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~Fabulousity~ · Jul 4th, 2008, 07:47 PM

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Originally Posted by maddog

I agree with the others, go slow and keep your own life. If you have other things going on, you'll not be thinking about him constantly, which is good for you and keeps him on his toes.

Are you exclusive yet? Whenever I wasn't, I numbered the guys when I tell my friends things. Guy 1, 2, 3, etc. They only get a name once we are exclusive. It keeps me grounded in reality (he's just a guy I'm dating) and no one would accidentally use the wrong name with my bf when things get serious.

ha!ha! I do this too! Only I give them nicknames, for example I met this guy yesterday and he told me he just moved up from D.C. so his nickname is now D.C.

~Fabulousity~ · Jul 4th, 2008, 07:47 PM

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Originally Posted by illinirdhd

^^^ I'm kinda the opposite. When I was dating, if a guy was out of sight, he was usually pretty much out of mind too.

Me too!

~Fabulousity~ · Jul 4th, 2008, 07:51 PM

Ya know I like him a lot but yesterday when I was out and I met another guy it got me to thinking I may not like him as much as I thought

I dunno I mean i've been married and I remember when I met hubby I was satisfied with him and him only, not seeing that with this new guy.

Although it has only been two weeks. He's cool, but like you all said i'm going to just take things slow and see what develops. I have to get to know him a little more and then i'll see if I still really like him like I think I do, KWIM...

nataliam1976 · Jul 5th, 2008, 06:52 AM

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Originally Posted by ~Fabulousity~

Ya know I like him a lot but yesterday when I was out and I met another guy it got me to thinking I may not like him as much as I thought

I dunno I mean i've been married and I remember when I met hubby I was satisfied with him and him only, not seeing that with this new guy.

Although it has only been two weeks. He's cool, but like you all said i'm going to just take things slow and see what develops. I have to get to know him a little more and then i'll see if I still really like him like I think I do, KWIM...

maybe you just want to fool around a bit, fabs? no strings attached?

just go with the flow babe

talexs · Jul 5th, 2008, 06:50 PM

If you really like him just go with it. I felt the same way about a guy a little more than a year ago and tried to play it cool for so long that I would have lost him if he hadn't put in so much effort. What's the worst that can happen if you let yourself fall for him, just don't be super needy or clingy and enjoy the ride

Jul 4th, 2008, 07:51 PM	#18
~Fabulousity~ SuperCoolLoveThang	Ya know I like him a lot but yesterday when I was out and I met another guy it got me to thinking I may not like him as much as I thought I dunno I mean i've been married and I remember when I met hubby I was satisfied with him and him only, not seeing that with this new guy. Although it has only been two weeks. He's cool, but like you all said i'm going to just take things slow and see what develops. I have to get to know him a little more and then i'll see if I still really like him like I think I do, KWIM... __________________ Every adversity, every failure, and every heartache carries with it the seed of an equal or greater benefit - Napoleon Hill

Jul 5th, 2008, 06:50 PM	#20
talexs I Love It!!!!! Location: The (215)	If you really like him just go with it. I felt the same way about a guy a little more than a year ago and tried to play it cool for so long that I would have lost him if he hadn't put in so much effort. What's the worst that can happen if you let yourself fall for him, just don't be super needy or clingy and enjoy the ride