I found out he has a GF! Advice needed to move on.

[sphere99]

Yes ask him! If you didn't know him that well that would be one thing, but you do so yes, ask.

[olialm1]

ONE WORD: LOSER.

Drop his ass now, do not get attached. If he lies to you about this he probably has no issue lying about anything. I wouldn't get near him without a 5 foot pole. Find a better, cuter, smarter, HONEST guy!

[Adore]

Originally Posted by Charles

How bout "Hey, so what's up with the 'In a relationship' status on FB. You never mentioned a gf to me". Pretty simple.

Yeah you should SERIOUSLY say this, you don't even have to be as straight forward if you don't want to. You could open up with something else and add a "ha ha" and then close with something else. You should absolutely do this!

I know a guy that hid his girlfriend from me (still is!). I found out he had a girlfriend because I looked them up on facebook (and other things). I have a boyfriend anyway so I wasn't trying to start something with him or anything, but when I learned of that I kept trying to get him to admit it without asking. We don't hang out but the thing is, there's things I keep asking that he could mention a girlfriend but he avoids it! I'm going to ask what was quoted above when he finally has to admit he has one!
Seriously, have fun with it, don't feel bummed!

I bet it really is to get the best of both worlds.

[Pursegrrl]

Originally Posted by syrah22

I have a sense of bad intuition about this whole situation not being kosher. Like him not being upfront and "keeping his options open" type of thing. But just like you advised, my good girlfriend also gave similar advice. So this weekend, I'm meeting up with him and I'll ask him. No point in wasting anymore time about it. I'll let you know how it goes. Wish me luck! In the end I just want clarity more than anything else.

Good for you! And so spot on.