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lostnexposed · Jul 1st, 2009, 11:37 AM

Originally Posted by Zophie

some of it I'd rather not post publicly on the internet, but I can PM you. What's funny is that he just seems to think I'm just some dumb blond who has no clue. He's good at his manipulative shit, but I'm better at figuring things out. He's history.

aww...Zoph! I'm sorry to hear that!

lostnexposed · Jul 1st, 2009, 11:40 AM

Originally Posted by mellecyn

I am feeling a bit "meh" and "blah"....the guy I was too excited to meet up, seemed in fact more serious about his sexual encounter than we all believed...he wanted to meet me, then said no because he has this girl....why can´t he be done with her ?? Since when drunken 1 night stands develop into serious Relationship ??
And I had a second date with another guy....no sparks, at all....I wanted so badly to feel something...but I guess by the 2nd date you know for sure ! I know it´s horrible to say but his financial situation was like I would never have to work again....still, I can´t.

ahh...that would have been so perfect. too bad you can't buy love and chemistry....

lostnexposed · Jul 1st, 2009, 11:44 AM

Originally Posted by spoiled_brat

^ that's too bad, mellecyn

I just got off the phone with my online guy and he suggested we meet up tomorrow cuz it's a national holiday so we all get a day off.

I AM SO NERVOUS!!!

I really like him on the phone but am afraid it might not translate so well IRL... what if we don't like each other? Poo...

That's what's holding me back from meeting some of these guys. I guess the good thing is if nothing happens, at least we won't be wasting anymore time. but I hate it when there's chemistry online, on the phone and u meet the person and there's absolutely NOTHING- not even a "he could be a really good friend" kinda spark. just plain old boredom and nothing.

lostnexposed · Jul 1st, 2009, 11:47 AM

Originally Posted by ~Fabulousity~

So ladies remember the guy I told you all I met a few weeks ago when out with my girlfriend? The one whos friend I told I wasn't gonna give him my number cause I was kinda feeling his friend? Well he's been calling me everyday since we met, and we've been seeing a lot of each other lately. He seems really into me, he's a nice guy and we have good conversation and fun together. Just wanted to report that i've been having a little bit of fun.

Oohh...that's great! Have Fun!!!

whatever happened to cop guy? it never got started?

lostnexposed · Jul 1st, 2009, 11:48 AM

Originally Posted by Jahpson

but everyone seems to have dates and such.

I'm sick of hanging out with girls. lol

I know! haven't gone on any dates either. and lately all my girls have been busy with stuff so i just feel bored...

~Fabulousity~ · Jul 1st, 2009, 11:49 AM

^^^Nope! I lost interest in him after I introduced myself and didn't see him for a while. I actually saw him on Friday I waved hello but didn't smile too much. That's how I know the thrill is gone, Lol

lostnexposed · Jul 1st, 2009, 11:58 AM

haha...that's why sometimes it's better to not do anything and just admire and crush from afar....

Jahpson · Jul 1st, 2009, 12:29 PM

Originally Posted by mellecyn

Jahpson, you´re already lucky to be able to hang out with the girls, imagine hanging out with couples talking about babies and weddings ! To the point I also had to turn to internet to find single girlfriends ! Because I have no one to go out with !!!
...it will come soon !

It's not that glamourous. lol

the only single friend that I do have is still messing around with her ex and having other guy friends.

Too bad we don't live in the same state! I would hang out with you. We could go to a bar and make fun of all the folks with wedding bands on. lol

Jahpson · Jul 1st, 2009, 12:31 PM

Originally Posted by ~Fabulousity~

^^^I know what you mean, i've been there PLENTY of times. Up until 3 weeks ago that's all I had been doing other than being at home reading books.Things will get better.

I have been drowning myself in cheesy love music. I'm currently listening to the Jackson 5. Michael is sooo romantic!!

lol even though he was like 14 at the time! Favorite song "I want to be where you are" right now.

lostnexposed · Jul 1st, 2009, 12:37 PM

Originally Posted by Jahpson

It's not that glamourous. lol

the only single friend that I do have is still messing around with her ex and having other guy friends.

Too bad we don't live in the same state! I would hang out with you. We could go to a bar and make fun of all the folks with wedding bands on. lol

I know!!! i wish you guys lived in the nj/nyc area.....we could sooo go boy watching!

BTW Jahpsie..how are your plans for moving to NYC going? still going to do it, or putting it on holD?

Jahpson · Jul 1st, 2009, 12:45 PM

^ yes and no. Im going back to school to get my law degree. Will definitely apply to some schools in NYC and DC

Kansashalo · Jul 1st, 2009, 01:32 PM

/\ Don't come to Kansas where like everyone and their granny is married. Seriously, in my department of about 40 people, only 2 of us are not married - me and another lady (although she's been married twice and is in her mid 50s). On my floor, of about 60 people, it then jumps up to 4! Talk about depressing!

Well I went on a date last night and it went really well. We we did the whole dinner and a movie thing and had a good time. I did think there were moments when i was going to die on the drive to and from the theater because he drives like a bat out of hell!!!! haha But other than that, all went well. So I'm still giddy right now.

Hugs

to everyone dealing with lonliness, some stupid guy, or who may just need a lift. I'll be home alone for the holiday so I'll be doing a lot of reading and posting on tPF over the 4th!

~Fabulousity~ · Jul 1st, 2009, 01:35 PM

Originally Posted by Jahpson

I have been drowning myself in cheesy love music. I'm currently listening to the Jackson 5. Michael is sooo romantic!!

lol even though he was like 14 at the time! Favorite song "I want to be where you are" right now.

I've been avoiding love music for like the last two years since my seperation LOL I need to listen to something I can party to

Jahpson · Jul 1st, 2009, 02:03 PM

I was invited back to NYC by my older brother and his girlfriend. but I don't know if I want to go.

idk, I think I'm getting depressed. I'll be on TPF and probably doing some damaging online shopping.

spoiled_brat · Jul 2nd, 2009, 12:32 AM

Hi ladies!

Well, I'm back from my "date" with my online guy and it went pretty well! He is exactly what I expected, both looks-wise and personality-wise.

Not going to get my hopes up but he seems like a really nice guy. It was a great way to spend the day. We went for a long walk on the beach and in the park and went for dinner afterwards.

Anyway, yeah, here is my update

Jul 1st, 2009, 11:49 AM	#1506
~Fabulousity~ Member Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 12,911	^^^Nope! I lost interest in him after I introduced myself and didn't see him for a while. I actually saw him on Friday I waved hello but didn't smile too much. That's how I know the thrill is gone, Lol
~Fabulousity~ Member Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 12,911

Jul 1st, 2009, 12:45 PM	#1511
Jahpson Member Joined: Aug 2007 Location: The Playground Posts: 22,348	^ yes and no. Im going back to school to get my law degree. Will definitely apply to some schools in NYC and DC
	__________________ Michael Joseph Jackson 1958-2009

Jul 1st, 2009, 01:32 PM	#1512
Kansashalo Memories! Joined: Sep 2006 Location: USA Posts: 3,604	/\ Don't come to Kansas where like everyone and their granny is married. Seriously, in my department of about 40 people, only 2 of us are not married - me and another lady (although she's been married twice and is in her mid 50s). On my floor, of about 60 people, it then jumps up to 4! Talk about depressing! Well I went on a date last night and it went really well. We we did the whole dinner and a movie thing and had a good time. I did think there were moments when i was going to die on the drive to and from the theater because he drives like a bat out of hell!!!! haha But other than that, all went well. So I'm still giddy right now. Hugs to everyone dealing with lonliness, some stupid guy, or who may just need a lift. I'll be home alone for the holiday so I'll be doing a lot of reading and posting on tPF over the 4th!
	__________________

Jul 1st, 2009, 02:03 PM	#1514
Jahpson Member Joined: Aug 2007 Location: The Playground Posts: 22,348	I was invited back to NYC by my older brother and his girlfriend. but I don't know if I want to go. idk, I think I'm getting depressed. I'll be on TPF and probably doing some damaging online shopping.
	__________________ Michael Joseph Jackson 1958-2009

Jul 1st, 2009, 11:58 AM	#1507
lostnexposed Member Joined: Sep 2006 Location: Flippin Tables Posts: 5,507	haha...that's why sometimes it's better to not do anything and just admire and crush from afar....

Jul 2nd, 2009, 12:32 AM	#1515
spoiled_brat not spoiled enough Joined: Oct 2007 Location: Canada Posts: 2,184	Hi ladies! Well, I'm back from my "date" with my online guy and it went pretty well! He is exactly what I expected, both looks-wise and personality-wise. Not going to get my hopes up but he seems like a really nice guy. It was a great way to spend the day. We went for a long walk on the beach and in the park and went for dinner afterwards. Anyway, yeah, here is my update

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