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Zophie · Mar 26th, 2009, 09:40 AM

Originally Posted by ~Fabulousity~

#5 Yeah if you consider having sex alone a better sex life

Sadly, sometimes it is! But if I'm actually in a serious relationship with the person I would hope it's not the case.

Zophie · Mar 26th, 2009, 09:41 AM

Originally Posted by ~Fabulousity~

update~ the officer I was telling you all about finally said something to me this morning. I passed his booth and he said "hi there, I heard my partner talked to you" and I said "yea he did was that you he was talking about?" and he said "yes

" So I smiled and kept walking.

I went across the street to get breakfast and while I was standing watching CNN on the t.v. in the carryout I saw him coming across the street. He came in and walked over to me and said " so what's your name"

I told him and we shook hands. We made some small talk and then when my order was up he said "so you think you have room for one more BFF"

I responded "sure" and then we exchanged numbers

well, is he cute? I'll probably get hit on by one of the crack dealers he's supposed to be arresting today.

~Fabulousity~ · Mar 26th, 2009, 10:16 AM

Originally Posted by Zophie

well, is he cute? I'll probably get hit on by one of the crack dealers he's supposed to be arresting today.

he's okay. I'll chat with him, but I can't see me getting involved with him. I always hear bad things about police officers. In my city they are the worst of cheaters!

lostnexposed · Mar 26th, 2009, 10:46 AM

Originally Posted by ~Fabulousity~

update~ the officer I was telling you all about finally said something to me this morning. I passed his booth and he said "hi there, I heard my partner talked to you" and I said "yea he did was that you he was talking about?" and he said "yes

" So I smiled and kept walking.

I went across the street to get breakfast and while I was standing watching CNN on the t.v. in the carryout I saw him coming across the street. He came in and walked over to me and said " so what's your name"

I told him and we shook hands. We made some small talk and then when my order was up he said "so you think you have room for one more BFF"

I responded "sure" and then we exchanged numbers

wait..is this the hot one? or the hottie's coworker?

~Fabulousity~ · Mar 26th, 2009, 12:35 PM

^^^the co-worker who the hottie told me about

simmmchen · Mar 26th, 2009, 06:55 PM

Hey everyone! Checking back in... I posted on the other thread for a while. I was sick for a long time, that's why I haven't posted... My specs (lol): have been single for 3 years, haven't had sex in 3 years, haven't been kissed in 1 year. A month ago I realized everytime my physical therapist touches my back it makes me jolt

. So now I feel like a freak that has never been touched and is allergic to a human touch anywhere except my hands

. I feel less human with every day that passes. I have no idea how to get romance or affection back into my life.

I was kind of dating a co-worker before I got sick. I liked him, but when I'm around him and we're alone I turn into a rock. It was not like this when other people were around (like when we were out for drinks with other co-workers): I was flirty and there were sparks. Now I'm not sure I like him anymore. Really, I know it's probably not him, it's me.

Now you all know I'm a freak

Can I still hang out with you?

Prayes · Mar 26th, 2009, 08:10 PM

Originally Posted by ~Fabulousity~

^^^the co-worker who the hottie told me about

are they friends as well? dating someone who has a close friend who you think is cuter is just a BAD idea... haha, trust me...

pokipoki · Mar 26th, 2009, 08:50 PM

hello hello...

so ive been reading this thread for like a week now, i think it's time I chime in.
a lil bout me: been single for..6 months, was in a dysfunctional relationship for 3 years before that. i know i should feel happy being single, enjoying my time alone bla bla bla...but I cant.
I feel soooo lonely. i work from 8-6...it's hard to meet people and I dont have a lot of friends (they are either graduated and move out of town, or still in school and busy with school).
i met someone a few months back,and fell hard for him. I still dont know why, maybe it was a rebound? things dont work out. we wanted different things, he was so confusing, things got really complicated and painful. now i felt even lonelier,....every morning i felt like crying. oh this is getting too emotional...

simmmchen you'renot a freak, i can totally relate to you...although i'm not quite there yet when someone touches me....

i'll continue posting once i get home

HappyGrl2008 · Mar 26th, 2009, 10:06 PM

simmmchen you're not a freak! If you're a freak, then I must be a monster!

pokipoki many

to you. I sort of know how you feel.

So today I got confronted with that wall that I have built around me. Maybe some of you remember that guy I talked about in the old thread? I met him a few months ago, we had a wonderful evening, but he lived abroad. We stayed in touch through e-mail and I asked you girls how to take it to a "next level". Well, one of you ladies gave me the wise advise to forget about that. So I did and started to approach the whole thing as just a friend.

So today we're emailing (he's nice, he always replies in a few hours or even minutes) and I'm joking around a bit. All of a sudden he becomes all serious: saying how lucky he feels he met me and signing off with hugs and kisses!! So I'm like

. I didn't see that coming!
So stupid me replies in a joking way...

and he writes back how his words are sincere and if he screwed up something!! So I quickly replied and apologized....haven't heard from him since.....I feel so stupid! The moment a guy becomes honest and sincere with me I run away...why do I always do that? I just don't believe it when a guy says nice things to me because 9 out 10 times they just want to sleep with me. But of course that can't be his goal cause he's so far away...I really hate myself now!!!

I always use jokes the moment things become too 'emotional'...I think I have a problem with showing emotions and opening up...I really wish I could get rid of that wall!!...and I HATE e-mail!!

lv_forever · Mar 27th, 2009, 02:46 AM

Okay girls, as some of you may know, I am back on the market!
I have been feeling sooo much better.
I have some prospects from dating websites already. Plus, a couple guys I know are expressing quite an interest in me. I love the attention!
One guy even invited me to go skiing with him next weekend. So funny. He rarely talked to me when I was in a relationship. And now he is very chatty.

Zophie · Mar 27th, 2009, 04:28 AM

Originally Posted by simmmchen

Hey everyone! Checking back in... I posted on the other thread for a while. I was sick for a long time, that's why I haven't posted... My specs (lol): have been single for 3 years, haven't had sex in 3 years, haven't been kissed in 1 year. A month ago I realized everytime my physical therapist touches my back it makes me jolt

. So now I feel like a freak that has never been touched and is allergic to a human touch anywhere except my hands

. I feel less human with every day that passes. I have no idea how to get romance or affection back into my life.

I was kind of dating a co-worker before I got sick. I liked him, but when I'm around him and we're alone I turn into a rock. It was not like this when other people were around (like when we were out for drinks with other co-workers): I was flirty and there were sparks. Now I'm not sure I like him anymore. Really, I know it's probably not him, it's me.

Now you all know I'm a freak

Can I still hang out with you?

If you're a freak, so am I. I just can't win when it comes to the men and I'm even making myself sick of hearing me gripe about it. I'm just tired of it never working out with anyone I like, sooooo tired of it.

Zophie · Mar 27th, 2009, 04:57 AM

OMG I'm just such a total dork. I'm sitting up late and can't sleep (as usual) and I googled the name of this guy I met like over a year ago at work and thought he might be flirting and never saw him again though but really wished I did. :( Anyway, I found a facebook profile for him and it says he's single, but I can't just add him. He's got like 10 friends and I met him once over a year ago. That would just be...weird. I feel like such a loser.

~Fabulousity~ · Mar 27th, 2009, 08:56 AM

Originally Posted by Prayes

are they friends as well? dating someone who has a close friend who you think is cuter is just a BAD idea... haha, trust me...

I don't know, and really don't care LOL! I'm not interested in dating either of them

~Fabulousity~ · Mar 27th, 2009, 08:59 AM

Originally Posted by simmmchen

Hey everyone! Checking back in... I posted on the other thread for a while. I was sick for a long time, that's why I haven't posted... My specs (lol): have been single for 3 years, haven't had sex in 3 years, haven't been kissed in 1 year. A month ago I realized everytime my physical therapist touches my back it makes me jolt

. So now I feel like a freak that has never been touched and is allergic to a human touch anywhere except my hands

. I feel less human with every day that passes. I have no idea how to get romance or affection back into my life.

I was kind of dating a co-worker before I got sick. I liked him, but when I'm around him and we're alone I turn into a rock. It was not like this when other people were around (like when we were out for drinks with other co-workers): I was flirty and there were sparks. Now I'm not sure I like him anymore. Really, I know it's probably not him, it's me.

Now you all know I'm a freak

Can I still hang out with you?

You are not a freak

There are plenty of people who are going through the same things that you are!

~Fabulousity~ · Mar 27th, 2009, 09:03 AM

Hey Everyone since this is a fresh new thread how about we make it more positive

Lets focus on the things that are great about being single instead of focusing on not having a special someone in our lives! We can still share stories and vent but let's make this thread a little more uplifting! It would be great for referring back too when we're feeling crappy some days

Here's one thing that I enjoy about being single:

Not having to ask someones opinion on any major life decisions. If I decide today that I want to move to California and become a video girl I dont have anything holding me back

Mar 26th, 2009, 12:35 PM	#65
~Fabulousity~ Member Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 12,791	^^^the co-worker who the hottie told me about
~Fabulousity~ Member Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 12,791

Mar 26th, 2009, 06:55 PM	#66
simmmchen ✯ mathemagician ✯ Joined: Nov 2006 Location: --> Munich Posts: 1,466	Hey everyone! Checking back in... I posted on the other thread for a while. I was sick for a long time, that's why I haven't posted... My specs (lol): have been single for 3 years, haven't had sex in 3 years, haven't been kissed in 1 year. A month ago I realized everytime my physical therapist touches my back it makes me jolt . So now I feel like a freak that has never been touched and is allergic to a human touch anywhere except my hands . I feel less human with every day that passes. I have no idea how to get romance or affection back into my life. I was kind of dating a co-worker before I got sick. I liked him, but when I'm around him and we're alone I turn into a rock. It was not like this when other people were around (like when we were out for drinks with other co-workers): I was flirty and there were sparks. Now I'm not sure I like him anymore. Really, I know it's probably not him, it's me. Now you all know I'm a freak Can I still hang out with you?
	__________________ Applications, networking, applications, networking, applications, networking.... aaaaand..... I GOT A JOB

Mar 26th, 2009, 08:50 PM	#68
pokipoki Member Joined: May 2007 Posts: 207	hello hello... so ive been reading this thread for like a week now, i think it's time I chime in. a lil bout me: been single for..6 months, was in a dysfunctional relationship for 3 years before that. i know i should feel happy being single, enjoying my time alone bla bla bla...but I cant. I feel soooo lonely. i work from 8-6...it's hard to meet people and I dont have a lot of friends (they are either graduated and move out of town, or still in school and busy with school). i met someone a few months back,and fell hard for him. I still dont know why, maybe it was a rebound? things dont work out. we wanted different things, he was so confusing, things got really complicated and painful. now i felt even lonelier,....every morning i felt like crying. oh this is getting too emotional... simmmchen you'renot a freak, i can totally relate to you...although i'm not quite there yet when someone touches me.... i'll continue posting once i get home
pokipoki Member Joined: May 2007 Posts: 207

Mar 26th, 2009, 10:06 PM	#69
HappyGrl2008 Member Joined: Oct 2008 Posts: 261	simmmchen you're not a freak! If you're a freak, then I must be a monster! pokipoki many to you. I sort of know how you feel. So today I got confronted with that wall that I have built around me. Maybe some of you remember that guy I talked about in the old thread? I met him a few months ago, we had a wonderful evening, but he lived abroad. We stayed in touch through e-mail and I asked you girls how to take it to a "next level". Well, one of you ladies gave me the wise advise to forget about that. So I did and started to approach the whole thing as just a friend. So today we're emailing (he's nice, he always replies in a few hours or even minutes) and I'm joking around a bit. All of a sudden he becomes all serious: saying how lucky he feels he met me and signing off with hugs and kisses!! So I'm like . I didn't see that coming! So stupid me replies in a joking way... and he writes back how his words are sincere and if he screwed up something!! So I quickly replied and apologized....haven't heard from him since.....I feel so stupid! The moment a guy becomes honest and sincere with me I run away...why do I always do that? I just don't believe it when a guy says nice things to me because 9 out 10 times they just want to sleep with me. But of course that can't be his goal cause he's so far away...I really hate myself now!!! I always use jokes the moment things become too 'emotional'...I think I have a problem with showing emotions and opening up...I really wish I could get rid of that wall!!...and I HATE e-mail!!
HappyGrl2008 Member Joined: Oct 2008 Posts: 261

Mar 27th, 2009, 02:46 AM	#70
lv_forever Member Joined: Jul 2007 Posts: 1,053	Okay girls, as some of you may know, I am back on the market! I have been feeling sooo much better. I have some prospects from dating websites already. Plus, a couple guys I know are expressing quite an interest in me. I love the attention! One guy even invited me to go skiing with him next weekend. So funny. He rarely talked to me when I was in a relationship. And now he is very chatty.
lv_forever Member Joined: Jul 2007 Posts: 1,053

Mar 27th, 2009, 04:57 AM	#72
Zophie I <3 my Maltese! Joined: Feb 2007 Location: New Orleans, LA Posts: 8,471	OMG I'm just such a total dork. I'm sitting up late and can't sleep (as usual) and I googled the name of this guy I met like over a year ago at work and thought he might be flirting and never saw him again though but really wished I did. :( Anyway, I found a facebook profile for him and it says he's single, but I can't just add him. He's got like 10 friends and I met him once over a year ago. That would just be...weird. I feel like such a loser.
	__________________

Mar 27th, 2009, 09:03 AM	#75
~Fabulousity~ Member Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 12,791	Hey Everyone since this is a fresh new thread how about we make it more positive Lets focus on the things that are great about being single instead of focusing on not having a special someone in our lives! We can still share stories and vent but let's make this thread a little more uplifting! It would be great for referring back too when we're feeling crappy some days Here's one thing that I enjoy about being single: Not having to ask someones opinion on any major life decisions. If I decide today that I want to move to California and become a video girl I dont have anything holding me back
~Fabulousity~ Member Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 12,791

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