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Luccibag · Sep 12th, 2009, 04:18 PM

Text her back how your flight went, then tell her you'd like to go celebrate your first solo flight. Then text her when she's free to get together.

Very Broken · Sep 19th, 2009, 04:45 PM

Hey girls. Update... We still text but she's pretty short with them, and delayed. So, I'm thinking she's not too interested, and I will move on. oh well...

On the other hand, I still dwell over my horrible ex. I cant seem to "snap out of it". I have constant urges to contact her. (I don't) And I don't know why I just cant seem to let go. I feel I have developed an addiction to her. And I need to treat it as such. But then again. I dont know how. And I don't feel I can start dating again until I do. And I have started 2 new hobbies, one I set up a saltwater fish tank. I enjoy that, and the flight lessons are wonderful. But there are times like today when I just feel so depressed. I cry for no reason. I cant sleep. I lost 15lbs. I have anxiety attacks. I take valum for those (it helps a bit) I might need to look into anti-depressants. I just don't know what else to do. A friend suggested I get a blood panel done to check my thyroid I just did that, results will be in a few days. I know you guys arent doctors or therapists, but any suggestions or words of encouragement would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

domlee · Sep 19th, 2009, 06:40 PM

Very Broken - you're doing the right thing by keeping yourself preoccupied. It takes time. As for this girl, give her a bit of time. Perhaps she is busy and that is okay. Perhaps she isn't interested, that is okay as well. You'll discover there are plenty of other single ladies out there.

cityivy · Sep 21st, 2009, 06:40 PM

oh no...i wouldn't join her for girls' night out! i'd wait a week and ask her again for something casual...drinks maybe...

juneping · Sep 21st, 2009, 07:28 PM

Very Broken

can you keep trying to meet other women...i think if you worked out with the girl you were talking about..you might feel very different by now. so i say you keep seeing other women...just casual dating to keep yourself occupied.
i am glad you are taking control of your life. you'll find someone who deserves you.
GL!!

Sep 12th, 2009, 04:18 PM	#31
Luccibag Member Joined: May 2006 Location: Greater NYC area Posts: 6,775	Text her back how your flight went, then tell her you'd like to go celebrate your first solo flight. Then text her when she's free to get together.
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Sep 21st, 2009, 06:40 PM	#34
cityivy Member Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 106	oh no...i wouldn't join her for girls' night out! i'd wait a week and ask her again for something casual...drinks maybe...
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Sep 21st, 2009, 07:28 PM	#35
juneping couch potato-ing Joined: Jun 2007 Location: NYC Posts: 4,352	Very Broken can you keep trying to meet other women...i think if you worked out with the girl you were talking about..you might feel very different by now. so i say you keep seeing other women...just casual dating to keep yourself occupied. i am glad you are taking control of your life. you'll find someone who deserves you. GL!!
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Sep 19th, 2009, 04:45 PM	#32
Very Broken OP Member Joined: Jan 2009 Location: USA Posts: 114	Hey girls. Update... We still text but she's pretty short with them, and delayed. So, I'm thinking she's not too interested, and I will move on. oh well... On the other hand, I still dwell over my horrible ex. I cant seem to "snap out of it". I have constant urges to contact her. (I don't) And I don't know why I just cant seem to let go. I feel I have developed an addiction to her. And I need to treat it as such. But then again. I dont know how. And I don't feel I can start dating again until I do. And I have started 2 new hobbies, one I set up a saltwater fish tank. I enjoy that, and the flight lessons are wonderful. But there are times like today when I just feel so depressed. I cry for no reason. I cant sleep. I lost 15lbs. I have anxiety attacks. I take valum for those (it helps a bit) I might need to look into anti-depressants. I just don't know what else to do. A friend suggested I get a blood panel done to check my thyroid I just did that, results will be in a few days. I know you guys arent doctors or therapists, but any suggestions or words of encouragement would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

Sep 19th, 2009, 06:40 PM	#33
domlee Member Joined: Jan 2007 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 952	Very Broken - you're doing the right thing by keeping yourself preoccupied. It takes time. As for this girl, give her a bit of time. Perhaps she is busy and that is okay. Perhaps she isn't interested, that is okay as well. You'll discover there are plenty of other single ladies out there.

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