Hi. I was in the same position a few months ago and posted the following thread. Thanks to the wonderful ladies who responded, I felt much better and prepared going into my c section.
Positive experience with C section?
Mine was a piece of cake - I am not promoting it or saying yours will be the same but keep in mind c sections are the most commonly performed surgery in the US so the doctors are very skilled.
As far as tips go ... talk to your OB about the surgery. And also talk to the anesthesiologist. Ask him/her what kind of pain medications will be used during and after the surgery. I got a spinal block and I did not feel a thing, not even the tiny needle going in. Ask for the catheter to be put in after the pain medication is administered - your hospital may already do this but it's always a good idea to make sure. During the surgery, try to relax and talk to your SO if he is allowed in there. If your doctors play music in the OR see if they can play your choice - I know it sounds silly but it really relaxed me and took my mind off of things a little.
Afterwards, make sure you take the pain meds as prescribed. Talk to your OB. I switched to Motrin after a day and had no negative side effects, and I was off of it completely just a few days later. No pain, and no difficulty moving around, just a bit of soreness in the belly which made it hard to cough. Get up and move around as soon as you are allowed to, but take it slow at first.
My recovery was very good, no complications, no pain. I hope yours will be the same!
I found some websites that were very helpful, one of which was this
http://www.radmid.demon.co.uk/csgood.htm
Anyway, I can go on and on. Please feel free to PM me. Don't worry ... if I could give you only one advice it would be to keep in mind that compared to raising the baby, the delivery is nothing!
Good luck,and congratulations!