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bagnshoofetish · Nov 4th, 2009, 01:12 PM

Originally Posted by ηαя¢ιςςα

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I do, it's just that i didn't count that as having "friends" (which I did mention in my thread), sorry to be so confusing but sometimes I like to change simple details to make myself less stalkable (it's been a problem).

ummm....okay?

spoiled_brat · Nov 4th, 2009, 01:37 PM

^ you mean you don't do that?

Perhaps, you're just not stalkable enough

meganfm · Nov 4th, 2009, 01:51 PM

Originally Posted by ηαя¢ιςςα

Nope. Just something he conjectured, I guess, due to stupid things like he never had to start shaving until recently, never started caring about girls, other signs, etc. It's not uncommon among our friends as some of them really do seem completely asexual.

That's not low testosterone-that's just maturity. Besides, guys mature much more slowly than women do-I know both guys and girls even now (and I'm in university) who still show zero interest in the opposite sex. But they're not the most mature people I know (not that that's a bad thing! It just....is).

And you're not a slut at all :P I didn't have tons of crushes, but I consistently HAD crushes since I was....in grade 2 or 3? But my DBF was also a bit of a ladies man before we started dating haha.

Oh I should mention-my DBF is Chinese and 26...and he still BARELY has to shave XD

tiffthegreat · Nov 4th, 2009, 02:27 PM

im 19 and i have 9 that i can remember, prob 90 that i'm forgetting! lol crushes are so innocent they don't make you a slut in ANY way.

ηαя¢ιςςα · Nov 4th, 2009, 02:53 PM

Originally Posted by bagnshoofetish

ummm....okay?

Haha, is there something wrong with this? I've had quite a history of people I know stalking my posts online (deliberately reading all of my posts and finding all of my usernames) that I'm a bit paranoid now of giving too much away...which is why sometimes I won't be 100%truthful and may be inconsistent once in a while. But for the purpose of whatever I'm asking, it's enough.

I had a friend who was kicked out her college for controversial things she posted on a forum...not using any real names, yet she was tracked. I also had a friend who posted things on an online forum without any names and it was recognized by a college admissions officer during her interview. So I'm wary.

On another note, I do know quite a few immature people who are uninterested in guys or girls...my friend had a crush on a guy who
she asked out. He said yes but on the condition that she doesn't touch him because he hates touching. They would watch a movie together on a hammock and sit on total opposite ends. Later, he broke up with her saying that he wasn't very interested in girls. Haha it was cute while it lasted.

bagnshoofetish · Nov 4th, 2009, 02:55 PM

Originally Posted by ηαя¢ιςςα

Haha, is there something wrong with this? I've had quite a history of people I know stalking my posts online (deliberately reading all of my posts and finding all of my usernames) that I'm a bit paranoid now of giving too much away...which is why sometimes I won't be 100%truthful and may be inconsistent once in a while. But for the purpose of whatever I'm asking, it's enough.

If that happened to me I guess I would never post anything ever again on any forum! Its too bad cause now I'm always going to wonder what is real and what is fake about your future posts?
But whatevs...
Back to Topic...I still don't understand how having a lot of "crushes" makes one a slut?

plumaplomb · Nov 4th, 2009, 03:07 PM

I had at least two crushes a year growing up lol. I still have crushes; they're fun to have, and pretty much harmless.

Cheetah7 · Nov 4th, 2009, 03:21 PM

I've had crushes since I was 7 yrs old...I'm now 23 and married and I still have crushes! It's no big deal and doesn't make you a bad person.

starra007 · Nov 4th, 2009, 03:43 PM

I've had a handful, but not too many. The older I've gotten, the fewer I've had.

Zophie · Nov 4th, 2009, 03:55 PM

More than I can even count.

ηαя¢ιςςα · Nov 4th, 2009, 03:57 PM

Originally Posted by bagnshoofetish

If that happened to me I guess I would never post anything ever again on any forum! Its too bad cause now I'm always going to wonder what is real and what is fake about your future posts?
But whatevs...
Back to Topic...I still don't understand how having a lot of "crushes" makes one a slut?

I guess not a slut in the normal sense, but more in the emotional sense? Like, my bf tells me that I'm the ony person he's ever liked, but I say that I've had a few crushes and he goes (jokingly), "I guess I'm not as special to you than you are to me then," hahaha. So then I feel bad! But it's good to know I'm the normal one :)

What's weird about me is that I'm attracted to men who are good at math...I'll go crazy over people who can talk about nerdy things and people with enviable accomplishments, so I tend to attract workaholics...I have so many crushes that occur because I'm in awe with some of my guy friends' accomplishments

~Fabulousity~ · Nov 4th, 2009, 03:59 PM

Originally Posted by amymaria

I've had crushes on guys ever since I was like 5 years old!

Me too!

Charles · Nov 4th, 2009, 04:16 PM

As long as you stay away from the after school Math Club meetings, you should be fine.

jwhitlock · Nov 4th, 2009, 04:18 PM

At least 12.

ηαя¢ιςςα · Nov 4th, 2009, 05:06 PM

Originally Posted by Charles

As long as you stay away from the after school Math Club meetings, you should be fine.

Lmao...no, not like that.

Nov 4th, 2009, 02:27 PM	#19
tiffthegreat Member Joined: Jan 2009 Location: Florida Posts: 367	im 19 and i have 9 that i can remember, prob 90 that i'm forgetting! lol crushes are so innocent they don't make you a slut in ANY way.
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Nov 4th, 2009, 03:07 PM	#22
plumaplomb Member Joined: Dec 2008 Posts: 2,927	I had at least two crushes a year growing up lol. I still have crushes; they're fun to have, and pretty much harmless.
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Nov 4th, 2009, 03:21 PM	#23
Cheetah7 Member Joined: Aug 2009 Location: Here, there and everywhere Posts: 302	I've had crushes since I was 7 yrs old...I'm now 23 and married and I still have crushes! It's no big deal and doesn't make you a bad person.
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Nov 4th, 2009, 03:43 PM	#24
starra007 Member Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 97	I've had a handful, but not too many. The older I've gotten, the fewer I've had.
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Nov 4th, 2009, 03:55 PM	#25
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Nov 4th, 2009, 01:37 PM	#17
spoiled_brat not spoiled enough Joined: Oct 2007 Location: Canada Posts: 2,188	^ you mean you don't do that? Perhaps, you're just not stalkable enough

Nov 4th, 2009, 04:16 PM	#28
Charles Sucks at budgeting Joined: Jan 2007 Location: Jacksonville, Fl Posts: 6,191	As long as you stay away from the after school Math Club meetings, you should be fine.
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Nov 4th, 2009, 04:18 PM	#29
jwhitlock Delicious Joined: Aug 2009 Location: Southeast of Disorder, MD Posts: 509	At least 12.
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