I just wanna say I think this thread is great! I have been very shy my whole life, and might find this useful at some point. When I first joined tpf I thought I'd be able to talk about anything. But, stupid me, wasn't thinking and used my real first name (somewhat). I have family and friends that know I'm a member (cause I love tpf!) so it would be nice to be able to get some opinions and answers and not have those I know reading my personal stuff! Thanks to everyone that volunteered! You're all great-and brave!