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ηαя¢ιςςα · Nov 4th, 2009, 12:03 AM

Because I feel like, depending on the definition of the word, I've had quite a few (I'm 17)...while my boyfriend has had like none...in his words "I've never thought about girls or sex before, just math

" which makes me feel like a slut

DreamingBeauty · Nov 4th, 2009, 01:00 AM

I've had countless, it's probably a girl thing. A lot were guys I'd never actually pursue, but it was fun to flirt with them. It's not slutty to have a crush, lol.

dallas · Nov 4th, 2009, 01:18 AM

Originally Posted by ηαя¢ιςςα

Because I feel like, depending on the definition of the word, I've had quite a few (I'm 17)...while my boyfriend has had like none...in his words "I've never thought about girls or sex before, just math

" which makes me feel like a slut

Oh come on now ...

ηαя¢ιςςα · Nov 4th, 2009, 02:59 AM

Originally Posted by dallas

Oh come on now ...

Awww, what's that supposed to mean :P Hahaha, after intense questioning/talking to his friends/knowing him well etc., i believe it...but trust me I was skeptical at first. Also because apparently he had really low testosterone levels.

Anyways, he's the type of person who would put a lot of energy into his work (like hours a day) and not care about much else.

juneping · Nov 4th, 2009, 07:27 AM

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Also because apparently he had really low testosterone levels.

how did you know? did doctor tell you that??

Charles · Nov 4th, 2009, 08:58 AM

Originally Posted by ηαя¢ιςςα

Awww, what's that supposed to mean :P Hahaha, after intense questioning/talking to his friends/knowing him well etc., i believe it...but trust me I was skeptical at first. Also because apparently he had really low testosterone levels.

Anyways, he's the type of person who would put a lot of energy into his work (like hours a day) and not care about much else.

And how is this working out for you?

And yes, I had tons of crushes. In high school, if you were a girl, had a pulse, and talked to me, you were put on my crush list. Last time I checked that was no where near being a slut. I could only have wished to have sexual interactions with any girl back then.

keya · Nov 4th, 2009, 09:18 AM

I couldn't count my crushes even if I tried. There's nothing slutty about that.

NLVOEWITHLV · Nov 4th, 2009, 10:07 AM

I've had a million crushes... some of them were guys I had never even met (like movie stars). I'm happily married, but I still have a crush on Denzel Washington!!!

ηαя¢ιςςα · Nov 4th, 2009, 10:21 AM

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how did you know? did doctor tell you that??

Nope. Just something he conjectured, I guess, due to stupid things like he never had to start shaving until recently, never started caring about girls, other signs, etc. It's not uncommon among our friends as some of them really do seem completely asexual.

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And how is this working out for you?

Haha, it works the other way too - as in, he's quite attentive and would basically do anything with me (like staying up until 4 or 5 in the morning with me when he had midterms at 8 the next day) without complaining.

amymaria · Nov 4th, 2009, 10:31 AM

I've had crushes on guys ever since I was like 5 years old!

ηαя¢ιςςα · Nov 4th, 2009, 10:39 AM

Haha :P I guess sometimes I feel like a slut because a lot of my friends feel like they're too good to be bothered/spend their time worrying about members of the opposite sex. And I am not part of this elitist intellectual group

just kidding...hahaha

Jeneen · Nov 4th, 2009, 11:56 AM

I've had a million crushes - and I'm also very productive in my professional life.

bagnshoofetish · Nov 4th, 2009, 11:56 AM

you have a boyfriend? I was under the impression you didn't from the thread you started about not having any friends?
Be that as it may, I have no idea how many crushes I've had. I don't understand though how having a lot of "crushes" makes you a slut?

spoiled_brat · Nov 4th, 2009, 12:29 PM

I must have had a gazillion crushes over the years!

This in no way makes you a slut or anything even close.

ηαя¢ιςςα · Nov 4th, 2009, 12:56 PM

Originally Posted by bagnshoofetish

you have a boyfriend? I was under the impression you didn't from the thread you started about not having any friends?
Be that as it may, I have no idea how many crushes I've had. I don't understand though how having a lot of "crushes" makes you a slut?

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I do, it's just that i didn't count that as having "friends" (which I did mention in my thread), sorry to be so confusing but sometimes I like to change simple details to make myself less stalkable (it's been a problem).

Nov 4th, 2009, 12:03 AM	#1
ηαя¢ιςςα OP Member Joined: Mar 2009 Posts: 193	How many crushes have people usually had :P Because I feel like, depending on the definition of the word, I've had quite a few (I'm 17)...while my boyfriend has had like none...in his words "I've never thought about girls or sex before, just math " which makes me feel like a slut
ηαя¢ιςςα OP Member Joined: Mar 2009 Posts: 193

Nov 4th, 2009, 01:00 AM	#2
DreamingBeauty Member Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 1,610	I've had countless, it's probably a girl thing. A lot were guys I'd never actually pursue, but it was fun to flirt with them. It's not slutty to have a crush, lol.
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Nov 4th, 2009, 09:18 AM	#7
keya Member Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 3,906	I couldn't count my crushes even if I tried. There's nothing slutty about that.
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Nov 4th, 2009, 10:07 AM	#8
NLVOEWITHLV Member Joined: Apr 2009 Location: Houston Posts: 742	I've had a million crushes... some of them were guys I had never even met (like movie stars). I'm happily married, but I still have a crush on Denzel Washington!!!
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Nov 4th, 2009, 10:31 AM	#10
amymaria I is Hello Kitty? Joined: Jan 2009 Location: Toronto Posts: 1,133	I've had crushes on guys ever since I was like 5 years old!
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Nov 4th, 2009, 10:39 AM	#11
ηαя¢ιςςα OP Member Joined: Mar 2009 Posts: 193	Haha :P I guess sometimes I feel like a slut because a lot of my friends feel like they're too good to be bothered/spend their time worrying about members of the opposite sex. And I am not part of this elitist intellectual group just kidding...hahaha
ηαя¢ιςςα OP Member Joined: Mar 2009 Posts: 193

Nov 4th, 2009, 11:56 AM	#12
Jeneen Member Joined: Feb 2009 Location: up in the gym workin on my fitness Posts: 2,752	I've had a million crushes - and I'm also very productive in my professional life.
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Nov 4th, 2009, 11:56 AM	#13
bagnshoofetish keep smiling.... Joined: Feb 2006 Posts: 20,377	you have a boyfriend? I was under the impression you didn't from the thread you started about not having any friends? Be that as it may, I have no idea how many crushes I've had. I don't understand though how having a lot of "crushes" makes you a slut?
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Nov 4th, 2009, 12:29 PM	#14
spoiled_brat not spoiled enough Joined: Oct 2007 Location: Canada Posts: 2,188	I must have had a gazillion crushes over the years! This in no way makes you a slut or anything even close.

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