Why would you listen to what men have to say about implants? It's
your body and you have lots of choices to make when it comes to your breast augmentation. You need to educate yourself and make choices that are best for you - not choices that are best for anyone else.
Silicone does feel more like natural breast tissue than saline. Also, silicone implants are much less likely to cause rippling. Your decision, in part, should depend upon how much natural breast tissue you have. If you have a fair amount of breast tissue, then the "feel" of the implant is not quite as critical because the implants will have adequate coverage by your own breast tissue (therefore, making your breasts still feel soft).
There are disadvantages to silicone too. They are more expensive. They can also be a bit more difficult to work with (sometimes requiring a slightly larger incision than saline), which is why it is critical that you find a superior plastic surgeon. The biggest issue with silicone, is that a rupture is typically not immediately noticeable. A leak in a silicone implant tends to drain slowly (as opposed to a "gush" of saline that is absorbed into the body). As you probably know, studies have shown no evidence between silicone and long-term bodily harm, but silicone that leaks into the body can be more difficult (and more expensive) to repair/replace should a rupture occur.
FYI, there is a thread about breast implants in here and you can probably find some great information there.
Best of luck on your choices