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Oct 8th, 2009, 09:42 AM
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Thanks for the update. It's sounds like you are in a really tough place right now. May I ask if you are still seeing the other man? I know that you had mentioned before that the two of you had taken a break because seeing him was just complicating things.
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Oct 8th, 2009, 12:32 PM
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Oct 8th, 2009, 09:43 PM
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Too Obsessed...
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Please PM me if you want to talk, if I recall we were feeling the same about the same time and I acted on mine. Feel free to see my other post (I think you posted in it), I felt JUST like you did. But as soon as I was gone, I don't know what clicked I realized what I gave up, so please please be sure before you give it up. I know everyone told me that too and I thought I knew better. Sometimes, you think you feel alone in a marriage is feeling worse then actually being alone....it's not...trust me.
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Oct 8th, 2009, 10:31 PM
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No advice here but I wish you the best and hope that you make the right decision for you. Hugs.
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Oct 8th, 2009, 11:14 PM
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Taking it all in.
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Thank you for the update. I hope you find your way to true happiness soon.
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Oct 9th, 2009, 09:27 PM
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keep smiling....
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all I can say is that I am so sorry you are going through this. it just sounds like a no-win situation for anyone. it really does suck.
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Oct 10th, 2009, 08:21 AM
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Got a handle on it
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Thank you everyone. I will do my best to get back on here at some point very soon to answer all questions. Just a tough time for me and I am trying to focus on my kids at this point - which is limiting my time on the computer.
But I want you all to know that I have read each and every post and wanted to say thanks. It's nice coming here to share and get advice. You're all amazingly sweet and I love my friends here. |
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Oct 10th, 2009, 10:33 AM
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Hopelessly Addicted!
Joined: May 2007
Location: Everywhere but Home!
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Maybe you should go through a seperation period to decide if the grass is greener on the other side. Time apart can either break or make you decide what you and maybe what he wants too. If you are not seeing each other everyday will help. I know the kids may not like it but for your sanity sake and his in a way, it will help.
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Oct 10th, 2009, 05:06 PM
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All the best to you! It sounds like you've tried to deal with this for years and know what's right for you by now. Sending you lots of strength and wishing you loads of luck! I hope things will work out for the best!
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Oct 11th, 2009, 10:45 AM
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I wish you all the best and I truly feel sorry for you
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