total shock! new baby in the family

cherry pie · Sep 27th, 2007, 06:52 PM

my cousin has been having some mental health problems and his girl friend (tiny little petite girl) broke up with him in february. she had been having some bad stomach pains and was admitted to hospital last month and told she was 8 months pregnant! not showing at all.
she had an adorable little girl this morning 6lb 40z, no name yet. its brought them back together but not in a relationship just to care for their new baby.
i feel so sorry for her and its such a tricky situation but both are doing well and she is so happy!

SOUTHERNGAL87 · Sep 27th, 2007, 07:02 PM

Aww Congrats! Thats coo crazy i hope i dont show lol! ya rite! Go0d Luck to your cousin and the mom!

listrikmu · Sep 28th, 2007, 03:30 AM

Auwww... I love baby news! Congrats to your cuz & the baby's mummy. Hope that they can at least be a loving & supporting family unit...for the baby's sake.

TammyD · Sep 28th, 2007, 03:31 AM

That's really nice! I wish I was 8 months preggers before realising it :))

ms p · Sep 28th, 2007, 04:22 AM

it's amazing whenever i read about girls being pregnant and doesn't show + they do not know they are pregnant. hope they are handling parenthood well as they didn't have much time to be prepared before the baby arrives. so glad that the mother is happy

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LVmom · Sep 28th, 2007, 08:25 PM

Congratulations!

bellacherie · Sep 28th, 2007, 08:44 PM

Wow! I always hear of things like this but find it hard to believe!

Thanks for confirming that it actually happens!

Hope the baby is well.

kimberf · Sep 28th, 2007, 11:23 PM

I know someone who got pregnant when she was 17 (my brother's ex-girlfriend - this happened before they met). She had a really bad relationship with her family, so never mentioned it. She apparently never got very big, though she said a little bigger. She went into labor in the middle of winter in Wisconsin, and her car was snowed in. When she went to wake her dad up to take her to the hospital because she was in labor and couldn't get her car out, he said, "You're not pregnant, go back to bed."

However, she, at least, did know she was pregnant. Now that I am pregnant, I still don't see how anyone could get to 8 months without knowing. There's just too much weird stuff going on with your body during that time to not think....gee, something is up here...

cherry pie · Sep 29th, 2007, 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by kimberf

However, she, at least, did know she was pregnant. Now that I am pregnant, I still don't see how anyone could get to 8 months without knowing. There's just too much weird stuff going on with your body during that time to not think....gee, something is up here...

i did find it a little odd that a grown woman could not tell she was pregnant, she jut thought she was sick and was having VERY light periods.
mother and baby are home now and doing well, theyv called her kate.

kimberf · Sep 29th, 2007, 03:13 PM

I'm glad that she's happy and little Kate is doing well. Hopefully they'll get lots of support and love. I wish them all the best!

emmalawyer · Sep 29th, 2007, 04:38 PM

Congratulations to both mommy and baby!

I do wonder though to what she may have attributed the baby's movements and kicks.... I know I've been feeling the twins move like little fiends lately (and this will only get stronger) and if I didn't know I was pregnant I'd probably be in the emergency psych ward claiming that my body has been taken over by aliens

All that matters though is that both mommy and baby are at home now --happy and healthy.

karo · Oct 3rd, 2007, 07:21 AM

Congratulations! This is such a crazy story. Best wishes to them.

Sep 27th, 2007, 06:52 PM	#1
cherry pie Member Location: cloud 9	total shock! new baby in the family my cousin has been having some mental health problems and his girl friend (tiny little petite girl) broke up with him in february. she had been having some bad stomach pains and was admitted to hospital last month and told she was 8 months pregnant! not showing at all. she had an adorable little girl this morning 6lb 40z, no name yet. its brought them back together but not in a relationship just to care for their new baby. i feel so sorry for her and its such a tricky situation but both are doing well and she is so happy!

Sep 27th, 2007, 07:02 PM	#2
SOUTHERNGAL87 Melissa Location: DeRBy CiTy	Re: total shock! new baby in the family Aww Congrats! Thats coo crazy i hope i dont show lol! ya rite! Go0d Luck to your cousin and the mom! __________________ MeL

Sep 28th, 2007, 03:30 AM	#3
listrikmu first letter H... Location: Singapura oh Singapura!	Re: total shock! new baby in the family Auwww... I love baby news! Congrats to your cuz & the baby's mummy. Hope that they can at least be a loving & supporting family unit...for the baby's sake. __________________ Its time to expand the collection.... and 'brood'

Sep 28th, 2007, 03:31 AM	#4
TammyD Rising Star Location: the global village	Re: total shock! new baby in the family That's really nice! I wish I was 8 months preggers before realising it :))

Sep 28th, 2007, 04:22 AM	#5
ms p I <3 Bags (Banned!)	Re: total shock! new baby in the family it's amazing whenever i read about girls being pregnant and doesn't show + they do not know they are pregnant. hope they are handling parenthood well as they didn't have much time to be prepared before the baby arrives. so glad that the mother is happy . __________________ .

Sep 28th, 2007, 08:25 PM	#6
LVmom sleepless in The Lou Location: St.Louis	Re: total shock! new baby in the family Congratulations! __________________ http://iwannabeacelebbutimtoopoortoa....blogspot.com/

Sep 28th, 2007, 08:44 PM	#7
bellacherie Enthusiast Location: Australia	Re: total shock! new baby in the family Wow! I always hear of things like this but find it hard to believe! Thanks for confirming that it actually happens! Hope the baby is well. __________________ On a quest to find the perfect bag DONE (and eat my vegetables) STILL WORKING ON IT The story so far: Chloe Paddington - 06 Chocolat, 05 Craie, 05 Sable, 07 Argent Baby, 06 Muscade Baby, 06 Jeans Moyen, 06 Blanc Small Front Pocket, 07 Blanc baby, 06 Gris Vert, 06 Whiskey, 05 Grenat, 05 Chocolat Louis Vuitton - Speedy 30, Speedy 25, Petit Noe, Neverfull PM

Sep 28th, 2007, 11:23 PM	#8
kimberf Member Location: California	Re: total shock! new baby in the family I know someone who got pregnant when she was 17 (my brother's ex-girlfriend - this happened before they met). She had a really bad relationship with her family, so never mentioned it. She apparently never got very big, though she said a little bigger. She went into labor in the middle of winter in Wisconsin, and her car was snowed in. When she went to wake her dad up to take her to the hospital because she was in labor and couldn't get her car out, he said, "You're not pregnant, go back to bed." However, she, at least, did know she was pregnant. Now that I am pregnant, I still don't see how anyone could get to 8 months without knowing. There's just too much weird stuff going on with your body during that time to not think....gee, something is up here...

Sep 29th, 2007, 03:13 PM	#10
kimberf Member Location: California	Re: total shock! new baby in the family I'm glad that she's happy and little Kate is doing well. Hopefully they'll get lots of support and love. I wish them all the best!

Sep 29th, 2007, 04:38 PM	#11
emmalawyer BLITHERING FOOL Location: with the teething twins!	Re: total shock! new baby in the family Congratulations to both mommy and baby! I do wonder though to what she may have attributed the baby's movements and kicks.... I know I've been feeling the twins move like little fiends lately (and this will only get stronger) and if I didn't know I was pregnant I'd probably be in the emergency psych ward claiming that my body has been taken over by aliens All that matters though is that both mommy and baby are at home now --happy and healthy. __________________ signature too large “Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.” --Dr. Seuss ( lil Bitsy's favorite bedtime reading) Last edited by emmalawyer; Sep 29th, 2007 at 04:40 PM.

Oct 3rd, 2007, 07:21 AM	#12
karo Member Location: Brussels, Europe	Re: total shock! new baby in the family Congratulations! This is such a crazy story. Best wishes to them.