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PinkSuadeSoho · Nov 21st, 2007, 09:26 PM

Originally Posted by gacats

I can only speak from what I would do in this case, and I'm in a 23 year very happy marriage.
If it were me, I would divorce him & take him to the cleaners, get the house, the furniture, everything I could get my hands on.
I would never stand for this kind of DISRESPECT from my spouse.

Right, ^^^ but it's easier said than done. I think we can all give sound advice, but if we were living the nightmare, it would be a completely different ballgame. We don't know all of the factors.

Nirodha · Nov 21st, 2007, 10:11 PM

I think he ought to toss the wife and run off with the 20 something - it'll probably be a lot more fun!

Of course, he'll need to protect his assets first, before the wife files for divorce. There's no need for her to get her hands on something she didn't actually work for.

theITbag · Nov 22nd, 2007, 12:35 AM

why does she want to stay with someone who doesn't want to be with her? I know they took vows and all, but life is too short to be living miserably. it might be hard in the short term but if she sets him free, she will open herself up to other potential relationship that isn't so toxic. I don't know seems like such a waste of both their lives trying to keep something alive that has long pass.

Nov 21st, 2007, 10:11 PM	#62
Nirodha Member Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 183	Re: How to handle emotional cheating? long I think he ought to toss the wife and run off with the 20 something - it'll probably be a lot more fun! Of course, he'll need to protect his assets first, before the wife files for divorce. There's no need for her to get her hands on something she didn't actually work for.
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Nov 22nd, 2007, 12:35 AM	#63
theITbag trufflesbang Joined: Feb 2006 Location: US Posts: 1,183	Re: How to handle emotional cheating? long why does she want to stay with someone who doesn't want to be with her? I know they took vows and all, but life is too short to be living miserably. it might be hard in the short term but if she sets him free, she will open herself up to other potential relationship that isn't so toxic. I don't know seems like such a waste of both their lives trying to keep something alive that has long pass.
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