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simona7 · Oct 20th, 2009, 01:49 AM

Thank you so much ladies! I will absolutely take the high road and not mention anything. When I see her for trick or treating I will just say, "you were both missed" and leave it at that. I definitely do not want to involve the kids in any type of drama.
Thanks for the birthday wishes - we can't wait for the party!

Sternchen · Oct 20th, 2009, 05:26 AM

Don't say a word...because the next thing that will come is that your daughter isn't allowed to play with hers anymore.

vhdos · Oct 20th, 2009, 09:34 AM

Honestly, I can see how the other mom would feel hurt that you are always out of town for her daughter's birthday party even though you have a legitimate excuse. It gets old always inviting someone who never attends and I'm sure that your daughter's presence is missed. However, I would be very surprised if the other mom was not going to your daughter's party just to spite you. How petty and immature that would be. Perhaps they truly are going out of town and you are just sensitive to the issue? I'd be careful jumping to conclusions and making assumptions. I also wouldn't say a word to anyone unless you want to create drama. Move on. It's not worth it and it would only end up hurting the children.

tillie46 · Oct 20th, 2009, 09:56 AM

Be the bigger person.......I have two daughters, and I've been through this.

Oct 20th, 2009, 01:49 AM	#16
simona7 OP Bag Lady Joined: Jul 2007 Posts: 1,560	Thank you so much ladies! I will absolutely take the high road and not mention anything. When I see her for trick or treating I will just say, "you were both missed" and leave it at that. I definitely do not want to involve the kids in any type of drama. Thanks for the birthday wishes - we can't wait for the party!
simona7 OP Bag Lady Joined: Jul 2007 Posts: 1,560	__________________ "I believe in pink. I believe laughing is the best calorie burner. I believe in kissing; kissing a lot. I believe in being strong when everything seems to be going wrong. I believe that happy girls are the prettiest girls. I believe that tomorrow is another day, and I believe in miracles." - Audrey Hepburn

Oct 20th, 2009, 05:26 AM	#17
Sternchen Proud mama of 3! Joined: May 2006 Location: Bavaria, Germany Posts: 13,954	Don't say a word...because the next thing that will come is that your daughter isn't allowed to play with hers anymore.
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Oct 20th, 2009, 09:34 AM	#18
vhdos Member Joined: May 2007 Location: NC Posts: 3,144	Honestly, I can see how the other mom would feel hurt that you are always out of town for her daughter's birthday party even though you have a legitimate excuse. It gets old always inviting someone who never attends and I'm sure that your daughter's presence is missed. However, I would be very surprised if the other mom was not going to your daughter's party just to spite you. How petty and immature that would be. Perhaps they truly are going out of town and you are just sensitive to the issue? I'd be careful jumping to conclusions and making assumptions. I also wouldn't say a word to anyone unless you want to create drama. Move on. It's not worth it and it would only end up hurting the children.
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Oct 20th, 2009, 09:56 AM	#19
tillie46 Member Joined: Aug 2009 Posts: 1,764	Be the bigger person.......I have two daughters, and I've been through this.
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