[riffraff]

Just a thought, but to me Relationships, Pregnancy and Parenting and even to a certain extent Health and Fitness are "Adult" topics of conversation when the majority of members are "Adults". Even some of the television programmes and films discussed or are not PG13. Maybe these forums could be "locked" to those members who are not able to converse on topics that are rated above PG13.

[Aslan]

Actually, I don't think that what is known to say or not to say is "easy," as it's all relative. I think we should be able to discuss sex, but I think that using more veiled language is best.

[Wentworth-Roth]

I like that idea... besides why does this board allow such young people to register anyway? Other boards I visit have a 18+ policy. And no, they are not sex boards.

[Sunshine]

Im not sure that Vlad wants to put an age restriction in place. Just be approriate...thats all we are asking. You can still discuss things just be aware of words.

[Aslan]

Originally Posted by Wentworth-Roth

I like that idea... besides why does this board allow such young people to register anyway? Other boards I visit have a 18+ policy. And no, they are not sex boards.

This has been my experience as well. Anyone can lie about their age when they register, so it's difficult to enforce, but I know that on two forums I visited registrants that admitted being under 13 were banned.

Every place is different, I guess. I don't think having young participants ruins the experience here. There aren't that many of them.

[Aslan]

Upon further reflection, I can see why many sites (not just forums) limit registrants under 13, including Facebook. It's about liability.

I can recall that two of our under 13 members have freely posted their name and location. Now, that may be okay on a private board, but this board is public and anyone can read it. Of course adults have done this, but one can easily argue that at a young age, one might be more prone to releasing personal info and as these children got older/wiser, they'd be more reluctant to do so. Since this board is public, any freak could see their posts, register, and probably PM that child for more info.

Additionally, from a parent's perspective, I would not let my child post on a public forum without supervision if they were under 14 anyway. They simply don't have the judgment to deal with the crazies and varied personalities on the internet.

[Swanky Mama Of Three]

I don't think Vlad is interested in booting our youngsters, just please be aware of what you post.
Please

[BiloxiBlu]

I, too, think of it more as an adult forum, however, I agree with being mindful of the younger fashonistas on the board! I admit, too, that some of that stuff may be too racy for me! LOL

[caitlin1214]

Originally Posted by Aslan

I think we should be able to discuss sex, but I think that using more veiled language is best.

I think it is possible to talk about sex without being too graphic.

To do that, I would think people should stick to either clinical terms or euphamisms.

When people start using slang, then it gets into a danger of being too graphic.

[Zophie]

I think an adult forum would be a good idea. Be warned if you enter that adult topics will be discussed and enter at your own risk.

[Sunshine]

I think for right now things will stay as they are. Please stick to family and relationship issues. If the issue is sex related I think it needs to be discussed else where. If you want to Pm someone great, or as I said there are TONS of sex forums on the net that cover all sorts of things. We have a a huge range of ages on the PF and its a fine line of what is appropriate and what is not. First and foremost its about purses and all the other fantastic sections we have are just a bonus! Thanks!!!

[*suzi*]

I think a forum for adult relationships is a great idea. I'm 30 something and do have a lot of girlfriends but our alone time is next to nothing because of hectic schedules and young children. Sometimes we all could use a friend to confide in and sex is a natural part of life. I have another work forum that I go to, but many people here don't. It would be a shame to not allow them to discuss these topics openly in a forum where they are comfortable. Just my humble opinion.

[Sunshine]

Its up to Meg and Vlad. Lets see how they feel about it. For now its PG 13 only!

[Zophie]

I used to post about sex things on another forum and some guy started hitting on me and sending me pictures of his weenie. I'd rather talk about it here. Anyone have any suggestions for good places that are safe for ladies to talk about those things with getting hit on?

[Swanky Mama Of Three]

^it can happen here just as easily.
You'd have to be on a private Forum to discuss it safely.