Is this the right decision to make?

[lulabee]

Originally Posted by dallas

Wow. Your time has been wasted? You really are a piece of work. A spoiled piece of work from the sound of things. ... Yeah, I know, I'm rude.

I guess we are all rude, lol! Oh well....

[Minimouse]

and the conclusion is that the boyfriend and MsJenna deserve each other! They're as poorly behaved as each other.

[redney]

so the PFers offering constructive advice to msjenna are "rude" but the BF who treats msjenna & her doggie poorly is not rude?

[nataliam1976]

Originally Posted by msJenna

I think I mentioned he wasn't strapped for cash when someone accused me of forcing my boyfriend to buy me shoes with his hard earned money. Or something along those lines. And if you focus on one or two threads about a gift from him, sure it sounds like a possibility. But you're leaving out the fact that I have contributed a lot more than that to this forum. People only see what they want to see. If you want to think I am a gold digger, you'll only go view one post and then pass judgments. It's not in my character to go and draw rude conclusions and try to upset other members. And it is none of my business to judge other peoples relationships whether I agree with them or not.

Oh grow up. Nobody wanted to upset you or be rude, you post a thread about a shitty bf, you dont come back to it for a while, people were CONCERNED and checked if you logged in or not afterwards. This is why they looked up your posts in the first place, and got your post about Chanel as a reply to their concern! You have gotten nothing but help and support here by then and if you post things like that, you have to be prepared you will be called out on them. Sure, some of the comments became sarcastic, but what else did you expect? Check the turning point in your thread yourself and you will see that Im right.


Also, you have a nice way with words..when you want to. Yes, you did "mention". If saying that your boyfriend wipes with a golden toilet paper among other posts commenting on his financial status can be called "mentioning". You give out about other people not expressing themselves graciously, but look at what/how you write yourself. People only see what you let them see.

I suppose last sentence of my previous post was horrible and judgemental too, then? Well, Im sorry that I actually cared. Next time dont post on a open forum if you are not ready to hear different opinions - that you influence yourself with your posts.

[dallas]

Originally Posted by msJenna

Haha. Yeah, you know. I am such a rude person for thanking the people who gave me good advice and not wanting to waste my time with people who only want to pass judgments and be rude to me because they are having a bad day and want to feel better about themselves. Anyone who passes judgement on someone on the internet and is rude when the person is clearly in a predicament isn't a nice person who I'd like to waste my time on. I don't know about how you were raised, but I was raised to respect other peoples decisions, religion, and personal beliefs regardless of what my own are, and if I disagreed with something, to do so in a respectful manner. So you can call me a "piece of work" for not wanting to waste my time with someone who is only being rude to me and for having the decency to say it straight out instead of making rude sarcastic remarks. You really have to question your character when you're talking down to someone because they are standing up for themselves when they're being attacked for a decision they made. So, call me rude for not getting off on insulting people when I don't agree with them, and just simply not wanting to address someone. How do you want me to treat you? Give you a gold crown for insulting me and recommending you for TPFER of the year? Yeah right. Go do something more productive with your time. Insulting me and then getting mad when I am offended, insulting me again, and calling me a piece of work for not wanting to waste my time on someone who's only being rude is a little much. I could waste my time calling you names, searching all your posts and then passing judgments about you but the truth is I'm not insecure enough to do so and I don't really care enough about you to. There are a million other things you could focus your energy on. So why are you trying to upset me when I don't even know you, because I don't agree with you insulting me. Like, grow up seriously. I ask for advice and I have to deal with rude women who want to upset me and then call me names because I don't want to waste my time arguing with them. What a joke! And now you're gonna respond with "the only joke is you! Because you so use your boyfriend and you don't love him because I know that! And he doesn't love you because I totally know what goes on in your relationship and your head! And you have low self esteem you spoiled skank!". Atleast I have enough self esteem that I don't have to go attacking people on forums. Only losers kick people when they're already down. Go find another punching bag.

There's a tPFER of the Year award??

[MarneeB]

Originally Posted by dallas

There's a tPFER of the Year award??

[Roo]

Originally Posted by msJenna

And I don't need to justify myself to you either so take your rude comments elsewhere. If you give me good advice, fine. But if you're going to be rude to me, like you just were how can you expect that I would thank you for accusing me of being a gold digger? Don't even bother responding to this it's a waste of my time to reply to you.

I've read this whole thread and I think that you could be a bit more gracious about the advice you're being given here. If anyone is being rude, it's you.

No one forced you to come here and post about your life. If you don't like the feedback you are receiving, it may be best for you to ignore this thread and let it die a natural death. This is preferable to you continuing to respond in such an inconsiderate way.

[queenvictoria2]

Originally Posted by redney

so the PFers offering constructive advice to msjenna are "rude" but the BF who treats msjenna & her doggie poorly is not rude?

go figure.

[heart goes boOm]

WOW. i stopped reading this post many pages ago because i thought duh, of course she'll leave her horrible bf. i got bored today and decided to read all the other pages... and just WOW. one day i think the OP will realize that everyone in tpf is just trying to help her. i don't think anyone on tpf are ever mean to someone, just some tough love sometimes because it is needed.

[ellacoach]

Originally Posted by dallas

Wow. Your time has been wasted? You really are a piece of work. A spoiled piece of work from the sound of things.

word!

[lulabee]

Hmmm, the only one who sounds insecure here is you! Trust me sweetie, I'm far far away from being insecure ok? By the way...you never answered my question, have you asked yourself why he is with you? Oh wait that's right, you aren't wasting your time with me because I'm rude...

[Cristina]

Okay, 14 pages is enough for this thread.