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Charles · Sep 17th, 2009, 01:04 PM

Sooo..dry humping on the table at a restaurant is over the line??

PurseAddict79 · Sep 17th, 2009, 01:23 PM

^^ No... I don't think so. I mean, that's an emotionally charged reaction, right?

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Holding hands, light kisses, hugs, etc are fine. But making out in public or groping body parts... not so much...

mymeimei02 · Sep 17th, 2009, 01:32 PM

Originally Posted by Pinkluv

Mymeimei02 and juneping, I don't know what lots of PDA is because I don't think I get enough.......So im not even sure how lots of PDA will make me feel....lol
I guess my questions is what is 'OK' PDA?

To me OK PDA is holding hands, hugs or a quick kiss. Other than that I think it should belong in the privacy between the couple not the whole world to see. I just don't want to see a full on make out session when they are jamming their tounges in each other mouths or inappropriate groping and touching

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elizat · Sep 17th, 2009, 01:32 PM

Originally Posted by Charles

Sooo..dry humping on the table at a restaurant is over the line??

I can't help it. That was just a good one!

Anyway, for me, I'm not a "touchy feely" person. I don't like any PDA personally for myself- including holding hands and I don't do it in a relationship. But, I am not bothered by couples holding hands, quick hugs or kisses, but anything beyond that is a bit much.

LadyLouboutin08 · Sep 17th, 2009, 01:33 PM

I too think PDA is ok in moderation. My SO and I don't really show any affection in public other than holding hands, or walking with our arms around each other. Every once in a while he might kiss me on my cheek or my neck, but we don't really kiss in public. It makes me uncomfortable, because I think that should be reserved for private time...It grosses me out to see full on make out sessions, in public.....so unnecessary.

natalie78 · Sep 17th, 2009, 01:35 PM

I'm also not a touchy-feely person, especially when other people are around. Anything beyond a quick peck on the lips is out for me.

elizat · Sep 17th, 2009, 01:39 PM

Originally Posted by natalie78

I'm also not a touchy-feely person, especially when other people are around. Anything beyond a quick peck on the lips is out for me.

Ah, yet another "club" membership we share!

littlerock · Sep 17th, 2009, 01:47 PM

Originally Posted by bagaholic85

i think it depends on the mood of the people too...the oversexed cant keep my hands off u kinda pda is nauseating, but an intimate kiss in an im so in love with you moment is sweet (even if it includes a little tongue)

ITA. I think its sweet to see two people in love and expressing that love to eachother. I'll kiss my man whenever I feel like it but I wouldn't dare enter a full on makeout session in public. I think that being effectionate is important in a relationship.

vhdos · Sep 17th, 2009, 02:02 PM

PDA is fine as long as it's a peck, a brush with a hand, a hug, etc.
Too much PDA is gross IMO. I think when it starts to make people uncomfortable is when you've crossed over the line.

claireZk · Sep 17th, 2009, 02:05 PM

I hate pda's. Hate. I get it, you're in "love," but does the entire world *really* need to see you ram your tongues down each other's throats or fondle each other's parts in public?? Nasty.

I hate it. Hand holding in certain settings or a quick peck or arm-wrap is ok. Anything sexual outside the confines of one's home makes me want to vomit.

Cocoa-rich · Sep 17th, 2009, 02:50 PM

I get a little uncomfortable but the lack of would bother me a little.

Charles · Sep 17th, 2009, 03:45 PM

Originally Posted by claireZk

I hate pda's. Hate. I get it, you're in "love," but does the entire world *really* need to see you ram your tongues down each other's throats or fondle each other's parts in public?? Nasty.

I hate it. Hand holding in certain settings or a quick peck or arm-wrap is ok. Anything sexual outside the confines of one's home makes me want to vomit.

I get the feeling that you hate it.

For me...the most we'll do is some tongue when we're out at a club and have a few drinks in us. Well, there are times when I pull her in the corner and hands might go up skirts, but that's not technically in the open. Typically, we hold hands and I'll maybe grab her butt when she gets up. Pecks here and there.

Jeneen · Sep 17th, 2009, 03:59 PM

I guess I am in the moderate PDA group - my bf is not always touchy feely in public though. I like long hugs, short kisses, hand holding or a pat on the butt. If we are in the right venue, sitting on his lap is good too.

Aslan · Sep 17th, 2009, 04:10 PM

I believe PDA is fine in moderation. What I do not appreciate is seeing couples full on hump each other on the subway (which I see a lot of).

Yesterday I was sitting on the train and two girls were making out. Fine. Then the taller one started to hump the other girl with her ass in my face. So I had to close my eyes so that I wouldn't have to see her ass rise and fall.

bisousx · Sep 17th, 2009, 05:09 PM

I try not to pay attention to other people in general. To each their own.

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PurseAddict79 PerpetuallyPenniless Joined: Sep 2008 Location: The Mall Posts: 1,230	^^ No... I don't think so. I mean, that's an emotionally charged reaction, right? ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Holding hands, light kisses, hugs, etc are fine. But making out in public or groping body parts... not so much...

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Sep 17th, 2009, 03:59 PM	#28
Jeneen Member Joined: Feb 2009 Location: up in the gym workin on my fitness Posts: 2,745	I guess I am in the moderate PDA group - my bf is not always touchy feely in public though. I like long hugs, short kisses, hand holding or a pat on the butt. If we are in the right venue, sitting on his lap is good too.
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Sep 17th, 2009, 04:10 PM	#29
Aslan liberty+compassion Joined: Nov 2006 Location: New York Posts: 3,365	I believe PDA is fine in moderation. What I do not appreciate is seeing couples full on hump each other on the subway (which I see a lot of). Yesterday I was sitting on the train and two girls were making out. Fine. Then the taller one started to hump the other girl with her ass in my face. So I had to close my eyes so that I wouldn't have to see her ass rise and fall.
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