I just received my first Proenza bag - It's a bright red medium PS1!

I fell in love with the bag when I saw it in person (though in a different color- military) What was really amazing was the quality of leather- It was sooo soft I was afraid I would scratch it too easily-
But the bag I received in the mail, the outside leather isn't that soft. I was wondering if this particular bag is just tougher (not sure if proenza leather varies a lot like bal leather) or it will become a lot softer with use-
Can you experts tell me if the leather will change over time? I did read it will but but not like a balenciaga bag. So I am just not sure-
Thanks