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I <3 my Maltese!
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Location: New Orleans, LA
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I'm not going to let him know where I got any info at all. He already told me he was seeing someone else when he met me but he broke up with her to be with me, but I know he was with her at the same time as me. I'm just going to break down all the bullshit that I can see through, like hiding his damn phone from me, changing his sheets, being overly neat, telling me when I can come over and controlling when I see him. I'm tired of his bs. He says he wants to be with me, we'll see how badly. I'm not dating some lying asshole. |
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Jul 2nd, 2009, 11:41 PM
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Location: Flippin Tables
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sending lotsa hugs your way Zophie!
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Jul 3rd, 2009, 04:30 PM
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not spoiled enough
Joined: Oct 2007
Location: Canada
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Just wanted to wish a happy holiday to all the Americans
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Jul 4th, 2009, 12:47 AM
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Moving 2 LOS ANGELES
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Location: Los Angeles
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i need to get away from my feelings surrounding my current place and my ex and the guy i was semi seeing. I was supposed to move across the country on aug 5th....I just, on a whim, changed it to july 17th. I hope I made a good decision, I'm having some panic issues surrounding it now! I booked nonrefundable plane tickets for me and my bunnies and I can't lose out on $1K (last minute tickets and tickets for in cabin animals are EXPENSIVE!)...so, I have to do it. *praying I made a smart decision*
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Jul 4th, 2009, 01:02 AM
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Joined: Oct 2007
Location: Canada
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^ I am sure you did, bellapsyd.
Good luck! I know you'll be fine 
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Jul 4th, 2009, 10:58 AM
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Memories!
Joined: Sep 2006
Location: USA
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You can do it bellapsyd! I fresh start is always a good thing so sometimes a new place helps you to leave the "old karma" behind.
Don't be afraid - you will be fine. 
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Jul 4th, 2009, 11:49 AM
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Location: NYC
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Bellapsyd, you're very brave. Don't worry about it, you're going to be fine! :)
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I <3 my Maltese!
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It sounds like you made the right move. 
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Jul 5th, 2009, 04:08 PM
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Location: The Playground
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Jul 5th, 2009, 04:57 PM
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Location: Leiden, the Netherlands
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I think I need to join this thread...I'm a bit depressed really, and desperately waiting for the right guy to show up...but I've done a few stupid things lately (advise needed re 'relationship' (long post)) and I just can't get over this one guy...Will my feelings for him ever pass?
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Jul 5th, 2009, 05:15 PM
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Just a minute !
Joined: Feb 2006
Location: In a bag
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^Of course they will !! Time, and moving on with your life, meet other people...He was your first so yes thatīs hard, but you will meet someone else soon !
I was having a conversation with friends about chemistry and what you feel with certain people, butterflies right on...I have never had that with guys, or it was all lust and superficial. I have had it regarding friendships though strangely enough, friends you meet and bam youīre best friends for 10 years on... So I donīt know if my feelings need to develop overtime or if it means itīs not the right guy. Just so many criterias to take in consideration, maybe I overthink things when it comes to the oppposite sex. I have had 6 dates with a guy,and while I consider I am just casually dating him, I fear he wants us to be in a relationship already, wants to see me all the time, texting me and stuff and I am not used to that. He ticks all the boxes and...yes we made "it", so much for me wanting to take things slow and then being in the moment, what the heck....I donīt get the butterflies, I never get them !!! whatīs wrong with me ?? |
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Jul 5th, 2009, 05:28 PM
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^ I actually know a few people that say they never get the butterflies either, but I'm sure everyone is capable of developing them once they meet the right person, don't worry! And it's not all that great to get butterflies too soon either - I fall in love quite easily when I meet a perfect guy (it happened to me 3 times in 4 years), and I stay in love very long (and the butterflies stay long too) - you'll only feel miserable when you're in love but the other person doesn't feel the same.
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Location: Canada
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I guess I can say I kind of started seeing somebody (my online guy... 2nd "date" today) and I am completely terrified to even think about "it"! |
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