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exotikittenx · Jun 23rd, 2009, 11:04 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss.

ilovepinkhearts · Jun 23rd, 2009, 11:27 PM

you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. im so very sorry.

.:Sprigged:. · Jun 23rd, 2009, 11:33 PM

I am deeply sorry.

No Cute · Jun 23rd, 2009, 11:54 PM

My deepest sympathies. What a terrible nightmare to hear those words. I'm so very sorry.

Could they be wrong? Could dates be off? Was there a h/b before and now not? Oh, I'm so praying some horrible mistake was made.

The hospital bereavement program can help you before or when you arrive if surgery is definite. But if they don't come down, do ask for them. Most hospitals have a program. And something I didn't know when I miscarried my first and third pregnancies was that I could have had my babies cremated, or had a full funeral, if I wanted. Not every mother needs the same things, of course, but these are options. You are the Mommy, and the hospital must follow your instructions on how your child is treated, even after d&c. I say this because I wish I'd known.

I'm just so so sorry.

AuthenticLux · Jun 24th, 2009, 12:08 AM

I just want to thank you all for your thoughts, words, and prayers. I can honestly say that it really does mean the world to me.

I am just trying to digest this information as it's only been 5 hours since we got the news.

Thank you again and I am sorry for all of you that have suffered a loss.

Charlie · Jun 24th, 2009, 12:09 AM

I am very sorry to hear about your baby. I can only imagine what you are going through. Hang in there *hugs*

olialm1 · Jun 24th, 2009, 12:19 AM

hugs your way :(

carvedwords · Jun 24th, 2009, 01:24 AM

I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you.

oonik · Jun 24th, 2009, 01:51 AM

so sorry to hear of ur loss AL ! i understand how u feel and the best i can tell u now is to have lots of rest. take all the time u need to recover even if it means having someone else (ur mom or relative) to take care of ur kid so u can concentrate on resting. i wish u all the best...

Baby Boo · Jun 24th, 2009, 02:24 AM

i am so sorry AL! my prayers are with you

i_wona · Jun 24th, 2009, 06:41 AM

Originally Posted by No Cute

My deepest sympathies. What a terrible nightmare to hear those words. I'm so very sorry.

Could they be wrong? Could dates be off? Was there a h/b before and now not? Oh, I'm so praying some horrible mistake was made.

The hospital bereavement program can help you before or when you arrive if surgery is definite. But if they don't come down, do ask for them. Most hospitals have a program. And something I didn't know when I miscarried my first and third pregnancies was that I could have had my babies cremated, or had a full funeral, if I wanted. Not every mother needs the same things, of course, but these are options. You are the Mommy, and the hospital must follow your instructions on how your child is treated, even after d&c. I say this because I wish I'd known.

I'm just so so sorry.

Good advice... and I was wondering about these questions too. Is there any hope, AuthenticLux?

I am so sorry, there are no words.

La Vanguardia · Jun 24th, 2009, 06:50 AM

I'm so sorry.

alo6 · Jun 24th, 2009, 07:22 AM

I am so sorry AL. Sending you a big hug (((((((

)))))))

birkin girl · Jun 24th, 2009, 08:18 AM

Ah no...So sorry to hear this news....Take care of yourself...

frenchiefan · Jun 24th, 2009, 08:30 AM

Oh dear...I am sorry AL. Thoughts and prayers are with you...

Any chance your dates were off and the HB's not showing up at 6 weeks?

Jun 23rd, 2009, 11:04 PM	#31
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Jun 23rd, 2009, 11:27 PM	#32
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Jun 23rd, 2009, 11:33 PM	#33
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Jun 23rd, 2009, 11:54 PM	#34
No Cute Member Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 7,557	My deepest sympathies. What a terrible nightmare to hear those words. I'm so very sorry. Could they be wrong? Could dates be off? Was there a h/b before and now not? Oh, I'm so praying some horrible mistake was made. The hospital bereavement program can help you before or when you arrive if surgery is definite. But if they don't come down, do ask for them. Most hospitals have a program. And something I didn't know when I miscarried my first and third pregnancies was that I could have had my babies cremated, or had a full funeral, if I wanted. Not every mother needs the same things, of course, but these are options. You are the Mommy, and the hospital must follow your instructions on how your child is treated, even after d&c. I say this because I wish I'd known. I'm just so so sorry.
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Jun 24th, 2009, 12:08 AM	#35
AuthenticLux OP B is for Barenia Joined: Feb 2007 Location: San Francisco Posts: 2,297	I just want to thank you all for your thoughts, words, and prayers. I can honestly say that it really does mean the world to me. I am just trying to digest this information as it's only been 5 hours since we got the news. Thank you again and I am sorry for all of you that have suffered a loss.
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Jun 24th, 2009, 12:09 AM	#36
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Jun 24th, 2009, 12:19 AM	#37
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Jun 24th, 2009, 01:24 AM	#38
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Jun 24th, 2009, 01:51 AM	#39
oonik Member Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 677	so sorry to hear of ur loss AL ! i understand how u feel and the best i can tell u now is to have lots of rest. take all the time u need to recover even if it means having someone else (ur mom or relative) to take care of ur kid so u can concentrate on resting. i wish u all the best...
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Jun 24th, 2009, 02:24 AM	#40
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Jun 24th, 2009, 06:50 AM	#42
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Jun 24th, 2009, 07:22 AM	#43
alo6 Member Joined: Mar 2007 Location: London Posts: 823	I am so sorry AL. Sending you a big hug ((((((()))))))
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Jun 24th, 2009, 08:18 AM	#44
birkin girl Member Joined: Jun 2006 Posts: 1,817	Ah no...So sorry to hear this news....Take care of yourself...
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Jun 24th, 2009, 08:30 AM	#45
frenchiefan Member Joined: Jan 2006 Location: USA Posts: 2,694	Oh dear...I am sorry AL. Thoughts and prayers are with you... Any chance your dates were off and the HB's not showing up at 6 weeks?

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