Originally Posted by k2sealer
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I think you have bigger problem than just labeling her bottle. First of all, does she even care whether she has a drink bottle or not? If she doesn't care, stop replacing it. If she gets thirsty, she can drink out of the water fountain. If she does care, you need to figure out a way to get her invested in being responsible for her own bottle. If it was my DS (10 years old) I would take him to the store and let him pick out the bottle he wanted. But then he would have to earn it. This can be chores, or reading books, or using birthday money, etc. If he lost the bottle, I would ask him how he planned on replacing it. I highly recommend any Love & Logic books. They are really good at showing you how to express love but still teach your kids how to be responsible. No yelling or threats, just empathy and letting them suffer natural consequences. If you continue to lose something, you either go without it, or you figure out how to replace it. And Mommy or Daddy just buying a new one isn't the solution.
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That is amazing advice! I don't have children but something tells me I will be buying a few copies of this book and giving them out at baby showers.
OP, sorry to hijack your thread.
You could switch her water bottle to stainless steel and have her name etched on the side - as big or small as you like.