoki]

Originally Posted by Prayes

Yeah, you definitely don't want to flirt with anyone during a deposition. I think it's worth a shot. Would you add him if I added my neighbor? lol

just add them you guys!!!

i'll add my hip hop instructor if you add them....
oh crap, now i know how it feels, my hands immediately sweat.

[pokipoki]

Originally Posted by aklein

How did I forget this one?! I think you should add the guy. I friended my crush from class who I had never talked to. I assumed that he wouldn't accept it or might think I was a stalker, but ... he accepted my friend request almost immediately. And he isn't even a facebook person. I finally got ballsy enough to ask him out for a drink, and he replied that he would once his month of tests is done. I am counting down the days til this month is over. And now, we say hi to each other in class and IM during class.

how cute! the month is almost over! dont forget to share with us here how that goes.

my friends urged me to do the same to the hip hop instructor that I thought was very cute. my friend said " people facebook people all the time".
i didnt believe him, but people who I dont know very well have facebooked me in the past and i didnt think much when I accept them.

[Zophie]

Originally Posted by aklein

How did I forget this one?! I think you should add the guy. I friended my crush from class who I had never talked to. I assumed that he wouldn't accept it or might think I was a stalker, but ... he accepted my friend request almost immediately. And he isn't even a facebook person. I finally got ballsy enough to ask him out for a drink, and he replied that he would once his month of tests is done. I am counting down the days til this month is over. And now, we say hi to each other in class and IM during class.

ah, that's awesome! I'll probably do it. I mean I think I have over 100 friends so it won't stand out much I guess if I do.

[Zophie]

Originally Posted by pokipoki

just add them you guys!!! i'll add my hip hop instructor if you add them.... oh crap, now i know how it feels, my hands immediately sweat.

see what I mean! Hahaha! And what is so silly is I don't even know this dude. I just met him once and he just seemed so super sweet and almost like he was flirting. There was just something about him. And now I'm paranoid that somehow he'll find out I'm posting this stuff on tpf like I'm sure he reads all about purses and stuff and he'll show up here.