Bad Dreams about the ex

[talexs]

Originally Posted by amymaria

I used to except my insecurities always extended to my current relationship. It was weird to wakeup next to someone who was nothing but good to you and feel anger or sadness towards them....and them having them reassure you...and they aren't sure why.

Same exact thing happened to a very good friend of mine and her feelings toward it were exactly what you think. Now she is with a wonderful man who would never even dream of treating her the way her ex did, but the dreams still made her insecure in her current relationship. For her, time really helped and it almost seemed as though they were just something she needed to work out for herself, so she kind of used me as her ear and would just talk about them for hours in an attempt to make herself feel better about. I don't know about anyone else who has experienced this but I know the guilt she had about having the dreams really got to her.