Welcome to The Purse Forum.

Pink_Swish · Jun 26th, 2009, 04:37 PM

Hi jenna!

Seriously he is no good for you, it seems like you put 100% into the relationship and he only gives 5%. I've seen you go through shit with him on another forum ( you know which one i mean) and hes an ass, a big dipshit ass. He doesnt appreciate you and seems to think he can buy your affection.

Gonna PM you!

Pink_Swish

BagLadie · Jun 26th, 2009, 05:06 PM

Originally Posted by msJenna

I am scared if I break up with him he will hurt me like he did the last time we broke up.

Your entire post bothered me....but most especially this line. Lose this loser as fast as you can. You can do better.

Allisonfaye · Jun 26th, 2009, 05:23 PM

This is a joke, right?

Allisonfaye · Jun 26th, 2009, 05:26 PM

If it is not a joke, you seriously need to go to therapy to find out why you would have a boyfriend who treats you like this.

schadenfreude · Jun 26th, 2009, 05:38 PM

Originally Posted by Allisonfaye

This is a joke, right?

Took the words out of my mouth.

rainrowan · Jun 26th, 2009, 06:01 PM

You need to end this hell of a relationship. I'm almost speechless. This guy sounds worse than pathetic. You deserve much more than to be someone's dirty doormat. The scales are so off balance in this relationship, it's dysfunctional.

bellafleur · Jun 26th, 2009, 06:03 PM

OP, can I ask how old you and the BF are? When you said this is his first relationship or something to that effect, that explains a lot to me. You are his training wheels. You don't stay with/marry someone who is just trying out all of his sh*t on you to see how much of it you will take. Trust me, I was married to someone who sounds very, very similar to your BF. Get out now! By the time you've gotten over him, you'll be so much stronger and will know what you want out of the next relationship.

And I'm not going to insult your judgment by calling your BF a terrible person, because there was obviously something good about him that drew you to him in the first place. I think you'll be doing him a favor too by ending the relationship, because he needs to feel the pain of being left by someone as wonderful as you if he's ever going to grow. That's why I say you're his training wheels- unfortunately you're the unlucky one who had to put up with this so he'll be better for the next girl. Someone has to do it... and maybe he won't learn, but I hope he will. You've learned so much about yourself and will be stronger for it, I know you will!:)

alliemia · Jun 26th, 2009, 06:17 PM

this is not a relationship. this is you getting used by some idiot that wants someone around for sex and whatever else he has a whim for. do not talk to him anymore. cut him out of your life completely.

msJenna · Jun 26th, 2009, 08:17 PM

I don't think I've ever been in a good relationship honestly.

And I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 19.

When I tell him things he is doing are wrong, he doesn't think it's wrong.

For example when I tell him making plans with his mom when we had plans infront of me is rude, he accuses me of not wanting him to see his mom.

He just doesn't get it and he thinks it's okay to break plans off with people.

But none the less I am having a talk with him tonight.

And he won't hit me or anything.

I'm trying to think about things he has done that are nice...

Nothing comes to mind.

UK2ME · Jun 26th, 2009, 08:27 PM

Get out of there. No "having a talk", no more chances, no more let's-just-pretend-this-is-normal. He is behaving like an a$$ and doesn't deserve you. I'm not usually one to advocate ending a relationship I know nothing about, but you are being so far beyond disrespected it's not even funny.

Cristina · Jun 26th, 2009, 09:10 PM

No talking. More dumping.

UK2ME · Jun 26th, 2009, 09:21 PM

Originally Posted by Cristina

No talking. More dumping.

Or, in the fine words of Elvis: a little less conversation, a little more (leaving) action!!

nooch · Jun 26th, 2009, 09:56 PM

Originally Posted by Cristina

No talking. More dumping.

Sums it up perfectly.

Listen, I used to think that I would maybe possibly find somebody who tolerated me and didn't beat the shit out of me and that would be it for me. I'm sure most women here have felt like that at one point in their lives (what does that say about how girls are raised/viewed in our world?). But it's completely bogus. You deserve to be LOVED, but before anyone else can love you and before you have any business being in a relationship with somebody else you need to right your relationship with YOURSELF.

It's amazing, the difference in everyday life when you truly love yourself and you truly believe you are awesome and that you deserve the best. It feels like floating.

You can get there, I promise. First step? Unload this boy. Unburden yourself.

sweetdreamer16 · Jun 27th, 2009, 05:11 PM

seriously what he needs is a good kick in the nuts!

how could someone be so awful to you?? you seriously do not deserve this! no one does! i hope everything works out!

bagnshoofetish · Jun 27th, 2009, 11:36 PM

Originally Posted by msJenna

I have never been so disgusted with a person in my life.

I got this far and could not read on.
Why the hell are you wtih this guy? C'mon. I could throw a rock and hit someone better than this guy.

Break up already.

Jun 26th, 2009, 04:37 PM	#46
Pink_Swish Member Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 759	Hi jenna! Seriously he is no good for you, it seems like you put 100% into the relationship and he only gives 5%. I've seen you go through shit with him on another forum ( you know which one i mean) and hes an ass, a big dipshit ass. He doesnt appreciate you and seems to think he can buy your affection. Gonna PM you! Pink_Swish
Pink_Swish Member Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 759	__________________ Twitter- Kickingcouture Blair waldorf, my style icon! *http://www.kickingcouture.blogspot.com/* xxx

Jun 26th, 2009, 05:23 PM	#48
Allisonfaye Member Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 5,496	This is a joke, right?
Allisonfaye Member Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 5,496	__________________ If you can afford it, for God's sake, BUY SOMETHING!

Jun 26th, 2009, 05:26 PM	#49
Allisonfaye Member Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 5,496	If it is not a joke, you seriously need to go to therapy to find out why you would have a boyfriend who treats you like this.
Allisonfaye Member Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 5,496	__________________ If you can afford it, for God's sake, BUY SOMETHING!

Jun 26th, 2009, 06:01 PM	#51
rainrowan INFJ Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 3,908	You need to end this hell of a relationship. I'm almost speechless. This guy sounds worse than pathetic. You deserve much more than to be someone's dirty doormat. The scales are so off balance in this relationship, it's dysfunctional.
rainrowan INFJ Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 3,908

Jun 26th, 2009, 06:03 PM	#52
bellafleur Member Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 1,566	OP, can I ask how old you and the BF are? When you said this is his first relationship or something to that effect, that explains a lot to me. You are his training wheels. You don't stay with/marry someone who is just trying out all of his sh*t on you to see how much of it you will take. Trust me, I was married to someone who sounds very, very similar to your BF. Get out now! By the time you've gotten over him, you'll be so much stronger and will know what you want out of the next relationship. And I'm not going to insult your judgment by calling your BF a terrible person, because there was obviously something good about him that drew you to him in the first place. I think you'll be doing him a favor too by ending the relationship, because he needs to feel the pain of being left by someone as wonderful as you if he's ever going to grow. That's why I say you're his training wheels- unfortunately you're the unlucky one who had to put up with this so he'll be better for the next girl. Someone has to do it... and maybe he won't learn, but I hope he will. You've learned so much about yourself and will be stronger for it, I know you will!:)
bellafleur Member Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 1,566	__________________ Have you signed up at www.Bonanzle.com yet?? Join us in the mass exodus from you-know-where!!

Jun 26th, 2009, 06:17 PM	#53
alliemia love shopping!!! Joined: Jun 2008 Location: NY Posts: 3,223	this is not a relationship. this is you getting used by some idiot that wants someone around for sex and whatever else he has a whim for. do not talk to him anymore. cut him out of your life completely.

Jun 26th, 2009, 08:17 PM	#54
msJenna OP Member Joined: May 2007 Posts: 732	I don't think I've ever been in a good relationship honestly. And I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 19. When I tell him things he is doing are wrong, he doesn't think it's wrong. For example when I tell him making plans with his mom when we had plans infront of me is rude, he accuses me of not wanting him to see his mom. He just doesn't get it and he thinks it's okay to break plans off with people. But none the less I am having a talk with him tonight. And he won't hit me or anything. I'm trying to think about things he has done that are nice... Nothing comes to mind.
msJenna OP Member Joined: May 2007 Posts: 732	__________________ I Only Have Eyes For European Cars, European Shoes, And European Handbags Last edited by msJenna; Jun 26th, 2009 at 08:21 PM.

Jun 26th, 2009, 08:27 PM	#55
UK2ME Go on, I dare ya! Joined: Mar 2008 Location: Maine Posts: 722	Get out of there. No "having a talk", no more chances, no more let's-just-pretend-this-is-normal. He is behaving like an a$$ and doesn't deserve you. I'm not usually one to advocate ending a relationship I know nothing about, but you are being so far beyond disrespected it's not even funny.
	__________________ *Live each day as though it is your last - for someday, it will be.*

Jun 26th, 2009, 09:10 PM	#56
Cristina Joined: Oct 2005 Location: South Florida Posts: 13,046	No talking. More dumping.
	__________________ "Well, you can get hit by a truck tomorrow, so you might as well raise a little hell tonight!" "Running is my anchor. It's not what I do, but it's what makes everything else I do okay." Huntsville Heel and Crank Duathlon - 10/24/2009 Boca Raton Police Athletic League Half Marathon - 11/1/2009 Philadelphia Marathon - 11/22/2009

Jun 27th, 2009, 05:11 PM	#59
sweetdreamer16 Member Joined: May 2008 Location: Vancouver Posts: 2,035	seriously what he needs is a good kick in the nuts! how could someone be so awful to you?? you seriously do not deserve this! no one does! i hope everything works out!
	__________________ Visit my blog, for featured amazing giveaways!! Updated daily!! http://thegiveawaydiva.blogspot.com/ Giving away an amazing Karmin G3 Salon Pro Hair Styling Iron!! A value of $140!!Click here to enter!!! Win an amazing charm bracelet with eight charms of your choice valued at $130! Click here to enter!!!

Welcome to The Purse Forum.

Our Purse Forum, or TPF, is the #1 online social network for everything designer handbag related. Join over 200,000 enthusiastic members in this friendly community and start engaging in the discussion today.