dirty old men. yucky

lvuittonaddict · Jul 1st, 2008, 12:10 AM

haha, okay, so this has happened to me quite a few times. STRAIGHT guys/dirty old men who hit on me. i mean, i dont have a problem with HOT straight guys hitting on me, thats like every gay guys fantasy. haha. but omg, weirdos and the crazies. this has happened to me not once, not twice, but MANY times!!!!! lets see

1. i was walking out of the train station in philly....30th and a man holds the door open for me, nice gesture? ha, no. more like horny gesture. he was like "where you going? you got a boyfriend?" SICK

2. i was walking in philly, cant remember where exactly, rittenhouse maybe? anyways, this guy was walking passed me and said "go ahead girl, let your walking do your talking for you" WTF??

3. i was in a CAB, probably the scariest. and the cab driver asks me if i have a bf, i say yes. then he asks if my bf is tall. i say that he's taller than i am, he's about 5'9" then he says.."tall guy equals tall d**k" as we get to my stop, he parks and asks "so, do you want to do it now" NOOOOOOOOOO.

4. this is the most recent, and the final straw. i was DC yesterday and i was going into CVS to get some gum....mmmm the stride berry gum is sooo good, anyways, a guy holds the door open for me and says something, but i didnt really catch what he said, so i keep walking. as im coming out, the same guy is holding the door open for me, he had a cup for change, so when he spoke to me, i thought he was asking for change so i said i didnt have any. then he asked me if i knew what he said(dont ask me why i kept talking to him) i said no, then he said "i want you" OMG, i walked away as quickly as possible

anyways, this has happened to me at the hard rock, the beach, mall, everywhere and im getting sick of it

nataliam1976 · Jul 1st, 2008, 09:12 AM

Im so sorry you are getting such treatment from strangers, hun. I must say its no different to what we gals have to deal with it sometimes though. Just a complete lack of manners and decency, best to ignore and walk away.

abbygirl · Jul 1st, 2008, 09:17 AM

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Originally Posted by lvuittonaddict

haha, okay, so this has happened to me quite a few times. STRAIGHT guys/dirty old men who hit on me. i mean, i dont have a problem with HOT straight guys hitting on me, thats like every gay guys fantasy. haha. but omg, weirdos and the crazies. this has happened to me not once, not twice, but MANY times!!!!! lets see

1. i was walking out of the train station in philly....30th and a man holds the door open for me, nice gesture? ha, no. more like horny gesture. he was like "where you going? you got a boyfriend?" SICK

2. i was walking in philly, cant remember where exactly, rittenhouse maybe? anyways, this guy was walking passed me and said "go ahead girl, let your walking do your talking for you" WTF??

3. i was in a CAB, probably the scariest. and the cab driver asks me if i have a bf, i say yes. then he asks if my bf is tall. i say that he's taller than i am, he's about 5'9" then he says.."tall guy equals tall d**k" as we get to my stop, he parks and asks "so, do you want to do it now" NOOOOOOOOOO.

4. this is the most recent, and the final straw. i was DC yesterday and i was going into CVS to get some gum....mmmm the stride berry gum is sooo good, anyways, a guy holds the door open for me and says something, but i didnt really catch what he said, so i keep walking. as im coming out, the same guy is holding the door open for me, he had a cup for change, so when he spoke to me, i thought he was asking for change so i said i didnt have any. then he asked me if i knew what he said(dont ask me why i kept talking to him) i said no, then he said "i want you" OMG, i walked away as quickly as possible

anyways, this has happened to me at the hard rock, the beach, mall, everywhere and im getting sick of it

Next time someone makes comments like that just say,

I'm gay not blind. OR..... I'm gay but not that hard up.

I just use that line but with out the gay part.

~Fabulousity~ · Jul 1st, 2008, 09:38 AM

Ha!Ha! I went to my sister's cousins 40th birthday party with her on Saturday night. Seems everyone there was at least 45 or older. I had a 70 something year old man keep coming over to me telling me how I was the most beautiful of all the women there and what nice legs I had. I couldn't even look him in his face

older men can be as aggressive as the younger ones

lvuittonaddict · Jul 1st, 2008, 10:21 AM

and if i go to the restroom, some guys will be like "um, miss, this is the mens room" im like, i am a freaking boy!!!!! or, they will walk in while im washing my hands, then double check the sign to make sure its the mens room. grrrrr

nataliam1976 · Jul 1st, 2008, 10:23 AM

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Originally Posted by lvuittonaddict

and if i go to the restroom, some guys will be like "um, miss, this is the mens room" im like, i am a freaking boy!!!!! or, they will walk in while im washing my hands, then double check the sign to make sure its the mens room. grrrrr

well I think you have delicate features and longer hair..at least those ones are not trying to be rude theyre just confused.

lovinalotofbags · Jul 1st, 2008, 11:04 AM

The men in the restroom seemed to have behaved better, like men. The others are disgusting thinking you would just go with them. Perhaps they have other experiences like that. Either way, it is disgusting for men to behave that if esp, if they are pretending to be straight. Straight guys do not hit on men.

You will just have to ignore them and try to shake off that dirty feeling they give you.

maddog · Jul 1st, 2008, 12:37 PM

Eeek! Must be so annoying! LOL'ed at abbygirl's suggestion, you should take it, I mean seriously you have standards too!

I have my shares of dirty old men stories so I know how icky it feels. After one particularly gross situation, my bf at the time said "of course he'd try, he's so old he's probably about to die, the worst is you say no to him, what does he have to lose?". I think there may be a point to it.

guccimamma · Jul 1st, 2008, 03:04 PM

sounds just like how men treat women when they are hot and young...sorry, it is just something you deal with.

as you get older, they still hit on you...but not in such a rude and blatant way. for some reason when you are young, everyone feels they have the right to say anything they want.

juneping · Jul 1st, 2008, 03:24 PM

just tell them "i am gay not crazy!!" and walk on....i don't understand why men are so compelled to harasse other ppl. who are not scary looking.

artjen · Jul 1st, 2008, 04:35 PM

ugh, why do people do that? I hate that. Neither man nor woman should have to deal with that!

lv-lover · Jul 1st, 2008, 06:10 PM

Yuck indeed. Old men always say weird things to me like "What's your name? That's a really pretty name." etc. and I have a pretty common name. I don't understand why they need hit on a girl more htan half their age.

VPT · Jul 1st, 2008, 06:14 PM

We girls deal with that all the time too :(

missbanff · Jul 1st, 2008, 08:50 PM

I had a waiter in a restaurant ask for my phone number when I was 8 months pregnant. Yep, I had my wedding rings on. HUH????

madamefifi · Jul 1st, 2008, 10:59 PM

You'll miss it when it stops happening, my dear.

Jul 1st, 2008, 12:10 AM	#1
lvuittonaddict ImASofaKingBannedBoy Joined: Sep 2007 Location: Bikini Bottom Posts: 1,694	dirty old men. yucky haha, okay, so this has happened to me quite a few times. STRAIGHT guys/dirty old men who hit on me. i mean, i dont have a problem with HOT straight guys hitting on me, thats like every gay guys fantasy. haha. but omg, weirdos and the crazies. this has happened to me not once, not twice, but MANY times!!!!! lets see 1. i was walking out of the train station in philly....30th and a man holds the door open for me, nice gesture? ha, no. more like horny gesture. he was like "where you going? you got a boyfriend?" SICK 2. i was walking in philly, cant remember where exactly, rittenhouse maybe? anyways, this guy was walking passed me and said "go ahead girl, let your walking do your talking for you" WTF?? 3. i was in a CAB, probably the scariest. and the cab driver asks me if i have a bf, i say yes. then he asks if my bf is tall. i say that he's taller than i am, he's about 5'9" then he says.."tall guy equals tall d**k" as we get to my stop, he parks and asks "so, do you want to do it now" NOOOOOOOOOO. 4. this is the most recent, and the final straw. i was DC yesterday and i was going into CVS to get some gum....mmmm the stride berry gum is sooo good, anyways, a guy holds the door open for me and says something, but i didnt really catch what he said, so i keep walking. as im coming out, the same guy is holding the door open for me, he had a cup for change, so when he spoke to me, i thought he was asking for change so i said i didnt have any. then he asked me if i knew what he said(dont ask me why i kept talking to him) i said no, then he said "i want you" OMG, i walked away as quickly as possible anyways, this has happened to me at the hard rock, the beach, mall, everywhere and im getting sick of it __________________ Wishlist LV Trevi GM[] LV Milla Pochette[] LV Mono Beaugorg[] Chanel Medallion Tote[] Chanel- Any Reissue[] HG: LV Tulepo My Collection http://forum.purseblog.com/your-bag-...on-207662.html

Jul 1st, 2008, 09:12 AM	#2
nataliam1976 Hmmmph Joined: Nov 2006 Location: all around Europe Posts: 8,555	Im so sorry you are getting such treatment from strangers, hun. I must say its no different to what we gals have to deal with it sometimes though. Just a complete lack of manners and decency, best to ignore and walk away. __________________ "Buy me, Lady" said the frock, "and I will make you into a BEAUTIFUL and WHOLE and COMPLETE human being". "Do not be SILLY", said the Man, " for a frock alone cannot do that". "TRUE" said the Lady. " I shall have the Shoes and the Bag as well".

Jul 1st, 2008, 09:38 AM	#4
~Fabulousity~ Yes we can! Joined: Jan 2006 Location: Creating my life... Posts: 5,390	Ha!Ha! I went to my sister's cousins 40th birthday party with her on Saturday night. Seems everyone there was at least 45 or older. I had a 70 something year old man keep coming over to me telling me how I was the most beautiful of all the women there and what nice legs I had. I couldn't even look him in his face older men can be as aggressive as the younger ones __________________ Every adversity, every failure, and every heartache carries with it the seed of an equal or greater benefit - Napoleon Hill

Jul 1st, 2008, 10:21 AM	#5
lvuittonaddict ImASofaKingBannedBoy Joined: Sep 2007 Location: Bikini Bottom Posts: 1,694	and if i go to the restroom, some guys will be like "um, miss, this is the mens room" im like, i am a freaking boy!!!!! or, they will walk in while im washing my hands, then double check the sign to make sure its the mens room. grrrrr __________________ Wishlist LV Trevi GM[] LV Milla Pochette[] LV Mono Beaugorg[] Chanel Medallion Tote[] Chanel- Any Reissue[] HG: LV Tulepo My Collection http://forum.purseblog.com/your-bag-...on-207662.html

Jul 1st, 2008, 11:04 AM	#7
lovinalotofbags Fashion disaster Joined: Mar 2008 Location: Carolinas Posts: 1,575	The men in the restroom seemed to have behaved better, like men. The others are disgusting thinking you would just go with them. Perhaps they have other experiences like that. Either way, it is disgusting for men to behave that if esp, if they are pretending to be straight. Straight guys do not hit on men. You will just have to ignore them and try to shake off that dirty feeling they give you. __________________ Always forgive your enemies. Nothing annoys them so much.

Jul 1st, 2008, 12:37 PM	#8
maddog Mmmkay Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 1,105	Eeek! Must be so annoying! LOL'ed at abbygirl's suggestion, you should take it, I mean seriously you have standards too! I have my shares of dirty old men stories so I know how icky it feels. After one particularly gross situation, my bf at the time said "of course he'd try, he's so old he's probably about to die, the worst is you say no to him, what does he have to lose?". I think there may be a point to it.

Jul 1st, 2008, 03:04 PM	#9
guccimamma guccimamma Joined: Aug 2006 Posts: 2,825	sounds just like how men treat women when they are hot and young...sorry, it is just something you deal with. as you get older, they still hit on you...but not in such a rude and blatant way. for some reason when you are young, everyone feels they have the right to say anything they want.

Jul 1st, 2008, 03:24 PM	#10
juneping couch potato-ing Joined: Jun 2007 Location: NYC Posts: 1,562	just tell them "i am gay not crazy!!" and walk on....i don't understand why men are so compelled to harasse other ppl. who are not scary looking. __________________ wish list: purse ban until the cc is paid off

Jul 1st, 2008, 04:35 PM	#11
artjen Young @ Art Joined: Oct 2007 Location: Arizona Posts: 794	ugh, why do people do that? I hate that. Neither man nor woman should have to deal with that!

Jul 1st, 2008, 06:10 PM	#12
lv-lover Member Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 5,767	Yuck indeed. Old men always say weird things to me like "What's your name? That's a really pretty name." etc. and I have a pretty common name. I don't understand why they need hit on a girl more htan half their age. __________________ "On ne voit bien qu'avec le cœur, l'essentiel est invisible pour les yeux"

Jul 1st, 2008, 06:14 PM	#13
VPT i ♥ blood oranges Joined: May 2008 Location: Vanc, WA Posts: 2,105	We girls deal with that all the time too :( __________________

Jul 1st, 2008, 08:50 PM	#14
missbanff Take me back...... Joined: May 2007 Location: The Dark Side of the Moon Posts: 1,709	I had a waiter in a restaurant ask for my phone number when I was 8 months pregnant. Yep, I had my wedding rings on. HUH???? __________________

Jul 1st, 2008, 10:59 PM	#15
madamefifi cat hoarder Joined: Aug 2006 Location: virginia Posts: 3,123	You'll miss it when it stops happening, my dear. __________________ Some people are proud, and some have their doubts.