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bagnshoofetish · Jun 3rd, 2008, 10:43 PM

you have gotten really great advice here so far I have nothing to add except we all think you are a wonderful person Cait. Its her loss.

caitlin1214 · Nov 1st, 2009, 06:39 PM

Little update: I don't want to curse her out anymore.

I sent her a friend request on Facebook. If she accepts then great. If not, then well, screw her, too.

juneping · Nov 1st, 2009, 07:19 PM

i also had a friend like that: i have no clue what problem she had/has but she basically cut all her friends from 8th grades...there were the 5 of us and she dropped all of us. we don't know why.
i personally think you must have some unpleasant association of her dark past that she is ashamed of. not that it's your problem or anything you did but she is trying to erase her past..and you were part of that dark past.
so don't take it personally. you are a good friend....from what i see...it's her loss.

ms_contrary · Nov 1st, 2009, 08:32 PM

I say contact her and say hello. Leave it simple, and don't play the blame game. Just a "hello, oh you're on facebook! Wow, how have you been, it's been forever!" type of comment. Then let the ball be in her court. If she responds, great, if she doesn't, oh well, you tried. Good Luck!

caitlin1214 · Nov 2nd, 2009, 09:07 PM

She accepted my friend request. I just wrote on her wall that it has been a while and I asked her how she was doing.

I also saw that she's a Britney fan so I asked her what she thought of the video to 3.

Jun 3rd, 2008, 10:43 PM	#16
bagnshoofetish keep smiling.... Joined: Feb 2006 Posts: 20,377	you have gotten really great advice here so far I have nothing to add except we all think you are a wonderful person Cait. Its her loss.
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Nov 1st, 2009, 06:39 PM	#17
caitlin1214 OP You just got slapped Joined: Jul 2006 Location: Toronto, Canada (Eh?) Posts: 22,436	Little update: I don't want to curse her out anymore. I sent her a friend request on Facebook. If she accepts then great. If not, then well, screw her, too.
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Nov 1st, 2009, 07:19 PM	#18
juneping couch potato-ing Joined: Jun 2007 Location: NYC Posts: 4,327	i also had a friend like that: i have no clue what problem she had/has but she basically cut all her friends from 8th grades...there were the 5 of us and she dropped all of us. we don't know why. i personally think you must have some unpleasant association of her dark past that she is ashamed of. not that it's your problem or anything you did but she is trying to erase her past..and you were part of that dark past. so don't take it personally. you are a good friend....from what i see...it's her loss.
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Nov 2nd, 2009, 09:07 PM	#20
caitlin1214 OP You just got slapped Joined: Jul 2006 Location: Toronto, Canada (Eh?) Posts: 22,436	She accepted my friend request. I just wrote on her wall that it has been a while and I asked her how she was doing. I also saw that she's a Britney fan so I asked her what she thought of the video to 3.
	__________________ If we could take the time To lay it on the line I could rest my head Just knowin' that you were mine November Rain - Guns N' Roses

Nov 1st, 2009, 08:32 PM	#19
ms_contrary Member Joined: Nov 2009 Location: Portland, OR Posts: 17	I say contact her and say hello. Leave it simple, and don't play the blame game. Just a "hello, oh you're on facebook! Wow, how have you been, it's been forever!" type of comment. Then let the ball be in her court. If she responds, great, if she doesn't, oh well, you tried. Good Luck!

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