Do you...

iwant2takeanap · Sep 28th, 2007, 06:54 PM

spoile your children? if so, with what?

I try to give everything to my 5 yr old daughter - even though I know I should not because she just does not deserve it, but I lover her and I want her to be happy!!!

ms p · Sep 29th, 2007, 12:34 AM

i hope i don't lol #1 is still inside me

. seriously if i start spoiling them since young i'm real scare of having a grown up spoile kid eventually who can't think for themselves/ support themselves.

just a question why do u think she does not deserve it? i think it's nature we want to pamper our kids

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Needanotherbag · Sep 29th, 2007, 12:39 AM

I wouldnt say my son is spoiled, he doesn't get everything he asks for, but then again he doesnt really know how great he has it. I do spoil him with love though, I see nothing wrong with covering him with hugs, kisses, letting him sleep in my room on the weekends, telling him I love him 100's of times aday - he has turned into such a loving child, and if and when I get pg with #2, I will spoil them with love as well!

jfhave · Oct 3rd, 2007, 02:23 AM

No, I truly try not to. Spoiled kids will usually never learn to appreciate things and that could create a monter imo...

TammyD · Oct 3rd, 2007, 03:18 AM

James Dobson's book, Dare to Discipline, gives terrific tips on how to avoid spoiling your child. I read it before DD even arrived and love his ideas.

Sep 29th, 2007, 12:39 AM	#3
Needanotherbag is done for now	Re: Do you... I wouldnt say my son is spoiled, he doesn't get everything he asks for, but then again he doesnt really know how great he has it. I do spoil him with love though, I see nothing wrong with covering him with hugs, kisses, letting him sleep in my room on the weekends, telling him I love him 100's of times aday - he has turned into such a loving child, and if and when I get pg with #2, I will spoil them with love as well! __________________ Carpe Bargain...Seize the deal Someday, a Sunburst Stam in Orchid....or a Cecilia in Grey...oh, and the ever elusive Silvana in Cognac.

Oct 3rd, 2007, 02:23 AM	#4
jfhave Member Location: Florida	Re: Do you... No, I truly try not to. Spoiled kids will usually never learn to appreciate things and that could create a monter imo...

Oct 3rd, 2007, 03:18 AM	#5
TammyD Rising Star Location: the global village	Re: Do you... James Dobson's book, Dare to Discipline, gives terrific tips on how to avoid spoiling your child. I read it before DD even arrived and love his ideas.

Sep 28th, 2007, 06:54 PM	#1
iwant2takeanap Sofa King Banned Location: at my house	Do you... spoile your children? if so, with what? I try to give everything to my 5 yr old daughter - even though I know I should not because she just does not deserve it, but I lover her and I want her to be happy!!!

Sep 29th, 2007, 12:34 AM	#2
ms p I <3 Bags (Banned!)	Re: Do you... i hope i don't lol #1 is still inside me . seriously if i start spoiling them since young i'm real scare of having a grown up spoile kid eventually who can't think for themselves/ support themselves. just a question why do u think she does not deserve it? i think it's nature we want to pamper our kids . __________________ .