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Old Jan 2nd, 2008, 04:40 PM   #1
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A family member just was put into a mental hospital today. It w as a long time coming, but I am the only one who feels relieved that this person will get help. It is freaking everyone else out.

Has anyone here ever been or no of someone who has been in such a hospital? Was it a positive experience?
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Old Jan 2nd, 2008, 05:19 PM   #2
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Old Jan 2nd, 2008, 05:20 PM   #3
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I am sure if he/she was put into a psychiatric facility it was done with much thought and examinations by medical professionals and it is where he/she needs to be right now. It can be a very positive experience for the patient and for the family members. Everything is just new right now for both parties.
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Old Jan 2nd, 2008, 05:23 PM   #4
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I admitted myself once about 15 years ago. I was fighting terrible depression and tried to commit suicide. I knew it was b5gger than me then, and had to get help. Sadly, because of budget cuts, it's no longer available to the folks in my town. A friend of my DH, who works at the local funeral home charged with taking care of indigents, says the amount of successful suicides has tripled in the last ten years.

It WAS a very positive experiance for me. It gave me the time away I needed from the stressors, and they got me balanced on the right medications.

I wish your family memeber the best.
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Old Jan 2nd, 2008, 07:35 PM   #5
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A very close friend of mine admitted himself about a year ago. From what I can tell, it was a positive experience for him. Wishing your family member the best!
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Old Jan 2nd, 2008, 07:54 PM   #6
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Someone I know was admitted, but she didn't really want help or to change and left AMA (against medical advice). A couple years later she started making the changes she needed. So at the time it wasn't positive, but she was uncooperative. (she was admitted because of suicidal tendencies)
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Old Jan 2nd, 2008, 09:31 PM   #7
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I know someone who has been in and out of several mental hosptials. It took a while, but she finally got on the right meds (lithium) and last I heard she is doing fine. She's an attorney now. Mental hospitalization can be a great thing. There is such a stigma attached to it, which I hate. People wouldn't whisper bad things behind your back if you were hospitalized for an appendectomy, so why should they if you get hospitalized for schizophrenia?
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Old Jan 2nd, 2008, 09:34 PM   #8
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I had a friend that was admitted for depression about 20 years ago. She said it was the best thing that ever happened to her. I would agree. (I think she was there 60 or 90 days.) Her family didn't support her at all, calling her crazy etc. They just had no awareness of depression & its effects. But she had friends who supported her.
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Old Jan 2nd, 2008, 10:17 PM   #9
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My mother tried to commit suicide when I was in college (she was found in a hotel by a housekeeper, overdose of pills) and was put into a state-run mental facility. I believe it saved her life. She finally is on the right mix of medications that keep her bi-polar disease at bay. I believe if she hadn't been put in the mental hospital she wouldn't be alive.
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Old Jan 2nd, 2008, 11:48 PM   #10
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I took a course on mental hospitalization and in general, the experiences are not good to say the least. Many patients who 'survive' being committed often say they have been abused sexually, verbally, and/or physically, etc. In general, these 'hospitals' do not serve as treatment facilities but more like prisons. Patients/inmates are usually drugged to the point where they appear insane (even if they are perfectly fine) or their existing mental states worsen. Also, many barbaric tests are still done on patients today.
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Old Jan 2nd, 2008, 11:52 PM   #11
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I know someone who has been in and out of several mental hosptials. It took a while, but she finally got on the right meds (lithium) and last I heard she is doing fine. She's an attorney now. Mental hospitalization can be a great thing. There is such a stigma attached to it, which I hate. People wouldn't whisper bad things behind your back if you were hospitalized for an appendectomy, so why should they if you get hospitalized for schizophrenia?
There is indeed much stigma associated with those who are perceived as being mentally ill. However, the procedures and treatment by staff towards patients are very questionable.
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Old Jan 3rd, 2008, 02:12 AM   #12
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Jan, I don't agree. The one I was in was great. I think it's unfair you lump all mental facilities like this together. Depending on the facility and what she's in for, many of this stuff just doesn't happen anymore. I would also question some of the sources you say you read, after all, some of the patients are being treated for things such as parinoid schitzophrenia, bi-polar, manic depression, and other mental problems. People afflicted with certain diseases also mimic a "zombie" like state. The movie "Awakenings" dealt with this particular problem, where a form of Parkinson's evolved so much, it made one appear to just be statutes, unaware of their surroundings.

Sadly, many of the hospitals are understaffed and the employees are underpaid. Plus it's been shown that some of the most predatory people who can exsist DO get jobs there, hence the abuse. But that's changed in the last bunch of years, now that it's been brought to light, there is more checks and video cameras, as well as reporting that isn't swept under the rug as in days long ago.
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Old Jan 3rd, 2008, 02:50 AM   #13
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I worked at a hospital that has a psych unit where people are admitted for a few hours to several weeks or months. A few months ago, when my brother came to visit during his leave from Iraq he had severe flashbacks and anxiety, and we seriously did not know what to do or how to help...so he checked himself in overnight. Even though he had minimal contact with anyone (at night), he said it helped him a great deal.
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Old Jan 3rd, 2008, 05:19 AM   #14
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Jan, I don't agree. The one I was in was great. I think it's unfair you lump all mental facilities like this together. Depending on the facility and what she's in for, many of this stuff just doesn't happen anymore. I would also question some of the sources you say you read, after all, some of the patients are being treated for things such as parinoid schitzophrenia, bi-polar, manic depression, and other mental problems. People afflicted with certain diseases also mimic a "zombie" like state. The movie "Awakenings" dealt with this particular problem, where a form of Parkinson's evolved so much, it made one appear to just be statutes, unaware of their surroundings.

Sadly, many of the hospitals are understaffed and the employees are underpaid. Plus it's been shown that some of the most predatory people who can exsist DO get jobs there, hence the abuse. But that's changed in the last bunch of years, now that it's been brought to light, there is more checks and video cameras, as well as reporting that isn't swept under the rug as in days long ago.
I didn't want to come off as 'lumping' them all together. I guess 'generally' wasn't a good choice of words. I agree that mental institutions today are more organized and not as abusive as they were in the past, however, can we really say that there are no instances of abuse and/or wrong-doing anymore? I didn't know much about mental facilities or mental health prior to taking this course but I think this course has taught me a lot. One of its aims was to reveal the injustices faced in the past and present in psychiatry and psychiatric institutions. I trust that the information is accurate seeing that my professors' sources were scholarly. The course was co-taught and both professors have decades of experience in mental health practices. One of them considers himself to be a 'psychiatric survivor'.

Although many of you have wonderful accounts from these facilities (which I am relieved to hear), it doesn't mean that all the things I have mentioned have not and do not still occur. In the past, there were countless instances of abuse and other wrong-doings that went unrecorded so the truth of what really happened never even made it past the institutions' walls. But later on, those who have actually 'recovered' and made it out, were able to express their tormented experiences in the facility all those years. Nurses and orderlies would treat patients as if they were non-individuals, looking at them as inferiors. When doctors came around, they would stop whatever they were doing to the patients be it verbal, sexual, physical abuse so it was really well concealed. Or so they thought. But unfair treatment occurred on a daily basis. Various asylums in Canada and the United States have been accused by former patients to have treated patients in a less than appropriate way. Of course, we are speaking past tense. However, how can we be so sure it doesn't still occur? Unjust acts on the part of staff to patients could still be committed today and it may just be covered up like it was before. Barbaric treatments like Electroshock still occurs with dangerous adverse effects like amnesia. I think we should look at mental institutions with a critical eye.

I understand that some of you have been committed or knows someone who has, but consider yourselves lucky. More than likely you and/or the people you know have been too obviously 'sane' in their eyes so they did not try anything on you. This also reminds me that there were also instances of preferential treatment among patients as well. Those who were perceived to be 'saner' than others were treated far better. Also, those with more money and those with a more critical family were treated better as well. Of course, behind closed doors, no one can really say what really occurs. Especially those who are too drugged up to speak for themselves.

I guess I can only speak so much about it according to what I have read and what I was taught by my professors -- some facts and some personal testimonials. From MY personal experience though, public institutions that care for those who are less abled or those who are perceived as not being in the 'right state of mind' tend to often-times neglect their patients. I volunteered at a nursing home a few years ago and I saw a lot of neglect. Seniors would be laying in their own waste for hours before they were cleaned up. It was a horrible experience for me (the visitor) so I could only imagine what kind of eternal hell it was for the 'residents'. That kind of neglect (a form of abuse) still happens today. Not just in that nursing home, as I am sure we all have heard controversial things about nursing homes. But my point is, if this could take place in nursing homes in the present, what makes us so sure other institutions whose aim is to help the less abled are much different? Most are still very understaffed. When an institution is understaffed, neglect is often the result.
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Old Jan 3rd, 2008, 05:31 AM   #15
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I havent had any family members checked in to a mental facility. I wish we had convinced my Grandpa to get help with his depression and parkinson. It would've help him to stop trying to commit suicide. Best of luck for you and your family.
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